128 | are you a people pleaser?

welcome to the last episode of season 4!!! can’t believe another season (and basically year) is gone, just like that 🥲 since we won't see ya'll until the new year, we used this episode to chat all things 2023: goals and themes that we had, how successful we were in achieving them, what we're prioritizing for 2024, and all the above! happy early holidays everyone!! stay safe, and thank you always for all your listens. we'll see you NEXT YEAR!! LOVE YOU ALL Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠

Surpriiiseeee, our first DUO episode ever!!! Ya'll have seen the three of us (of course) and solo eps of Jam, but never just two of us! In today's episode, Jam and Sharon take over the pod (Vicky had to miss this one) to just... chat. But we get oddly very specific about the fear of aging. Like physically aging. As in wrinkles and loss of collagen. Well- for Jam at least LMFAO. Tune in to our convo on whether or not we feel behind in life, in what aspects, fear of getting older, and all the things 25 year olds talk about on a casual Sunday morning :D Happy listening! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠

Are you a people pleaser? To some extent, everyone is at least a little bit (unless you’re a sociopath :D!!). Whether it’d be going out to a social event because a friend asked, going the extra mile at work to help a peer out, or even doing/not doing something in consideration of someone else, we all have people-pleasing tendencies. But is that good? Is that bad? In what situations? Are we people pleasers? Tune in and find out~ Happy listening!  Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠⁠

Did you lose your years to the pandemic? You’re a liar if you say no. just kidding. ish. but in today’s episode, we chat about the “pandemic skip” aka the years of 2020 - 2022 (more or less) where the concept of time genuinely feels lost, skewed, or insanely weird. No like seriously, you’re telling me that 2017 was 6 years ago and not 3??? Anywho. Whether the pandemic hit while you were a senior in college, a freshman in high school, or in your mid-twenties, I’m sure everyone can relate that Covid hit during a very interesting time in our lives. So, we talk about it. How we lost our youth to the pandemic (if we did), how we recovered, how we were impacted, etc. Happy listening! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠

What would you do? In today's episode, we thought it'd be fun to come up with situational questions and see how we'd answer/act (aka life is so uneventful that we're spicing it up by asking each other false scenarios : D) jk but it's also fun to see how people think!! We talked about: scenarios that might prompt you to ask your boyfriend for permission on something, situations where your significant other and your parents don't get along, marrying someone for companionship, whether your first response to a certain situation would be anger or hurt, etc. This ep was filmed in-person so you know what that means... the energy was real good and lots of funny moments. SO tune in and happy listening! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠

What are you currently listening to? Welcome back to another monthly music sesh where we share our current fav songs as well as our opinions on the others’ choices! This month’s artists are brought to you by: Tate McRae, Olivia Rodrigo, and Denise Julia (can you guess which recs are whose 👀). We also share some music industry conspiracies and tea so tune in to the discussion. Happy listening! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠

Why don't we want to be career girlies anymore? Today's topic is a lil revisit/pt 2 to one of our older episodes "Passion vs Paycheck" because... well let's just say, a lot has changed LOL. In today's episode, we chat all things career updates, the struggles of the current job market (no bc why are entry level positions requiring 4-6+ years of experience and paying chump change BFFR 💀) and economy, finding fulfillment through work vs life, how we feel about "the lazy girl job," and so so so much more. Tune in for some ✨corporate girly✨ talks ☺️ Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠

Have you ever been love-blinded? 🤔 As in.. you’re super crazy into someone and see so much potential with them and get down bad (like real bad) and then once you’re out of it you’re like… girl wtf was wrong with you, were you okay? LOL. Weeeellll, we talk about it : D In today’s episode we chat all about the love goggles, the difference between being love-blinded versus being in the honeymoon phase, why it happens, and of course some personal experiences being a down bad, dumb b*tch. We’ve all been there, don’t even lie (aka let us know yours HAHA). Happy listening! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠

Do all girls think the same? (And by all girls, we mean just us 3 LOL) Today's episode is a fun lil idea we took from Jubilee's Spectrum videos where we are prompted a question or statement relevant to a specific topic, and answer across the spectrum of strongly disagrees to strongly agrees. For example, Topic: "Do all girls think the same?" Statement: "Girls enjoy the talking phase more than the dating phase." Answers: "Strongly disagree, neutral, slightly agree, etc." You'll get it as you listen/watch. We also asked you all for some spicy suggestions over on IG so tune in to hear how we answered about things like: "it's an ick if a guy doesn't pay on the first date," "I prefer dating a guy who is less active on social media," "I'm okay with my significant other liking/following hot ______ (celebrities, models, etc.)." Happy listening! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠

Have you ever had a conversation with someone (new) and later find out that they thought you were being flirty/trying to hit on them (when you really weren't at all)? Well, Jam has :D And I'm sure a lot of us have experienced same same, but different incidences. So in today's episode, we chat a bit about why meaningful conversations can sometimes insinuate flirtatious behavior. And of course we get into various aspects of the topic like: are we just conversational or do we actually seem flirty, how do we flirt when we're actually trying to, do people pick and choose when and who to have conversations with, and much more. So tune in and happy listening! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@afterhrhappyhr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Discord: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠discord.gg/zMUZQTfS8c⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify (for music): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spoti.fi/3nwNUk5⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FIND OUR CHANNELS HERE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Vicky ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jam⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sharon⁠