BDE- THE QUEER SOCIAL #016

If you're a parent or curious about parenthood, this episode is for you. The questions were flowing in about parenthood and long relationships- so we answered. We left it all out on the table for this one- speaking our truth and being vulnerable with the harder parts of parenthood, the things people think they can't say out loud without being judged. LISTEN- we love our daughter, we love being parents, we love the journey of parenthood and wouldn't change it for the world- but it's also hard af and we for sure miss pieces of our old life. THE TWO CAN EXIST  TOGETHER. Remember, this isn't everyone's experience, this is just ours. Take a listen and i'll pretend I don't see you secretly shaking your head in agreeance lol. 

A slightly older episode that came out of the archives as we took a small social media break. When I tell you everything about us is 360 opposite from each other- i'm not exaggerating. We talk about how we navigate having different communication styles while effectively having a productive conversation. We also dive into Masc insecurities while out in public and how we work through them together. Lots of little surprise convos along the way- you know us, we like to go a little rogue. Please note, as we did touch on the challenges for gender-expansive/gender-queer individuals using a public restroom in a lighter way, it is a topic that should be taken VERY seriously. Andie and I shared our own experiences on this topic, but there are many others who might feel differently about it. It is important to know, this was filmed prior to the tragedy of Nex Benedict who lost their life after abuse in a school bathroom. Devastatingly enough, Nex is not the only one- there are too many scenarios like this happening all over the world. Please take into consideration how someones experience in a public restroom can be extremely traumatizing and give love and support to anyone who might be struggling with this. It is an incredibly vulnerable place for some people so please show up for the ones that might need you even if they don't say it out loud. SOCIALS:Tik Tok:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacore Instagram:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacore @jessvanacore_  @dreampilotfilms A Production by: DREAMPILOT FILMSMusic: Unbound Sound

Join us as we dig up a little bit of our past that you might not know about. We share our previous jobs, sports we played and wild stories about past experiences. SOCIALS:Tik Tok:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacore Instagram:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacore @jessvanacore_  @dreampilotfilms A Production by: DREAMPILOT FILMSMusic: Unbound Sound

There's so much to unpack here. Happy New Year Everyone! We get right into it with our intentions for 2024 and then dive into our hot takes. What we will say will shock most, sorry in advance. We end with a rant about how important communication is in all aspects of your life but most importantly in your relationships as well as intimately. Come hang with us for a hour as we talk our shit into these mics. 

Come hang with us as we chat about our dating life before finding each other.  Don't be surprised if you get a little pep talk about self love in this very queer episode. Remember- your worth is not determined by what others think of you. We love y'all! SOCIALS:Tik Tok:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacoreInstagram:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacore @jessvanacore_  @dreampilotfilms A Production by: DREAMPILOT FILMSMusic: Unbound Sound

Get to know HBO MAX's Rap Shit star Jonica Booth as she joins The Queer Social and spills all the behind the scenes tea. From her first time acting in a sex scene to navigating everyday life as a queer black woman in Hollywood, this episode divulges it all. You don't want to skip this one... hint: one of us isn't wearing pants.SOCIALS:Tik Tok:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacoreInstagram:@Jonicablubooth @thequeersocial  @twobabesonebarn @andievanacore @jessvanacore_  @dreampilotfilms @dreampilotfilmsA Production by: DREAMPILOT FILMSMusic: Unbound Sound

With the Holidays here, we went a little rogue. From family drama, navigating the situation of best friends divorcing, to scheduling intimacy as a parent- we get into all the deets. For your viewing pleasure, we also left in a mini marriage bicker about stealing pillows, you're welcome.SOCIALS:Tik Tok:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacoreInstagram:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacore @jessvanacore_  @dreampilotfilms A Production by: DREAMPILOT FILMSMusic: Unbound Sound

Don't get us started on that Big D*k* Energy, it will swoop you right up. Welcome to the chaos that is The Queer Social, where we wing it off of bullet points. Let's dive into gaydar, ghosting and shooting your shot. 

Lots to catch up on, but most importantly, we are grandparents! We welcomed a baby alpaca to our ranch named Benedict. Join us for a quick life update and a fun game of red flag/green flag which may or may not go a little sideways.....SOCIALS:Tik Tok:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacoreInstagram:@thequeersocial @twobabesonebarn @andievanacore @jessvanacore_  @dreampilotfilms @dreampilotfilmsA Production by: DREAMPILOT FILMSMusic: Unbound Sound

We have been together for 10 years, and what a wild ride! This anniversary episode covers everything from assumptions about each other, our dating timeline to our parenting lifestyle. Hang with us on the couch as we spill it all.