Main Character Energy (Part 2): Stop Abandoning Yourself & Become the Woman Who Shows Up

Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio 💋 This episode is Part 2 of the Main Character Energy series, and honestly… it gets juicier! If you've ever caught yourself saying "I can't stay consistent," "I do great until I get stressed," or "every new year I fall back into the same patterns," this episode is absolutely for you. In this conversation, I'm breaking down what really happens when you abandon yourself and why piling on new habits, new plans, and new goals never works if your identity hasn't shifted first. We're talking about main character energy as a mindset, not an aesthetic, why doing less is often the real key to lasting change, and how a lack of boundaries keeps you stuck in the same cycles year after year. I also unpack the real reason New Year's resolutions fail and what it actually takes to become the woman who shows up for herself! You don't need another plan. You need to become the woman who executes. Let's get into it. 🔥 Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #MainCharacterEnergy #ConsistencyMindset #SelfAbandonment   Key Takeaways: 00:18 Stepping Into Main Character Energy 00:52 Why Identity Is Everything (And How It Shapes Your Life) 03:55 My Bodybuilding Era + What It Taught Me 04:59 Life After Bodybuilding (And Feeling Lost AF) 13:54 The Mr. Miyagi Method (Wax On, Wax Off) 18:18 How to Create Real Change by Shifting Your Identity 22:41 Becoming the Woman You're Meant to Be   Links Mentioned:  Be sure to listen to Part 1 of this series before or after this episode: https://youtu.be/7LBeYZXrh5A Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q   Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30     Connect with Diane: Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro  Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro    Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint  Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide  Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program  Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide  My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements 

What if weight loss was never the real goal? In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I'm breaking down the real reason so many women struggle to stay consistent and it has nothing to do with willpower, motivation, or the "perfect plan." Today, we're diving deep into what it actually means to become the main character of your life - the woman who no longer chases weight loss, but naturally makes decisions from her highest good. If you're trying to live a Level 10 life but feel like you're operating from a Level 2 identity… this episode is your wake-up call. This is your software upgrade for 2026. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #MainCharacterEnergy #IdentityShift #WeightLossMindset   Key Takeaways: 00:18 Stepping Into Main Character Energy 00:52 Why Identity Is Everything (And How It Shapes Your Life) 03:55 My Bodybuilding Era + What It Taught Me 04:59 Life After Bodybuilding (And Feeling Lost AF) 13:54 The Mr. Miyagi Method (Wax On, Wax Off) 18:18 How to Create Real Change by Shifting Your Identity 22:41 Becoming the Woman You're Meant to Be   Links Mentioned:  Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30   Connect with Diane: Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro  Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro    Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint  Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide  Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program  Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide  My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements 

If your January plan sounds like punishment, restriction, or "I just need to get back on track," this episode is for you. In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, we're talking about an identity hangover - the space where your old diet culture identity doesn't fit anymore, but your brain keeps trying to live there anyway! This conversation is for the woman who misses feeling confident in her body but refuses to go back to obsession to get it. We're unpacking why living like your life is one long diet cut stops working, why rest can feel like failure, and why chasing another plan, program, or motivation spike isn't the glow-up you think it is. If you're heading into 2026 ready to stop shrinking, stop white-knuckling results, and start feeling powerful again, press play. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #MainCharacterEnergy #IdentityShift #DietCultureRecovery    Key Takeaways: 00:52 Life after bodybuilding and extreme dieting 01:26 Identity shifts and real transformation 03:43 Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass details 07:12 How to tell if you're in an identity hangover 10:57 Letting go of old identities that no longer fit 14:28 When obsession starts costing you your peace 17:33 Stepping into who you actually are 17:47 How to stay connected (newsletter info) 24:46 Choosing confidence and happiness now 25:52 Identity comes first, habits come second 27:09 Why unsustainable plans are a red flag 32:43 Practical ways to activate main character energy 36:16 Setting boundaries and learning to ask for help 40:35 Join the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass   Links Mentioned:  Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Catch up on the latest episode in our Main Character Energy series, "How to Stop Playing Small and Finally Change," here - https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/main-character-energy-how-to-stop-playing-small-and-finally-change Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30   Connect with Diane: Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro  Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro    Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint  Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide  Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program  Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide  My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements 

Christmas Eve isn't always cozy lights and perfect vibes. Sometimes it's pressure, family triggers, body comments, food guilt, grief, loneliness, and feeling like you have to perform and call it love. In this Christmas Eve truth talk, I'm speaking directly to you. No fluff. No toxic positivity. Just real talk about boundaries, protecting your energy, and reminding you that you do not have to earn rest or shrink yourself to keep other people comfortable! If you're feeling overwhelmed, triggered, lonely, numb, or just "off" this holiday season, you're not broken. You're human. And you're not alone. This episode is permission to rest, speak up, leave early, eat the cookie, take the walk, and choose yourself without guilt. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #ChristmasStress #HolidayBoundaries #ProtectYourPeace   Key Takeaways: 02:15 Boundaries, self care, and protecting your energy 04:12 Newsletter, retreats, and what's coming next 05:42 A simple Christmas Eve boundary plan 08:19 Breath work for anxiety and overwhelm 09:08 Final reminders before you head back into the chaos   Links Mentioned:  Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30   Connect with Diane: Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro  Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro    Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint  Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide  Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program  Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide  My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements 

If you're listening to this during the Christmas holiday week and feeling a little on edge, this episode is for you! In today's episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I'm sharing a real coaching call conversation about control - the sneaky kind that looks like being responsible on the outside but feels like anxiety on the inside. Yep, that kind. We talk about why so many women struggle to let go, how trying to control people and situations steals our peace, damages relationships, and keeps us from being present in our own lives. I share personal stories (including my days as a reformed control freak), signs you might be holding onto control without realizing it, and simple mindset shifts to help you release what's not yours to carry! This is a gentle reminder that you don't have to manage everything, fix everyone, or hold it all together to be worthy or safe. Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #mentalstrength #overthinking #anxietyrelief #mindsetforwomen Key Takeaways: 00:24 Holiday Stress + Why We Try to Control Everything 00:55 A Real Coaching Call Conversation 01:59 Quick Reminder: Main Character Energy Masterclass 02:57 Mentally Strong People Don't Obsess Over Control 04:46 Real-Life Control Freak Stories (Yep, Me Too) 06:51 Doing a Control Check-In (Be Honest) 09:45 Why Asking for Help Is Actually Powerful 13:25 How to "Bless and Release" in Real Life 17:41 Locus of Control Explained in Plain English 25:44 How to Influence Without Controlling 27:36 Acceptance, Letting Go, and Finding Peace 30:52 Choosing Calm Over Chaos 34:47 Final Thoughts + Masterclass Invite Links Mentioned:  Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30  

If you've ever felt like you "fall off" your health, fitness, or self-care goals… this episode is for you. Today's conversation is pulled straight from a Healthy & Hot membership call, where we go way deeper than workouts or meal plans. We're talking about the real reason consistency feels so hard and why it's not because you're lazy, broken, or lacking discipline. This episode is all about main character energy, identity shifts, and what actually needs to happen before you set goals for 2026. Because if you don't change the woman making the decisions, you'll just repeat the same cycle with a shiny new plan. If you're tired of collecting programs that never stick and you're ready to stop sleepwalking into another year, this is your wake-up call! Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #PersonalGrowthForWomen #MindsetShift #ConsistencyMindset   Key Takeaways: 01:08 Life updates + holiday vibes 02:41 Main character energy going into 2026 04:44 Why mindset matters more than workouts 05:06 Main Character Energy Masterclass details 06:35 A reminder that life is precious 08:16 Fear, change, and doing it anyway 09:34 How change actually happens (and taking action) 13:16 Get on the newsletter list 14:38 Imposter syndrome + facing your fears 22:48 Big takeaways + final thoughts Links Mentioned:  Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30

Unpopular truth: the reason most women struggle with health, fitness, confidence, and follow-through isn't because they don't know what to eat or how to work out - it's because they're still making decisions from an old identity. In the first episode of my Main Character Energy series, I'm breaking down why identity shifting is the real missing piece behind lasting change (and why motivation alone never works). I'm sharing my personal evolution, why autopilot habits keep you stuck, and yes… why we're starting this series with makeup (stick with me). We'll talk surprising facts about appearance, how small rituals change how you show up, my own main character makeup routine (even if you're not a makeup girly), and how this deeper identity work actually makes results stick -  not just in January, but for good. If you're done with your old bullshit and ready to step into your main character era, you're in the right place! Sign up for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #IdentityShift #SelfConcept #PersonalGrowth   Key Takeaways: 00:41 What Boss Bitch Radio is all about 01:31 Quick rundown of the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass 02:57 Why identity shifts matter (and why we're talking about makeup) 13:24 Let's talk appearance and why it actually matters 18:18 My personal story + identity shifts over the years 24:41 Simple main character makeup rituals to try 32:24 Your growth assignment + wrapping things up   Links Mentioned:  Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30

If you've ever been curious about period underwear but also kinda scared to try it… this is your episode. Today I'm chatting with Arielle Loupos, founder of FlowerGirl, and her story, her mission, and her product completely blew me away. Arielle creates non-toxic, beautifully designed period underwear  including the viral period thong and let me tell you… I was skeptical. Then I tried it, fell in love, messaged her immediately, and said: "You need to come on the podcast."  In this episode, we get super real. We talk about why traditional period care (tampons, pads, cups, discs) can cause problems, why so many women deal with cramps and PMS that aren't actually "normal," and how materials, toxins, and synthetic fibers impact our hormones more than we think. Arielle shares her journey from e-commerce to product creation, what it really takes to make functional, sexy, non-toxic underwear, and how she's disrupting a category that desperately needs it. We also dig into the misconceptions around period underwear - the "diaper feeling" myth, the fear of leaks, the cleaning process, and why so many women are shocked once they finally try a pair. And of course, I share my own story of trying the FlowerGirl thong on my heaviest day… and becoming immediately obsessed!  You've been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/burn-out-to-boss-bitch Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #WomensHealth #WomensWellness  #MenstrualHealth    Key Takeaways: 00:35 – Meet Arielle + the magic behind FlowerGirl period underwear! 01:03 – My first reaction to period underwear (and why I'm now obsessed) 03:55 – Arielle's journey + how she created the product 08:24 – The biggest myths about period underwear (and the real benefits) 19:08 – What's in the FlowerGirl lineup + what's coming next 24:00 – Final thoughts + where you can check out FlowerGirl 28:58 – Wrapping it up + your little call to action   Links Mentioned:  Try the period underwear I'm obsessed with: https://flowergirl.co/BOSS15 Don't forget code BOSS15 for 15% off! Follow FlowerGirl on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowergirl.co_/?hl=en Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-and-hot-method Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30   Connect with Diane: Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro  Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro    Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint  Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide  Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program  Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide  My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements 

If you've ever wondered whether your pelvic floor issues are "normal"… this episode is for you. Today I'm sitting down with pelvic health expert Dr. Sarah Tally to talk about the things women whisper about, ignore, or think they just have to "deal with" as they get older - leaking, urgency, pain with sex, constipation, postpartum changes, perimenopause shifts, AND the stuff nobody warned us about. Sarah shares how she found her way into pelvic floor physical therapy, why women over 40 dismiss symptoms that actually aren't normal, and the surprising signs your pelvic floor needs support (even if you've never had kids). We dig into bladder habits, urgency triggers, constipation, painful intercourse, vaginal dryness, hormone changes, and why so many women are stuck thinking a "tiny bladder" is just their personality trait. You'll also learn simple strategies to calm urgency, retrain your bladder, and understand what's really going on with your pelvic floor - all in a down-to-earth, totally shame-free way! If you've ever peed a little when you laugh, felt like you need the bathroom every 10 minutes, or wondered whether dryness or pain is just part of getting older… this is your episode. Pull up a seat, get comfy, and let's talk about the stuff women deserve to understand. You've been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/burn-out-to-boss-bitch Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #pelvichealth #pelvicfloor #womenshealth   Key Takeaways: 00:00 – Kicking things off + a quick welcome 00:57 – Introducing Dr. Sarah Tilly 01:37 – How Dr. Tilly ended up in pelvic floor therapy 04:51 – The most common pelvic floor issues women deal with 06:31 – What this looks like for women over 40 08:34 – Why you feel like you always have to pee 12:13 – Simple tricks to calm bladder urgency 14:21 – Wrapping it up + final thoughts   Links Mentioned:  Stay connected with Dr. Sarah Tilly! Want more pelvic floor tips, education, and real-talk support? → Follow her on Instagram: @flooredpelvichealth → Visit her website: https://flooredpelvichealth.com/ Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-and-hot-method Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30   Connect with Diane: Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro  Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro    Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint  Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide  Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program  Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide  My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements 

In today's episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I'm sharing seven exercises that have absolutely nothing to do with the gym, your macros, or the perfect meal plan but have everything to do with why you aren't losing weight. After almost twenty years coaching women, I've seen over and over that the real struggle isn't usually about calories or workouts. It's the emotional load, the stress, the old stories we're still believing, and the way we keep putting everyone else first. This episode kicks off a deeper four-phase process I'm calling an iconic reclamation: regulate, reconnect, redefine, and reclaim.  I'm getting honest about the unconventional work that actually moves the needle, why therapy can be the most powerful weight-loss tool you're not using, and why doing less might be the thing that finally gets your body and mind back on track. If you're a high-performing woman who keeps starting and stopping programs and wondering why nothing sticks, this conversation is the missing piece! You've been running on empty long enough. Start the From Burnout to Boss Bitch masterclass today and learn how to finally breathe again → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/burn-out-to-boss-bitch Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter  #weightlossforwomen #weightlossjourney #mindset   Key Takeaways: 00:00 Let's talk about recycled thoughts and why your brain needs a dump 00:46 Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio 00:50 The seven exercises that help you lose weight without touching the gym 04:14 Exercise 1: Go to therapy 09:42 Exercise 2: Do less 12:45 Exercise 3: Have the hard conversation you've been avoiding 17:23 Exercise 4: Journal to get your mind straight 19:19 Exercise 5: Ask for what you actually need 23:18 Exercise 6: Move your body for joy 25:40 Exercise 7: Get honest about your coping mechanisms 28:22 Wrap up: Lean into the inner work and the journey ahead   Links Mentioned:  Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-and-hot-method  Catch our convo with Almost-Dr. Crystal where we dive into mental health and how it impacts your fitness journey → https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/312-mental-health-and-its-effects-on-fitness  Feel like you're outgrowing the old version of yourself? Don't miss "The OLD Me Had To Go" episode → https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/309-the-old-me-had-to-go Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30 Connect with Diane: Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro  Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro    Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint  Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide  Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program  Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide  My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements