S6E21: Human Design as Exploration with Etai Nahary Part 1/2

What if Human Design wasn’t a box, a rulebook, or another identity you had to squeeze into - but a living, breathing storytelling tool?In Part 1 of this expansive, truth-rich conversation, I’m joined by my friend Etai Nahary, an Intuitive Human Design Guide, multilingual storyteller, and deep thinker whose life journey weaves together psychology, spirituality, disability, and archetypal wisdom.We explore how Human Design becomes radically more powerful when it’s treated as an exploration rather than a prescription - and how story, language, and self-permission change everything.In this episode, we talk about:Etai’s extraordinary life path - from growing up multilingual to studying psychology, narrative therapy, and spiritualityLiving in a disabled body - and what embodiment, intuition, and “grounding” really mean when your lived experience challenges the normWhy Human Design works best as a storytelling framework, not a set of rigid rulesThe danger of dogma in Human Design (and why permission beats prescriptions every time)Archetypes, language, and how stories shape our identity and self-worthRewriting internal narratives through Human Design, psychology, and conscious inquiry🎧 Part 2 continues this conversation with a deeper dive into chart dynamics, energetic patterns, Chiron, and the lived experience of Human Design in real time.🔗 Connect with Etai Nahary•Instagram: @intuitivehdguide•Website: www.intuitivehumandesign.com•LinkedIn: @intuitivehdguideEtai offers Human Design explorations including natal charts, connection charts, life cycles, and intuitive deep-dives grounded in psychology, archetypes, and lived wisdom. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

If you’ve ever thought SEO was “boring,” “too hard,” “too technical,” or “for the bro-marketing crowd,” sweetheart… this episode is about to blow that myth sky-high.In this super giggly, deeply grounded convo, I sit down with SEO strategist + coach Brittany Herzberg aka The SEO Queen to unpack:Why SEO is the nervous-system-friendly stability you and your your business has been begging forHow Brittany accidentally became the “SEO Queen” after moving states + losing her entire client base overnightThe BIG 3 questions every entrepreneur must answer before SEO or messaging will ever workWhy neuro-sparkly, multi-passionate rebels often struggle with clarity – and how SEO actually simplifies your business (instead of boxing you in)Why SEO is the “anchored big brother energy” compared to the “hot bad-boy dopamine hit” of social mediaHow SEO supports you in seasons of grief, illness, burnout, family emergenciesKylie’s own wake-up call – the moment in a hospital bathroom she realised she wanted her dopamine from a forest - not socials stats!Why people who Google you are already in a BUYING state… unlike the $29-offer complainers in your DMsWhy clarity in your SEO = clarity in your business, your boundaries, and your soulmate client experienceThis episode is equal parts practical and profound – and yes, you’ll walk away rethinking how you’ve been “doing visibility.”This is sustainable, spacious, energetically aligned business strategy for rebels who refuse to sacrifice their life, scruples or sanity to be seen. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

If you’ve ever thought SEO was “boring,” “too hard,” “too technical,” or “for the bro-marketing crowd,” sweetheart… this episode is about to blow that myth sky-high.In this super giggly, deeply grounded convo, I sit down with SEO strategist + coach Brittany Herzberg aka The SEO Queen to unpack:Why SEO is the nervous-system-friendly stability you and your your business has been begging forHow Brittany accidentally became the “SEO Queen” after moving states + losing her entire client base overnightThe BIG 3 questions every entrepreneur must answer before SEO or messaging will ever workWhy neuro-sparkly, multi-passionate rebels often struggle with clarity – and how SEO actually simplifies your business (instead of boxing you in)Why SEO is the “anchored big brother energy” compared to the “hot bad-boy dopamine hit” of social mediaHow SEO supports you in seasons of grief, illness, burnout, family emergenciesKylie’s own wake-up call – the moment in a hospital bathroom she realised she wanted her dopamine from a forest - not socials stats!Why people who Google you are already in a BUYING state… unlike the $29-offer complainers in your DMsWhy clarity in your SEO = clarity in your business, your boundaries, and your soulmate client experienceThis episode is equal parts practical and profound – and yes, you’ll walk away rethinking how you’ve been “doing visibility.”This is sustainable, spacious, energetically aligned business strategy for rebels who refuse to sacrifice their life, scruples or sanity to be seen. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

This episode is me telling the good-bad-on-my-knees-ugly truth about 2025.I went into this year declaring I’d finish it fit as fuck, rich as fuck, and relaxed as fuck.Reader - none of those things happened. ;)What did happen was a year of burning.Old identities.Old ways of working.Old beliefs about growth, worth, money, capacity, and who I thought I had to be to succeed.This year asked me to hold grief and gratitude at the same time.To sit in love and loss.To surrender instead of striving.To stop outsourcing my authority and start trusting my own authority again.In this episode, I share:What Phoenix energy really looks like when you’re living itWhy growth, visibility, and leadership are cyclical - not linearHolding grief, love, loss, and devotion in the same breathLetting go of hustle-based business conditioningReclaiming voice, truth, and self-trustEnergy medicine, money, nervous system capacity, and receivingWhy 2025 was about shedding - and why 2026 feels like the quickeningIf this year stripped you back instead of building you up,If your voice went quiet so something truer could emerge,If being seen felt harder before it felt safer,This episode is for you. Because - like me:You’re not behind.You’re not broken.You’re becoming.And sometimes the wisest thing to do is just to let go. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In this fiery AF mini-episode, I riff on the one thing almost nobody is talking about when it comes to AI in the coaching/creative/spiritual business space - the massive, flashing, non-negotiable asterisk that determines whether AI is a powerful amplifier… or a frequency-muddying sabotage loop waiting to happen.This is your friendly but firm PSA:AI is not the problem.Your parts using AI are the (potential) problem.(Side note → If you don’t know what I mean by parts – go listen to the Andrea Tessier episode first. It’ll blow your mind)In this bite-sized sermon, I break down why AI + fear-based parts = messy messaging, mismatched clients, and a bat signal tuned to the exact opposite of the people you actually want to magnetise.✨ What You’ll LearnThe difference between marketing Self to Self marketing and fear to fear marketingWhy AI becomes dangerous when it’s used by the parts that hate marketing, doubt your worth, or want to hideHow AI amplifies the frequency you start with – fear or freedomWhy “saving time with AI” often really means “avoiding clarity, courage, ownership, and visibility”What happens energetically when you outsource your offers, your voice, or your copy to the machineThe real reason spiritual + creative entrepreneurs struggle with sales and why your magnetism dies the minute fear drives your messagingWhen AI is useful (research, repurposing, admin, show notes – like right now) and how to use AI responsibly without diluting your geniusWhy honouring your gifts is a self-trust practice, not a marketing taskCome learn magnetic, soulmate-led messaging inside G-SPOT, THEN use my library of Self to Self AI prompts if you want once you've owned your freaking genius and can be shining that brilliant light of yours out there from Self energy: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/gspot ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In this juicy AF episode, I sit down with the absolute gem of a human, Andrea Tessier – IFS practitioner, master coach, intuitive powerhouse, and the woman who helps people trust themselves for a living.We go deep into Internal Family Systems (IFS) – what it is, how it works, and why your so-called “problem parts” are actually the ones loving the hardest on you.This conversation is equal parts practical, magical, identity-shifting, and business-changing.If you’ve ever wondered why you’re doing “all the right things” and still feel stuck, this one's for you.What We Dive IntoWhat IFS actually is (spoiler: there are NO bad parts)Why certain patterns in business feel like sabotage… but aren’tThe truth about striver parts, perfectionists, procrastinators, rebels, people-pleasers, over-responsibility, and other familiar inner charactersWhat “Self with a capital S” feels like – and why it’s the ONLY place you can sustainably run a business fromHow “parts running your business” creates burnout, codependency, resentment, or confusionHow manager parts + firefighter parts work (and why your binge-eating, dissociation, scrolling, or burnout patterns aren’t moral failures)The difference between fear-driven business and freedom-driven businessWhy traditional coaching often becomes “manager-to-manager” instead of soul-to-soulWhy so much online marketing feels icky – and the IFS lens that explains it perfectlyHow to make business decisions, marketing, sales, and boundaries from Self-energyA big conversation about AI, urgency marketing, and integrity in the current coaching industryAndrea Tessier, M.Ed. is a Master Life Coach and a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) Practitioner who helps visionary leaders and entrepreneurs cultivate deep self-trust and lead from within. Through her signature blend of psychology, spirituality, and embodied leadership, Andrea guides clients to move beyond perfectionism, over-responsibility, and self-doubt—so they can create lives and businesses rooted in freedom, purpose, and wholeness. Her work bridges the inner and outer worlds, helping people reconnect with their calm, wise Self and lead their lives with clarity, courage, and confidence.Resources mentioned:IFS Parts Work & Self-Trust Starter Kit - Andrea’s Free IFS Starter Kit - This is the freebie she mentioned inside the episode – and it’s SO GOOD.What’s InsideWhy self-trust feels hard (hint: it’s never willpower)The 3-step IFS process: Notice → Acknowledge → BefriendJournaling prompts to help you hear your inner wisdomA guided practice to meet your parts with compassion instead of shameA totally new way to understand the “personal problems” showing up in your businessWatch Andrea on YouTube @IFS & Spirituality with AndreaHer channel is full of processes, teachings, and guided IFS meditations:Connect With AndreaWebsite: https://www.andreatessier.co ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In this juicy AF episode, I sit down with the absolute gem of a human, Andrea Tessier – IFS practitioner, master coach, intuitive powerhouse, and the woman who helps people trust themselves for a living.We go deep into Internal Family Systems (IFS) – what it is, how it works, and why your so-called “problem parts” are actually the ones loving the hardest on you.This conversation is equal parts practical, magical, identity-shifting, and business-changing.If you’ve ever wondered why you’re doing “all the right things” and still feel stuck, this one's for you.What We Dive IntoWhat IFS actually is (spoiler: there are NO bad parts)Why certain patterns in business feel like sabotage… but aren’tThe truth about striver parts, perfectionists, procrastinators, rebels, people-pleasers, over-responsibility, and other familiar inner charactersWhat “Self with a capital S” feels like – and why it’s the ONLY place you can sustainably run a business fromHow “parts running your business” creates burnout, codependency, resentment, or confusionHow manager parts + firefighter parts work (and why your binge-eating, dissociation, scrolling, or burnout patterns aren’t moral failures)The difference between fear-driven business and freedom-driven businessWhy traditional coaching often becomes “manager-to-manager” instead of soul-to-soulWhy so much online marketing feels icky – and the IFS lens that explains it perfectlyHow to make business decisions, marketing, sales, and boundaries from Self-energyA big conversation about AI, urgency marketing, and integrity in the current coaching industryAndrea Tessier, M.Ed. is a Master Life Coach and a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) Practitioner who helps visionary leaders and entrepreneurs cultivate deep self-trust and lead from within. Through her signature blend of psychology, spirituality, and embodied leadership, Andrea guides clients to move beyond perfectionism, over-responsibility, and self-doubt—so they can create lives and businesses rooted in freedom, purpose, and wholeness. Her work bridges the inner and outer worlds, helping people reconnect with their calm, wise Self and lead their lives with clarity, courage, and confidence.Resources mentioned:IFS Parts Work & Self-Trust Starter Kit - Andrea’s Free IFS Starter Kit - This is the freebie she mentioned inside the episode – and it’s SO GOOD.What’s InsideWhy self-trust feels hard (hint: it’s never willpower)The 3-step IFS process: Notice → Acknowledge → BefriendJournaling prompts to help you hear your inner wisdomA guided practice to meet your parts with compassion instead of shameA totally new way to understand the “personal problems” showing up in your businessWatch Andrea on YouTube @IFS & Spirituality with AndreaHer channel is full of processes, teachings, and guided IFS meditations:Connect With AndreaWebsite: https://www.andreatessier.co ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In this episode, I’m dropping you right into the spacious, golden center of something I’ve been living, breathing, and witnessing everywhere lately: ease — in business, in marketing, and honestly… in life.This is a conversation about letting things get really good. Good in a way your nervous system might not even be used to yet. Good in a way that asks you to soften the grip, trust your flow, and maybe unhook from a lifetime of “shoulds.”And we go everywhere in this one — client stories, my own edges, social media pressure, the evolution of the show, childhood conditioning, worthiness, and why ease is not the absence of effort… but the presence of alignment.Defining Ease: What Feels Good for You?Navigating Social Media “Shoulds” & Finding Your Own FlowLetting Go of One-Size-Fits-All MarketingChildhood Conditioning & Your Relationship with EaseWalking Your Own Edge: Growth Through DiscomfortHuman Design, Genius U Reports & Individualized MarketingIf you’ve been craving a business that feels like a deep exhale? This episode will feel like coming home.🔸 WHAT'S NEXT🔸🔴 FREE DOWNLOAD Weaving the Golden Threads of Your Purpose: A MeditationWeaving the Golden Threads of Your Purpose is a deeply transformative meditation that invites you to shift from the exhausting mindset of striving and pushing to a place of divine collaboration. 🎙️ GENIUS: YOU – Your True Sidereal Human Design decoded for voice, visibility, and purpose.This isn’t another reading – it’s a reckoning with your own brilliance.You’ll receive a 60+ page personalised report and audio intuitive coaching take on your innate genius, magnetic message, and how you’re designed to be seen, heard, and richly rewarded.Introductory offer of 50% off GENIUS: You readings here.🔥 CLOSING DOWN SALE - BURN BABY BURN 🔥→ 50% off all signature programs and digital products including GSPOT, BOOK BLUEPRINT, PAID and ROAR use code BURNBABY50 at checkout→ 25% off coaching intensives (half and full day) enter code BURNBABY25 at checkout  ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Let's pull back the curtain on my evolving relationship with Human Design, and how I’ve been navigating the sometimes sticky space between truth and dogma. In this episode, I talk about what it’s looked like for me to unlearn HD dogma and come back to resonance, experimentation, and self-trust. Plus, what happens when you over-identify with your “type,” how to tell when something is out of alignment, and why your felt sense is always the real authority.We explore:Early Encounters with Human DesignThe Layers of Human DesignEvolution, Identity, and Self-JudgmentRediscovering Human Design & True Sidereal AstrologyThe Genius: You ApproachResonance, Not RulesThe Next Evolution If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or boxed in by Human Design (or any system), this one’s an invitation to come home to your way — the one that actually feels good in your body.🔸 WHAT'S NEXT🔸 🎙️ GENIUS: YOU – Your True Sidereal Human Design decoded for voice, visibility, and purpose. This isn’t another reading – it’s a reckoning with your own brilliance.You’ll receive a 60+ page personalised report and audio intuitive coaching take on your innate genius, magnetic message, and how you’re designed to be seen, heard, and richly rewarded.Introductory offer of 50% off GENIUS: You readings here. 🔥 CLOSING DOWN SALE - BURN BABY BURN 🔥→ 50% off all signature programs and digital products including GSPOT, BOOK BLUEPRINT, PAID and ROAR use code BURNBABY50 at checkout→ 25% off coaching intensives (half and full day) enter code BURNBABY25 at checkout  ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Have you ever made a fear-based business decision? What would your marketing look like if you spoke only from and to the authentic self?In this soulful springtime episode, we talk about the beauty of co-creation, authentic marketing, and what it really means to lead from your genius zone.Inspired by a conversation with IFS practitioner and life coach Andrea Tessier, this chat is all about releasing fear-driven “pain point” marketing, reconnecting to your authentic self, and making business decisions from calm, grounded conviction, not panic or pressure.01:58 — Aha Moment with Andrea Tessier03:52 — Entrepreneurship as Self-Development on Crack06:03 — Fear-Driven vs. Authentic-Self Marketing10:54 — The Cost of a Fear-Based Decision17:15 — Tools for Pattern Interrupt & Self-Connection21:15 — A big behind-the-scenes update22:51 — Authentic Marketing ChallengeWhether you’re an entrepreneur, creative, or soulful human trying to stay aligned while you grow, this episode will meet you right where you are.🔗 Mentioned in This Episode 🔗Check out Andrea Tessier Master Life Coach and IFS Practitioner at the following links and stay tuned for her ep coming up here in 2 weeks!Connect with Andrea on Insta @andreatessiercoachingSubscribe to Andrea's YT channelTune in to Parts Work and Copywriting - Andrea on Sam Garcia's podcast🔥 CLOSING DOWN SALE - BURN BABY BURN 🔥→ 50% off all signature programs and digital products including GSPOT, BOOK BLUEPRINT, PAID and ROAR use code BURNBABY50 at checkout→ 25% off coaching intensives (half and full day) enter code BURNBABY25 at checkout  ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here