13. Great Love, Suffering, and the Courage to Change w/ Guest, Michael Shahan

Grab the Self-Love Guide (Episode Companion)! Waitlist / Enrollment for Illuminate University! Host, Lindsey Haeger is joined by Self-Love Teacher, Lindsay Bennett. Find her on IG at @withlindsaybennett and at www.lindsaybennett.com In this episode: 1) Learn the 3 pillars of Self-Compassion 2) Practice a Self-Compassion exercise with us! 3) Learn how self-compassion is key to truly knowing yourself. (Self-Discovery) 4) Hear more about Illuminate University, our 5-Month Membership for Women (Enrollment begins Nov. 24 for the upcoming 2022 "semester") Join Lindsey Haeger's FB Group "The Peacemaker's Community"

Lindsey is joined by members of "The Peacemaker's Community" for another panel discussion. The panelists share stories of their childhoods, the roles they played in their families, and how they see the type nine "peacemaker" tendencies showing up in their adult lives. Become a member of The Peacemaker's Community FB Group here Special thanks to: Rod, Ann, Helen, Emily, Leanna, and Stu! Let's do it again, soon! https://www.instagram.com/lindseyhaeger.co/

Lindsey is joined by Marriage and Family Therapist, Michael Shahan (IG @michaelshahan_therapy) who practices in Kansas City, MO. He is passionate about helping people get unstuck and become the best version of themselves. He specializes in trauma work, and uses the Enneagram with all of his clients. Visit www.michaelshahan.com to learn more about Michael! In this episode: Childhood patterns and the roles we play. Love & Suffering can tear down our ego Growth is a choice Richard Rohr - Great love and great suffering change us the most. "Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change" - Tony Robbins Jim Finley, mentioned in the episode Stay up to date with Lindsey and more resources for Peacemakers. Sign-up for email updates here! Join the FB Community for Peacemakers! Lindsey on IG @lindseyhaeger.co

Lindsey is joined by Hillary McCaskey from Enneagram and Coaching! Listen here or watch the interview via Lindsey's YouTube Channel! Mentioned in the episode: Hillary McCaskey on IG https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandcoaching/ Hillary on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/hillarymccaskey Schedule an appointment with Hillary https://www.enneagramandcoaching.com/ Sleeping At Last - Ryan O'Neal https://sleepingatlast.bigcartel.com/product/enneagram-2xcd-set Lindsey's details via Linktree https://linktr.ee/thelindseyhaeger

Host, Lindsey Haeger interviews Erin Conley Barth to learn more about Enneagram types 3, 6, and 9 and the commonalities in their struggle to know themselves.   Erin's YT Channel - https://tinyurl.com/4df3w56t https://www.instagram.com/enneagram.girl/ More Info on: Subtypes - https://tinyurl.com/2aupu86k Instincts, Levels of Development, & Integration/Disintegration - https://tinyurl.com/34rwr289 Phobic & Counter Phobic 6 - https://tinyurl.com/47m7e6ha Join "The Peacemaker's Community" FB GROUP

In this episode, Lindsey's guest is Enneagram Coach, Emily Wingfield from Enneagram With Emily. You can book a session with Emily via her website or follow her on Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/enneagramwithemily/ Emily's Website Sign up below to learn more about the group Lindsey is hosting this summer for the podcast listeners! Summer Group Interest Lindsey's Website

Lindsey is joined by Gwen Whitfield (a type 9 and the host of Redefining Bold Podcast)!   GIVEAWAY Mentioned! (4/30-5/3 @10am CST) Lindsey's Instagram "Giveaway - ENTER to WIN" Gwen's Instagram "Giveaway - ENTER to WIN" In this episode: Gwen's process for getting herself in a better place. Giving ourselves compassion Honoring our need for REST Never Giving Up & believing that things will get better just around the corner!    Gwen's Online Store www.lindseyhaeger.com Exclusive Facebook Group for Type Nines

WATCH the full episode on Lindsey's YouTube Channel. Host Lindsey Haeger is joined by Dr. Tom LaHue (www.tomlahue.com) to discuss the differences and similarities between Enneagram Types Nine and Six.  Although she’s been quite certain of her “type”, the stress of the past year has Lindsey all up in her head about the plaguing question ....”Am I a Nine or a Six?”  Dr. Tom LaHue’s well-known Enneagram YouTube Channel currently has over 25k subscribers and offers awesome growth tools and education for all Enneagram types!  In May 2021, Dr. LaHue is launching certification programs for both Enneagram Coaching AND Relationship Coaching.  Check out his website for all the details!  www.tomlahue.com Lindsey on Instagram - @lindseyhaeger.co www.lindseyhaeger.com Exclusive Facebook Group for Type Nines

Listen here, OR WATCH this Type Nine Panel on Lindsey's Youtube Channel!  https://youtu.be/Q20qHlImO34 www.lindseyhaeger.com Panel Hosts, Lindsey Haeger (creator of The Peacemaker's Community) and Ida Turner interview a panel of type nines to discuss all things "Peacemaker" Type Nine. Special thanks to Ida Turner (Leadership & Personal Coach, Transience&Co).  Contact Ida at [email protected] Thank you to our panelists! Mandy, Gwen, Mark, Terry, Suzie, Marjanna, Nicole, Elizabeth and Laura

The content from The Peacemaker’s Podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical or mental health questions.  If you are currently facing a mental health or medical emergency, call 911 immediately.   Welcome back for Episode 6, this is Lindsey Haeger the host of the Peacemaker’s Podcast. Today’s episode is part 2 of my interview with Joel Hubbard.  If you haven’t yet listened to part 1 in episode 5, press stop and go back to catch that one first.  Joel is the co-host of The Art of Growth podcast and over a month ago now I spoke with him about a Type Nine Panels that he hosted from Season 2 of the Art of Growth. I received so much value from that episode and wanted to go deeper into it with him. I’m excited to share the second half of our talk with you! In Part 2 we discuss: The nine has a tendency to “edit the nine self”.  How can we work to edit ourselves less? Joel talks about slowing down and focusing on breathing.  This gives us a chance to think. Become aware of our moments more so we can get back in touch with ourselves. Tuning into our body is really important for the type nine (body type). The tension or tightness in our body can be an indication of something. Joel talks about breathing into the tensions in our bodies. There is a beauty to the gift of the type nine. The goal is for the nine to be fully the nine.  The nine doesn't become a 3.  The low side prevents us from being fully the nine. Peacemakers - you are one that creates harmony, and comfort. What if the nine could be more intentional in the ways they seek and create peace. Lead the way through the way you were made. Free Download “Reflection for the 9” from Episodes 5 & 6 of the Peacemaker’s Podcast. For Enneagram Coaching, reach out to Joel through email at [email protected].  To learn more about The Art of Growth podcast and to listen to the Episode we discussed, click here Season 2, Episode 2 from The Art of Growth.   Follow Lindsey Haeger on Instagram @lindseyhaeger.co www.lindseyhaeger.com Exclusive Facebook Group for the Peacemaker's Podcast (Type Nines)