403: [RANT] Stop Saying You’re All In If You’re Not

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, I sit down with Shaylee Williams, aka The Unfiltered Fit Mom, to talk about what it really takes to reach your fitness goals, and why the real secret is simply continuing to show up. We dive into Shaylee’s journey with CrossFit, the mindset that helped her finally hit a 300-lb back squat after years of trying, and the lessons she’s learned about mental toughness, self-doubt, and persistence along the way. We also talk about motherhood, competing for the experience, and why you don’t have to be elite to call yourself an athlete. If you’ve ever felt discouraged because progress is taking longer than you expected, this conversation is a reminder that consistency, not perfection, is what ultimately gets you there.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/404Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:Shaylee Williams’ Instagram

Send us Fan MailI’m back with another RANT episode. It’s been a while since I’ve done one. So, in today’s podcast, I’m getting honest about something I see all the time in the fitness space: people saying they’re “doing everything” when they really aren’t. Seeing what true bodybuilding prep actually looks like gave me a whole new perspective on what going all in really means. And the truth is, most of us aren’t doing everything we possibly could to reach our goals, and that’s completely okay. The problem is convincing yourself that you are. I also talk about the trade-offs that come with any goal, why “fence sitting” often leads to frustration, and the powerful difference between saying “I’ve done everything I can” and “I’ve done everything I’m willing to do.” If you’ve been feeling stuck or resentful in your journey, this might be the mindset shift you need.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/403Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:bicepsafterbabies.com/watchmycut

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, I’m sharing a Live Coaching session with Marissa where we talk about one of the most common struggles I see when starting MACROS 101: our relationship with the scale. If the number can instantly change your mood, make you question everything you’re doing, or tempt you to jump to the next plan, you’re not alone. We talk about the “messy middle,” why your brain craves certainty, and how learning to tolerate discomfort is the real key to long-term success. This episode isn’t just about the scale; it’s about building the emotional resilience to stay consistent and trust yourself through the process.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/402Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:bicepsafterbabies.com/waitlist

Send us Fan MailToday’s episode is a special one because I’m feeling that excitement again, being back behind the mic and now sharing the biggest lessons I’ve learned from 10 years of coaching and working with over 10,000 women. I dive into why macro tracking is a tool, not a diet, why progress doesn’t always look like success, and why mindset and self-trust matter more than perfect plans. I also talk about how to fit macros into your life, the key questions to ask before starting any fitness journey, and why this was never really about the food. If you’ve ever felt stuck or felt like you’ve failed before, this episode will help you look at your fitness journey through a completely new lens.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/401Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:bicepsafterbabies.com/trackingbootcamp

Send us Fan MailWe’ve hit another milestone episode! And that’s all thanks to you. In this episode, I’m sharing my personal 2026 New Year’s resolution and how I’m approaching goals differently this year. I will walk you through how I think about vision versus process goals, why your “why” matters more than doing things perfectly, and the simple daily practices I’m using to create more presence and peace. Whether you’re setting goals at the start of the year or redefining direction at any point, this episode will help you rethink goal-setting in a more grounded, sustainable way.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/400Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, I share an honest behind-the-scenes look at why I seriously considered stepping away from the podcast. I unpack a powerful lesson on pacing, from CrossFit to business, that helped me recognize burnout, challenge all-or-nothing thinking, and choose a more sustainable path forward. I also discuss how the rise of AI has influenced my desire to create more personal and authentic content in 2026. Listen in to hear what’s changing, why I’m slowing the pace instead of quitting, and how you can apply the same principle of sustainability in your own goals. Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/399Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:bicepsafterbabies.com/subscribe

Send us Fan MailWe’re wrapping up our final “Best of 2025” episode with a powerful replay from Episode 269, a Live Coaching session from inside MACROS 101. One of the reasons I’m such a believer in coaching is that it helps bridge the gap between knowledge and implementation. And often, hearing someone else get coached can spark breakthroughs you didn’t know you needed. In this episode, Elise opens up about her fear of both success and failure, and how self-doubt kept holding her back. Together, we walk through how to reprogram the brain, rewrite old stories, and step into the belief of “I am enough.” As we head into a new year, this conversation is the perfect reminder that real change starts with what you believe about yourself. Let’s dive in.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/398Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:Episode 269: How To Reprogram Your Brain To Believe "I Am Enough" | Live Coaching Session

Send us Fan MailToday’s “Best of 2025” episode takes us back to a listener favorite from Episode 261, perfect timing with Christmas just around the corner. Holiday parties, vacations, and festive foods can make macro tracking feel messy or downright impossible. So what do you do when you can’t track accurately? In this episode, I break down the most common mistakes people make when logging food, how to use macro counting as a tool (not something to stress over), and how to find a realistic balance between accuracy and enjoyment. If you’ve ever worried about “messing up” your tracking during the holidays, this conversation will give you clarity and confidence.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/397Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:Episode: 261: What If I Can’t Accurately Track What I Ate?www.bicepsafterbabies.com/164www.bicepsafterbabies.com/124

Send us Fan MailToday’s “Best of 2025” takes us back to Episode 313 with the incredible Dr. Stacy Sims, a renowned Exercise Physiologist and Nutrition Scientist. In this conversation, we dive into how women should approach training and nutrition, and why much of the existing research, historically centered on men, falls short for women. Dr. Sims breaks down what women truly need to fuel, including pre- and post-workout strategies, optimal energy sources, and ideal protein and carbohydrate intake. This episode blends science with practical, actionable advice to help women train smarter, fuel better, and feel more empowered in their fitness journeys. Don’t miss this standout conversation with Dr. Stacy Sims, it's a must-listen for anyone serious about understanding women’s health and performance.** Please note, as a “Best Of” episode, some of the links you’ll hear mentioned are no longer active. All currently working links that are referred to in the episode will be in the show notes on my website.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/396Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:Episode 313: Optimal Training and Nutrition Strategies for Women with Dr. Stacy SimsDr. Sims' Website, Instagram, FacebookGet your copy of ROAR (Revised Edition) Here

Send us Fan MailIn this next “Best of 2025” series, I’m bringing back a popular episode featuring my amazing husband, Dr. Taylor Brueseke. Together, we break down Wegovy, Ozempic, and Mounjaro to clear up common misconceptions. Dr. Brueseke explains how these medications work, what they’re intended for, and the potential side effects, while I share my personal experience to give you a real-life perspective on using them. Whether you’re a healthcare professional, someone navigating your own health journey, or simply curious, this episode will help you better understand these treatments. Let’s sort through the confusion and get to the truth about Wegovy, Ozempic, and Mounjaro. Let’s dive in!Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/395Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:Episode 317: I Was Wrong About Wegovy, Ozempic, and Mounjaro with Dr. Taylor Brueseke