Queer Virginity, Talking Boundaries and Desires

Ooooo Wonderfully Done Fans, we have got a particularly jizz-tastic episode hot off the editing floor for you to enjoy! Our guest in this episode is the intelligent and sensual genius that is Daddy Will!   ​​Who is Daddy Will? Daddy Will is a content creator and educator focused on helping men give and receive more pleasure. His style is warm and affirming yet adventurous, and we’ve been a big fan of his work for absolutely ages!   Topics we explore in this episode: How Will’s career and content is informed by his background in personal training, massage, sex and tantra education and so much more What is tantra, and how can we start exploring it? How can we work on improving our partnered sex lives through solo masturbation? Ways to bring mindfulness and intimacy together Moving away from feeling in a ‘rut’ with masturbation What exactly is ‘sex magic’, though?   Where to find more Daddy Will: Twitter OnlyFans JustForFans   Our audio mix and mastering is by Raf Chavez from Big Mastering ✨   Connect with us! Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Instagram: wonderfullydoneshow Twitter: @donewonderfully Facebook: Wonderfully Done Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here   Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

It’s a holiday miracle! This will be our last episode for the year, and we are going out with a BANG because our guest this episode is the phenomenal Gwen Adora!   ​​Who is Gwen Adora? Gwen is our favourite mommy domme pop culture extraordinaire. She’s a creative, campy adult content creator after our own hearts, and the winner of the 2021 XBIZ Best BBW Clip Artist awards! Her business skills are top-notch, and we love that her wise words and glorious visage has also featured in Forbes, VICE and Vox.    Topics we explore in this episode: Gwen’s pop culture and cosplay inspirations How to be the ultimate simp, OnlyFans tipping etiquette and more Respectful support and consumption of porn & seggs workers Creative expression in adult content creation Living with deplatforming and sex hostility online Tips for channeling sexy energy 2022 porn trend predictions and future sex media Where to find more Gwen Adora Subscribe to Gwen on OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/gwenadora  Website: https://gwenadora.com/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gwenadoraxo  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gwenadoraxo/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/gwenadora    Connect with us! Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Instagram: wonderfullydoneshow Twitter: @donewonderfully Facebook: Wonderfully Done Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here   Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

A love for beautiful things is such a delicious part of being queer. In this episode, we're joined by an out-of-this-world sapphic artist, who we've yearned to interview since the Wonderfully Done concept was born. Meet Mayticks! 🎨   ​​Who is Mayticks? Mayticks (she/her) is a divine artist who makes sapphic art that explores queerness, body feels, and connection  - basically all our favorite shit! She is a Canberra-based Australian cutie, queer, and draws a loooooot of nipples and leg hair!   Topics we explore in this episode: Exploring sexuality in erotic art, as a queer woman What’s the difference between drawing for 'a male gaze' vs 'a queer gaze' (gays)? Queer Romance - How Mayticks met her wife What makes art sensual vs. pornographic Challenging your own biases in your art Should Twitter make changes for 18+ gating? Today and the future in queer art Where to find more Mayticks! Buy some beautiful art: www.etsy.com/au/shop/Mayticks  Instagram: www.instagram.com/mayticks  Twitter: https://twitter.com/mayticks   A few key projects to check out: Classics... but make it gay I - Mayticks as an Illustrator + Merch designer (new edition coming in 2022!) Dames, Warrior Women of Legends II - Mayticks as a Merch Designer Cover Me Queer Zine - Mayticks as an Illustrator   Some recommended creators from Mayticks: Mayticks recommends following Twitter accounts @DamesZine and @Nova_Mali to see incredible queer-centered art by a talented array of artists.   Some of Mayticks' collaborators on Twitter include: @Renstrapp @fiona_creates @gildedruin @Aadorah @may12324 @BlkDistraction @Shouty_y @ErenAngiolini Fill your life with gorgeous queer art, and we'll see you in the next episode! Connect with us! Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Instagram: wonderfullydoneshow Twitter: @donewonderfully Facebook: Wonderfully Done Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here   Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

It’s true! Wonderfully Done is back again for a fresh season of horny and wholesome content! We couldn't miss the opportunity to kick things off with a spooky themed episode. 🎃🖤 Is it a trick or a treat, though? You’ll have to be the judge!    Topics we explore in this episode: What makes Halloween sexy? Why are us queers super into it? Our Horny Horror Movie recommendations Costumes: Strategically hot? Occasionally terrible? Robust discussions on the fuckability of some classic MONSTERS Our selections include: Swamp monsters Ghosts Vampires Mothman Werewolves Witches/Warlocks Frankenstein / Zombies Shapeshifters Goo creatures  Tentacle monsters Our Horny Horror Movie List: Jennifer's Body Ginger Snaps The Mummy The Shape of Water The Love Witch Eyes Wide Shut Rocky Horror Picture Show Bride of Chucky Queen of the Damned Dusk till Dawn Interview with the Vampire Bram Stoker's Dracula What other movies do you love for Halloween? We’d love to know! Connect with us! Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Instagram: wonderfullydoneshow Twitter: @donewonderfully Facebook: Wonderfully Done Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen! Join our newsletter here. Ask an anonymous question here. Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

The end of Season Two has arrived! ❤️ To you we offer a special Anal August treat, and vulnerable chats about body feels and journeys of personal sexual freedom. CW: This episode has some heavy exploration of body image issues and fatphobia Topics we explore in this episode: Broaching the desire for pegging with a cis het male partner Practical advice on developing self esteem & confidence Fat liberation, body neutrality, body acceptance and more The concept of sexual freedom with lashings of practical advice Thoughts and feelings about Season Two and what is to come   Content and Creators mentioned in this episode: Book Recommendation: Intuitive Eating - A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach Written by Elyse Resch and Evelyn Tribole Health at Every Size Written by Linda Bacon Podcast Recommendation: WHY ARE PEOPLE INTO THAT?! Hosted by Tina Horn A fascinating podcast really getting into the guts of why people are into different kinds of sex, kink and more with interesting and thought provoking guests   Thank you so much for an incredible second season, cutie beans!    Connect with us! Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Instagram: wonderfullydoneshow Twitter: @donewonderfully Facebook: Wonderfully Done Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here   Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

Hey there, sweet little biscuits!    Lauren and Vix are back with listener questions today as we approach the season finale. Woah! These are some spicy meatballs, full of challenging conversations that we’re sure many Wonderfully Done listeners can relate to.   Topics we explore in this episode: Navigating partners hang ups when you’re a young queer ‘virgin’ Communicating seeking support re: painful penetration Negotiating rough sex while inexperienced Voicing what you want ‘in the moment’ with partners Questioning boundaries in mixed sexuality relationships  Navigating internalised biphobia   Content and Creators mentioned in this episode: Game: Later Daters Book: Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Kristen Neff Book: Emotional Agility by Susan David Ms. Elle X - Domination tips on YouTube   Connect with us! Our Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Facebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James!    Topics we explore in this episode: Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating Stigma and misconceptions around sex work Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests How to be a fabulous first-time client Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home How to be an active, supportive submissive   Who is Sir James? Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more.   Where to find more Sir James Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/  Email: [email protected]   Content and Creators mentioned in this episode: Resource: Sex Menu An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist) This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework Fetish House The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more! We love their extensive Etiquette Guide  Tryst Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM Connect with us! Our Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Facebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here   Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

“Honestly when it’s just me… I really do like my body.” - Hien Pham   We’ve had a bunch of messages from Wonderfully Done listeners asking for us to have a lovely ace guest. Well! We recently had the absolute pleasure of interviewing a dear friend of ours, Hien Pham. As well as being a brilliant (and often smutty) artist, Hien is gay, gray-ace and an advocate of body acceptance and sex positivity - everything we love!    Who is Hien Pham? Hien Pham (he/him) is a digital artist specializing in gentle and optimistic queer comics. He grew up in Vietnam on war stories before moving and finding a home in Australia. His work revolves around respite, around caring and loving and being loved and cared for.   Topics we explore in this episode:  Self-healing through creative expression Fat joy and fighting fatphobia Dating while ace, and dating ace people Being a smut creator while on the ace spectrum What even is ‘masculinity’, anyway? Vulnerability and how audiences can help break shame cycles Sex as character development, and ‘flaws’ as good character design Where to find more Hien Support Hien on Patreon: http://patreon.com/wavingpeople  Twitter: https://twitter.com/wavingpeople  Website: wavingcomics.com   Content and Creators mentioned in this episode: Sex Education: Oh Joy Sex Toy If you haven’t visited them yet - GET OVER THERE! Wonderful sex ed comics from health, to sex and sexuality, to how to guides Sex toy reviews galore Comic: ‘Side Effect, Right Effect‘ Comic for Oh Joy Sex Toy by Hien Pham A personal share about mental health, mazzing and being kind to yourself Artist: G.C. Houle An glorious ace non-binary artist Twitter: https://twitter.com/gchoule Comic Maker: Gina Biggs A comic creator of 20+  years with a focus on sci-fi, romance, and fairytales Runs Filthy Figments Described as ‘the internet’s premiere collection of Erotic Comics by an amazing lineup of cartoonists’  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ginabiggs Comic Artist & Writer: Sarah Winifred Searle Referenced as the cool creator who talked about sex as character development Twitter: https://twitter.com/swinsea  Inclusive, queer and sexy comic companies: Smut Peddler & Filthy Figments   Connect with us!  Our website: www.wonderfullydone.show Facebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully   Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here   Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

With the rise of online dating, words and terms to describe ourselves and our desires are more prevalent than ever. The tricky thing about words is that many (especially in the world of sex and dating!) don’t actually have a singular meaning understood and accepted by all people. So what the heck can we do? Questions we ask in this episode:  Do we use any slang or language in our own dating profiles? Do we use labels? How do labels help us? How do they limit us? Why does slang and new language emerge around sex and community? Is it just like horoscopes, or what? How do we have conversations asking what terms actually mean for different people? When is it about understanding ourselves, and when is it about explaining ourselves? What should people ‘know’ or learn? When do we ‘need’ to know specifics? Words and terms we explore: Top Bottom Submissive/Sub Dominant / Dom / Domme Vers / Switch Polyamorous vs. non-monogamy etc Open Relationship vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy Labels like: stud, stem, femme, butch, otter, bear, twink (presentation slang) SW lingo: PSE, GFE, BBJ   Connect with us!  Our website: www.wonderfullydone.show Facebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully   Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here   Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

A big hey, hi, hello to our favourite sex and love nerds! We have some extra juicy topics for you in this episode, expect lots of ROBUST discussion! 👀💞 The topics we cover in this episode includes: Having a teacher fetish in your early 20’s Power dynamics If you have ‘risky’ fetishes, what are safe but spicy alternatives? Exploring feelings of shame around buying penis-centric sex toys   Content mentioned in this episode: Women by Nadia Lee Cohen (photography collection) Smut Peddler presents: Silver (NSFW comic)   Connect with us!  Our website: www.wonderfullydone.show Facebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully   Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here   Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋