Ep #355: Why You Should Be Kind To Yourself

What would happen if you allowed yourself to eat whatever you wanted? You might think that you’d eat anything and everything, and a lot of it. But, that might not be true.   Allowing yourself to eat what you want is so important to do when you’re working on stopping binge eating. When you don’t do it, it actually contributes to the binge eating. So I want to help you feel less afraid of doing it. I want to help you feel okay with allowing more foods. So in this episode, that’s what I’m doing. Listen in to learn the truths about allowing all foods and why you will be better off, and be okay, if you do.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/360

When you feel an uncomfortable emotion, do you go right to food? Eating is a quick and easy way to feel better….temporarily of course. And if you end up eating a lot, there will be consequences. So, do you want to know how you can feel better without eating food? If so, then listen to this episode.   Not only will I show you how you can feel better, in a way that will be free from negative consequences, but I’ll also explain why you use food to feel better. So listen in to learn how and why.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/359

When you feel controlled by food, you also feel powerless. You might think there is nothing you can do to stop yourself from eating it. You might also try to gain power by controlling the food. But, that isn’t going to be the solution. Why? I’ll tell you in this episode.   I’ll also explain why the food actually isn’t controlling you and what is. If you want to feel more in control and powerful, listen to this episode. You don’t have to keep feeling like food has control over you. It doesn’t.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/358

You’re probably familiar with stress eating but, what about after-stress eating? You go through a stressful time, and you don’t binge or overeat but, after its all over, that’s when you binge.   In this episode, I’ll be explaining why that happens and how you can prevent it. Bingeing doesn’t have to be something that always happens when you feel stressed.   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/357

  In today’s episode, I’m talking with Krista St-Germain, a grief coach who coaches Widowed Moms.   After the sudden loss of her husband, she tried to escape her emotions with food and other emotional escapes. She also felt confused about what her process of grieving looked like and what she thought it was supposed to look like. Like with most of us, she was only familiar with the 5 Stages of Grief and that just wasn’t something that resonated with her.   So now, she’s teaching her clients a different way. She’s helping them find their own, personal ways through grief and teaching them better ways to cope with emotions besides eating food and other escapes.   And today, she’s going to be sharing that with you.   I’m so excited to have her on the podcast, sharing her wisdom and knowledge. I’ve worked with many people who have experienced grief for various reasons and learning how to go through it without binge eating is extremely valuable.   So, I hope you enjoy listening to this conversation with Krista!     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/356         FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE   Awesome Free Stuff The Widowed Mom Podcast FREE DOWNLOAD: Memories That Matter

Too often, people think that being hard on yourself, and being harsh with yourself is how you get yourself to change and do better. In this episode, I’m going to show you why it isn’t.   Doing the opposite, and being kind to yourself is actually pretty powerful. It’s not necessarily you being too soft with yourself, or making excuses, it’s you choosing to support yourself in a way that will actually help you. So listen in hear the ins and outs of unkindness vs kindness, and what effects they really have, so you can make sure you’re talking to yourself in a way that’s actually going to be helpful.   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/355   FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE   Awesome Free Stuff Episode #324: Being Assertive With Yourself

If you think that food is only fuel, and it should be something we consume just to keep our bodies going, this belief might be contributing to your binge eating. How? In this episode I’m going to show you.   There is so much food in our world that is not nutritious, and it’s really delicious. If we’re only supposed to eat to fuel our bodies then where do those not nutritious delicious foods fit in? That’s what I’m talking about in this episode. I want to help you to fit it into your life the way you want to. So listen in as I talk with you about eating for fun, pleasure, and enjoyment, and not just for fuel.   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/354

Have you had success in so many areas of your life but not with your eating? You see yourself as a successful, driven, motivated, determined person yet, you still haven’t had the same success with your eating that you’ve had with other things. Why?   In this episode, I’m going to shed some light on why. When you know why the eating thing is different for you, you can gain clarity and understand what you need to do differently to have success in it. So listen in to find out why this is different and what you’re going to do to have success.   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/353

Do you have a hard time being with just yourself? Maybe you don’t feel content, or have lots of thoughts and feelings, so you find yourself eating to feel better or escape. If you do, then this episode is for you.   I’m going to help you understand why it’s hard for you to be alone with yourself and how to enjoy it more. When you do, you won’t be thinking about food so much when you’re alone. Listen in to find out how it’s going to happen.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/352

Wouldn’t it be nice if you felt good all the time? So many people want that and when they don’t get it, they eat food to try and make it happen….and we all know what happens when you eat to feel good too often. You end up feeling bad.   In this episode, I’m talking about feeling good all the time, why it actually shouldn’t be your goal, and how to truly feel better without eating food. Want to feel good more? Listen in to find out how.   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/351