Becumming boundary setters

This week Victoria and Essie talked all about different types of boundaries to set in relationships, so monogamous and non-monogamous or polyamorous lifestyles. They discuss their own trials with this as they navigate being polyamorous. And OF COURSE it wouldn’t be a great episode without the infamous sex-capade stories-and it involves orgies and fisting!

This week Essie and Victoria talk about jealousy and how it can arise in romantic/sexual relationships. They talk about personal experiences with jealousy in their current dating lives, and have a conversation on how to deal with this emotion. Follow Esperanza on @essenceofessie on Instagram and make sure you reach out with any feedback! 💕

Introducing the lovely Miss Victoria as a new Co-host to Becumming Liberated. The two sexually empowered women touch on their “sexcapades” of the week and then jump right into the topic of the week. They share early experiences and thoughts around masturbation and explore where the shame/guilt/embarrassment about pleasuring themselves came from and have an open conversation on how to empower the younger generation of women. Essie talks a little about a book she is reading “ All the F*cking Mistakes”, and how the author encourages having open and shameless discussions about self love with girls from a young age.

Join your host Essie as she records her first episode on how she became sexually liberated in her relationships by embracing her non monogamous mindset and stepping into the world of polyamory. Get to know your host a little bit as she vulnerably gives a little background on how she made this decision. The book mentioned is Ethical Slut third edition by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton. Follow her on Instagram and Tiktok @essenceofessie