How Being A "Nice Guy" Is Sabotaging Your Relationships

The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s CharismaSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandHere, we try to look into the dangerous side of Tom Cruise's charisma. Tom Cruise is known as one of the most charismatic celebrities in Hollywood. When Rolling Stone writer and author Neil Strauss met him, he described him as “the perfect specimen” who has “a natural ability to remain dominant in any social situation without seeming to exert any effort.”As amazing as that sounds, that kind of superhuman charisma does have a dangerous downside. And it’s both of those things that we’re going to explore in this video: the specific behaviors that make Tom Cruise such a dominant social force. And the potential cost of being so charismatic. Below are the ones that make him so charismatic.0:36 Tom Cruise commands his physical space as in The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon 2:20 He genuinely smiles all the time and with other celebrities2:53 He mentions the name of the person he's talking to as in this NBC interview3:37 Tom Cruise keeps eye contact and in Oprah as well4:28 His talent in conversation also shows when he leans in when talkingSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Subscribe to get more videos like this:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThis video is about how to be happier for the rest of your life, starting today. We’re going to cover 3 common mindsets that lead to unhappiness. Most people don’t even realize they have these mindsets, or if they do, they don’t know how to stop them. We’ll also discuss some lessons from Stoicism so that you can feel more joy every day. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:16 - #1: Unmet desire4:12 - #2: Isolated upward comparison7:26 - #3: Expectations--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#Stoicism #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Links:“You Are Living The Dream Life” meditation:https://dynamic.wakingup.com/course/CO6B78897 Waking Up app free trial:https://www.wakingup.com/jayshetty Invisible People:https://www.youtube.com/@InvisiblePeopleSpecial Books By Special Kids:https://www.youtube.com/@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids Breathwork for internally generated peace and joy:https://youtu.be/hzwVp7W-ghM?si=SBpSlg1SGCJNBmpnCharisma University:https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ More Celebrities On Being Rich But Unhappy:https://youtu.be/0N19fJbA6GQ?si=jxW_pdLLPabefakRhttps://youtu.be/6Fvmq638E3Y?si=q71eMer9csvRbEGEhttps://youtu.be/KqtRTc3VYq4?si=jeHrLMenMrjlIhauhttps://youtu.be/WrkT079iRYU?si=oVW1zJzop0p12FQOhttps://youtu.be/1ebEIhS0Zms?si=pKULiWHkQBqOGF_v https://youtu.be/6RcrnuZg_Z4?si=cWR554On8WzNUlEF https://youtu.be/Xn9olk63hVE?si=u3og8q_PWrN-nnWHhttps://youtu.be/IHJSWDSlie8?si=22tRnla-xdVpC445https://youtu.be/Zz5DHufWlCM?si=TGYXIF_PTtb1T9zDhttps://youtu.be/OmWrqelCAJA?si=6Tg45Jum7sJl8G8u Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3FL8h6uSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we are reacting to cringe, and we will try to find out how you can save an awkward situation and turn it into a fun interaction! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:54 - #1: Crack an understated joke.2:01 - #2: Lower the filter.4:16 - #3: Acknowledge the situation.4:52 - #4: See yourself out and never come back.8:01 - #5: Go first.Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCLoganNarcissismSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeNarcissistic and manipulative behavior can wind up destroying your life, and it can be tough to spot, especially when it’s coming from someone you trust.So in this video you’ll learn 5 red flags that you’re being narcissistically manipulated. You can also use these as signs that you’ve slipped into narcissistic tendencies yourself, so you can cut them out before damaging your relationships.We’ll be using Logan Paul’s reaction to Coffeezilla calling out his cryptozoo project for examples.Links:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-fugWMBwCg&t=1s&ab_channel=Coffeezillahttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Evs2Hcn3nMY&ab_channel=IMPAULSIVEhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viiuS8bOuGE⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:50 - Red Flag 1: Morphing critisism.2:15 - Red Flag 2: Spending more time on their feelings than yours.4:17 - Red Flag 3: Repeatedly insisting on having good intentions.5:20 - Red Flag 4: Projecting badness onto those poking at their self-image.6:14 - Red Flag 5: Narcissistic rage.7:08 - Final Point: Narcissism is not excessive self-love. It’s a lack of self-love.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #LoganPaul #Coffeezilla #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXozaLearning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Louis CK Makes Everything FunnyDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2BOd1InThe humor breakdown I mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRjRgT8QQ3cLouis CK is one of the most respected comedians in the world. And part of it is because he seems so effortlessly funny. There’s no big action like Jim Carrey or Robin Williams, no elaborately clever set ups, just simple truths that make audiences crack upBut it’s not that simple. Because while the truth makes for good art, it isn’t always funny. Louis CK has devised a way of delivering his stories and jokes in packages that are different from what most of us do. And because of that he’s able to create hilarious moments from everyday commentary. Today we’re going to explore 3 of Louis techniques that will make you make just about anything funnier1:00 Louis CK times it where this Stephen Colbert clip shows4:24 Louis CK repeats the punchline like in this Jimmy Fallon clip 7:27 Louis CK acts his jokes out like in The Tonight Show and moreSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3udCRxISubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeLook under any YouTube video of Simu Liu and you'll see commenters praising his charisma. He’s new to being an A-list celebrity, but he’s making an incredible first impression.So in this video, we’ll go through 6 mistakes most people make during their first impressions, and 6 habits you can learn from Simu that will let you make an amazing first impression instead. These habits are super easy to do, most people just don’t think to do them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:37 - Make A Strong EntranceMistake: thinking a first impression starts when you start speaking2:03 - Get comfortable taking up the space around youMistake: keeping your arms tight to your body while you speak3:30 - Look for Observational Compliments early in the interactionMistake: trying to be “cool” by coming in aloof or standoffish4:34 - Elevate the people around youMistake: focusing solely on trying to make yourself look good5:29 - Be an Encouraging ListenerMistake: thinking that to make a good impression, you have to do all the talking7:20 - Have great answers for the questions you know you’re likely to be askedMistake: having boring answers to the standard questions you know are coming--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#SimuLiu #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/7G2Go26 Mindsets That Will Make You MagneticWhen it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally. In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you.Those charismatic beliefs are 1. No matter what, I will be okay2. I care more about my character than my reputation3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything5. I share my purpose proactively6. I go there first in humanizing interactionIf you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupertSnapchat: @charliehoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 21,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-00225Full podcast episode:https://youtu.be/SRLljn_GEHk?si=flYq1iwyUwEC22-TThe most underrated social skill is so subtle it often goes unnoticed—but it has the power to change lives, including yours. In this video, I reveal the transformative art of "holding space," a skill that's not about fixing, advising, or encouraging, but simply being present for someone in their moments of vulnerability.Through Theo Von's deeply empathetic interaction with Sean Strickland, who shares harrowing stories of his past, we explore how this skill can create profound connections. You'll learn to recognize dissociation, switch conversational modes, and offer support without an agenda.0:00 - Intro0:11 - Here is the skill0:46 - Disconnected emotions1:32 - The underlying emotions break through1:57 - Switch conversational modes3:49 - Just listen4:45 - Encourage emotional exploration Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandWritten by:Charlie HoupertEdited by:Io AnastasakiHenry HoupertAndre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Nice Guy Paradox: How Being A "Nice Guy" Is Sabotaging Your Relationships And How To Get More Of What You Want In Life.Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe "Nice Guy" gets harpooned in today's society. We're told that nice guys finish last, that nice guys can't get the girl. And this is true of nice women as well. I completely disagree. I think that might be true of a weak person, an indecisive person, someone who lacks confidence or people skills.A "nice guy" can be an incredibly charismatic, strong leading, attractive person. Now that being said, there IS a habit that I see from "nice" people that is sabotaging your relationships. And there's a better way of doing things that can help you get more of what you want while conveying extreme levels of confidence and will make people respect you more.* I'm appreciative to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy and to Landmark Forum. Both contributed to my learning this about myself and starting to observe it in others *1:12 Build confidence and stop scorekeeping as Dr. Robert Glover say2:08 As Dr. Robert Glover said about the nice guy syndrome where guilt is instilled3:58 Nice guys finish last because of the reply no and present being a nice guy4:42 Not necessarily how to stop being nice or how to ask for love but a tip for common caseConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @IamBenAltmanInstagram: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices