Self-Deprecation Invites Exploitation

Join Tolu and her guest, Reni, on this episode of Tolu's Tea, where they discuss a topic rarely discussed in mainstream media - asexuality and its intersection with hyper-sexuality. They candidly share their journeys as asexual individuals, exploring the nuances of asexuality and highlighting the diversity within the asexual community. Tune in to gain insight into the experiences of asexual individuals and discover how embracing diversity can lead to a more inclusive and compassionate society.

Join Tolu on the latest episode of Tolu's Tea, where she explores the thought-provoking topic "Self-Depreciation Invites Exploitation." Through a series of insightful discussions and examples, Tolu delves into the issue of self-deprecation and how it can make individuals vulnerable to being taken advantage of by others. Tune in to learn more as she navigates the complexities of self-worth and empowerment.

Join Tolu in this heartfelt Valentine's Season special episode of Tolu's Tea as she delves deep into the intricacies of love and relationships. As the Valentine's season fades away, the air remains filled with the sweet scent of romance. But is love truly enough to sustain a relationship? Listeners can sip their tea while Tolu explores the nuances of love, diving into the complexities that often go unnoticed in the grand gestures and declarations of affection. Throughout the conversation, Tolu encourages listeners to reflect on their relationships and urges them to look beyond the superficialities of modern PDA. So, if you're looking to explore love and relationships in a candid conversation, Tolu's Tea is the perfect place. Through this conversation, you'll learn that love, although a beautiful foundation, may not always be enough for a successful relationship.

In this episode of Tolu’s Tea, Tolu takes us on a personal journey of her relationship with the church. She candidly discusses the challenges that led to her departure from the church and the profound reasons that drew her back into its embrace. Tolu explores the complexities of her decision-making process, sharing intimate moments of introspection and growth. Join her as she unpacks the significance of seeking community within the church and the transformative power it holds in one's life. This episode offers a compelling narrative of rediscovery and the profound impact of finding solace within the folds of a community that embraces and uplifts.

In the closing moments of the year, join Tolu as she embarks on a soulful journey of self-reflection and introspection in this special episode, "As the Year Ends." Delve into heartfelt moments as the host candidly shares personal insights gained throughout the year, touching on pivotal experiences that have shaped her outlook. Tune in to discover Tolu’s aspirations and heartfelt resolutions to nurture stronger connections, become a better version of herself, and deepen the bond of friendships in the coming year. Gather inspiration and take away heartfelt intentions, setting the stage for a brighter, more empathetic, and connected journey ahead.

Welcome to another heartwarming episode of Tolu's Tea! In this special edition, we dive into the beautiful love story of Dide and Enzo, a couple who embarked on their journey together during their first year of college and have been inseparable for seven incredible years. Join us as we explore their enduring bond, relationship values, and the secrets to keeping the ship sailing at different stages of life. Inspired by the captivating "Off-Campus" book series by Elle Kennedy, our episode is aptly titled "Off-Campus Love." Tune in to discover the magic of their love story and gather tips on making your relationship last a lifetime… or at least after college lol.

In this emotionally charged episode, Tolu delves deep into the tragic loss of the incredibly talented Nigerian artist, Mohbad, and the broader issue of how Nigeria often unfairly treats its youth. With heavy hearts, we reflect on Mohbad's remarkable career and the impact he left on the music scene. But this episode goes beyond the music; it's a passionate rant about the challenges and struggles faced by Nigeria's youth, who are brimming with talent and potential yet often find themselves up against systemic hurdles. Join us for an unfiltered conversation as we demand change and justice for a brighter future for Nigeria's vibrant youth and upcoming artists. 🎧🇳🇬 #JusticeforMohbad #EndSARS

In this episode of "Tolu's Tea," Tolu is joined by the fabulous and insightful FavorSays for a candid conversation about "Hot Girl Shit." Get ready for an unfiltered, hilarious, and enlightening chat that'll leave you inspired to redefine your own "hot girl" journey. Don't miss out on this fiery episode that's sure to leave you feeling hot and fabulous!

Hi guys, welcome back to Tolu's Tea! I am thrilled to be back for another exciting season of insightful conversations after the long hiatus. Get ready for a season filled with captivating stories, enlightening interviews, and a whole lot of laughter. We are kicking off this new chapter by taking a moment to catch up on my well-being since the last season concluded. So, grab your favorite tea, find a comfy spot, and let's embark on this journey of laughter, reflection, and connection together. Don't forget to subscribe and share the podcast with your friends! Stay tuned for more engaging episodes every Sunday at 12 a.m. ET. Thanks for being part of my podcast community! 🎧🌟

This episode is inspired by the Netflix series DP, an emotional drama based on the difficulties Korean men face when they go into military deployment to fulfill their citizenship obligation. My guest, Sharon, founder of a Nigerian jewelry brand House of Shay, was an old highschool mate of mine. Together, we share our experiences with bullying, and how it made us feel. Huge thanks to Sharon for sharing her experience and being so open with details. I hope you enjoy as well as learn.