222 : Stop Chasing Success: The Inner Work That Actually Fulfills with Sam Kabert

In this episode: meeting yourself where you are, mindful check-in, breath awareness, letting go, non-judgmental observationEpisode SummaryIn this guided meditation from the Mindful Fire Legends community meeting, Adam Coelho leads a practice of radical self-acceptance - checking in with body and mind exactly as they are, without trying to change anything. Listeners are guided through breath awareness and gentle redirection of a wandering mind.About the HostAdam Coelho is the host of the Mindful FIRE Podcast and founder of the Mindful Fire Legends - a weekly community gathering for people on the path to financial independence. He leads guided meditations and conversations to support mindful, intentional living.Resources & Books Mentionedmindfulfire.org/join - Join the Mindful Fire Legends community (meets every Wednesday)Key TakeawaysMeeting yourself where you are means observing your body and mind with curiosity - acknowledging "right now, it's like this" without trying to fix or change anything.The breath is a reliable anchor: each in-breath is a new beginning, each out-breath a chance to let go.When the mind wanders, the practice is simply to notice and return — no criticism, just gentle redirection back to the present moment.A brief check-in at the start and end of practice builds self-awareness and helps you notice subtle shifts in body and mind.Join the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join.PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

In this episode: entrepreneurship, sustainable fashion, following omens, adaptability as a life skill, mindful parenting with Angela ArwadyEpisode SummaryAngela Arwady went from flipping secondhand clothes on eBay in 2008 to launching Unpacka (unpacka.com), a subscription-based sustainable fashion business supporting local artists. She and Adam discuss the mindset shifts required to leave corporate life after nearly 15 years at Google and YouTube, the Zelda-inspired "side quest" approach to opportunity, mindful dressing as a daily ritual, and building a business aligned with your values.Guest BioAngela Arwady is the founder of Unpacka, a curated marketplace for secondhand and handmade goods. Before entrepreneurship, she spent over a decade at Google and YouTube across HR, recruiting, and program management for YouTube TV — helping launch the Sports Plus package and primetime channels in multiple countries. She is a mom of three, a Poshmark pioneer with 75,000 followers, and is pursuing a sound healing certification.Resources & Books MentionedUnpacka — Angela's sustainable secondhand and handmade goods businessPoshmark — social resale marketplace where Angela first built her followingThe Alchemist by Paulo Coelho — Adam's book about following your personal legend and reading life's omensDan Arwady on the Mindful FIRE Podcast: Episode 39 and Episode 182Oakland Collective — Bay Area charity that receives clothing donations from Unpacka (free community popups)Guest Contact InformationWebsite: unpacka.comInstagram: @shopunpackaKey TakeawaysFollow the omens: Angela's pop-up at Golden Soul café in Pacifica snowballed into regular craft fair appearances — a small yes became the seed of her entire business model.AdapJoin the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join. PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

In this episode: breath awareness, present-moment trust, mindfulness on the FIRE path, releasing urgency, intention setting with Adam CoelhoEpisode SummaryA guided meditation from the Mindful Fire Legends community. Adam leads listeners through a breath-anchored practice centered on trusting that you are exactly where you need to be — on the path to financial independence and the life you dream of living.Guest BioAdam Coelho is the host of the Mindful FIRE Podcast and founder of the Mindful Fire Legends community, a space for people pursuing financial independence to support one another and begin living their post-FI life now.Resources & Books MentionedMindful Fire Legends communityKey TakeawaysThe meditation invites listeners to feel in their body what it means to truly trust they are exactly where they need to be — not just think it intellectually.Rushing, forcing, or striving aren't required on the FIRE path; confidence comes from knowing you're on your path and it's unfolding in right timing.When the mind wanders, return with "kind, curious awareness" — a reframe that removes self-judgment and makes the practice sustainable.Close with the smallest possible intention: identify one baby step you can take today toward your dream life, because that life is already available here and now.Join the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join.PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

In this episode: Defining “enough,” FIRE mindset shifts, intentional career design, sabbaticals as low-risk experiments, and taking action to find clarity.Episode SummarySusie Ade—mental health and wellbeing program manager at Google and a certified career coach—shares how discovering financial independence changed not just how they spend, but how they make decisions about work, time, and meaning. Susie and Adam explore what it looks like to define “enough” from the inside out: using daily joy, energy, and alignment (not comparison or consumerism) as the measuring stick.They also dig into Susie’s unconventional path at Google and a three-month sabbatical working at a winery in Australia—an intentional reset that helped clarify what Susie wanted next. A recurring theme: clarity rarely comes from overthinking; it comes from running thoughtful experiments and building a “bias toward action” within safe boundaries.Guest BioSusie Ade is a certified career coach (CPCC) and mental health and wellbeing program manager at Google. Over nearly a decade at Google, Susie has held roles across sales, YouTube’s Intelligence Desk, and people development. Susie coaches employees internally and works with private clients who want more fulfillment, clarity, and alignment in their careers.Resources & Books MentionedMr. Money Mustache blogYour Money or Your Life — Vicki Robin & Joe DominguezThe Simple Path to Wealth — JL CollinsDesigning Your Life — Bill Burnett & Dave EvansStrengthsFinder 2.0 — Tom RathChooseFI podcastHeadspace (meditation app)The Tim Ferriss Show #542: Chris Dixon & Naval Ravikant on Web3Mindful FIRE ep 14 with Morgan Bria: mindfulfire.org/14Guest Contact InformationWebsite: susieade.comLinkedIn: PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

Episode SummaryIn this short guided meditation, Adam Coelho leads a calm, breath-centered practice recorded live in the Mindful FIRE Legends Community. You’ll start by settling in with three deep breaths, then do a gentle check-in with your body and mind. From there, the practice moves into simple breath awareness—notice the in-breath, notice the out-breath—and each time the mind wanders, you practice returning with kindness.As the meditation closes, Adam invites you to name an intention you’d like to carry into the rest of your day, finishing with three deep breaths and a soft return to your surroundings.What you’ll experienceArriving with three grounding breathsA body + mind check-in (tired/awake, busy/calm—without judgment)Breath awareness as an anchor for attentionA repeatable way to work with distraction: notice, return, begin againIntention setting to carry mindfulness into daily lifeAbout the hostAdam Coelho is the host of The Mindful FIRE Podcast and founder of the Mindful FIRE Legends Community, blending mindfulness, envisioning, and financial independence to help people craft a life they love.Links mentionedMindful FIRE Legends Community: http://mindfulfire.org/joinFree Envisioning Guide: http://mindfulfire.org/startJoin the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join.PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

In this episode: outsourcing worth to work, soul life balance, the be/do/have model, nervous system regulation, and daily Sona practice with Sam KabertEpisode SummarySam Kabert built a seven-figure business working under four hours a day, earned a spot on Silicon Valley's 40 Under 40—and still fell into a numbing depression. In this episode, Sam unpacks why external success left him empty and shares the frameworks he discovered on his journey inward: the soul life mindset, the be/do/have model, and why conventional work-life balance misses the mark.Guest BioSam Kabert is a serial entrepreneur turned keynote speaker, breathwork teacher, and author of the #1 bestselling book SOUL/Life Balance. Named to Silicon Valley's 40 Under 40 at 31, he now helps high-performing leaders reclaim clarity and fulfillment through mindfulness, NLP, and nervous system regulation.Resources & Books MentionedSOUL/Life Balance by Sam KabertStart Something That Matters by Blake MycoskieSam Kabert's TEDx TalkFront Row DadsGuest Contact InformationWebsite: samkabert.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kabertBreath Club : samkabert.com/clubInstagram: @samkabertKey TakeawaysHitting seven figures while working under four hours a day still led Sam to depression—proof that outsourcing your worth to your work is a trap no level of external success can fix.The be/do/have model flips the script: get crystal clear on who you are first (Sam uses Matthew McConaughey's "future hero" concept as a guide), then act from that identity rather than chasing a fleeting dopamine hit.Soul life balance reframes work-life balance by adding the yin/inner world—mental aJoin the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join. PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

In this episode: Embodying trust, trusting the path to FI, connecting with your ideal vision, breath awareness, and community sharing with Adam Coelho.Episode SummaryIn this guided meditation from the Mindful FIRE Legends community, Adam Coelho leads listeners through a practice centered on embodying trust — trusting the path to financial independence, trusting yourself, and trusting the present moment. The session opens with a heartfelt community preamble where members share their struggles with uncertainty and envisioning their future, then moves into a guided meditation weaving breath awareness and vision work, and closes with reflections from participants.About Adam CoelhoAdam Coelho is the host and creator of the Mindful FIRE Podcast, a show dedicated to helping people craft a life they love and make work optional using the tools of mindfulness, envisioning, and financial independence. Adam teaches and facilitates live meditation and envisioning practices for the Mindful FIRE Legends community.Resources & Books Mentionedmindfulfire.org/join — Join the Mindful FIRE Legends community livemindfulfire.org/start — Free envisioning guideKey TakeawaysEmbodying trust means learning to trust your vision for the future even when you don't know how or when it will arrive — holding it lightly while believing it will come.When envisioning feels abstract, tapping into the feeling of your ideal life in your body — not just the mental picture — is a powerful way to deepen conviction.Uncertainty and anxiety about the future are normal responses; mindfulness offers a way to observe these thoughts with kindness rather than letting them take over.Even when life upends your plans, you can return to trusting yourself and your ability to adapt, evolve, and take one small step toward your vision today.Join the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join.PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

In this episode: Redefining Success, Leaving Corporate Life, Life Architect Framework, Financial Independence, Self-Knowledge Tools with Guillermo AlbizuriEpisode SummaryAdam Coelho sits down with Guillermo Albizuri, a coach, psychologist, and former Google executive who spent 20 years in corporate life—including 15 years at Google—before leaving to become a "life architect." Guillermo shares how he dismantled the myth that climbing higher would bring happiness, how financial planning gave him the freedom to leave, and how he now helps others design lives aligned with their values, strengths, and purpose.Guest BioGuillermo Albizuri is a coach, psychologist, and former Google executive born and raised in Spain. After 20 years in corporate life—including roles at McKinsey and 15 years at Google—he left to become a life architect, helping high-achieving professionals find fulfillment and purpose through strengths-based coaching, values clarification, and the Enneagram.Resources & Books MentionedWorking Identity by Herminia IbarraLove Money, Money Loves You by Sarah McCrumCliftonStrengths by GallupThe EnneagramMindful Fire Envisioning Guide: mindfulfire.org/startGuest Contact InformationLinkedIn: Guillermo AlbizuriKey TakeawaysGuillermo measures success by control over his time and the percentage of hours spent on work he'd do for free—not by salary or title.He separated financial need from purpose work by building a real estate business that covers living expenses, freeing him to coach without billing pressure.His "life architect" framework starts with self-knowledge (CliftonStrengths, values, Enneagram), then explores multiple "possible selves" through small experiments rather than one big leap.Be compassionate in the short run, clear in the long run: we overestimate what we cJoin the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join. PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

In this guided meditation from the Mindful FIRE Legends community, we explore the question: “Is this story useful?” When doubt or unhelpful narratives start bubbling up, this practice helps you slow down, notice what is here, and gently loosen your grip on the thoughts that shape how you experience your life.We begin by finding a posture that is both alert and relaxed, then settle in with three deep breaths. From there, you are guided to observe the stories your mind is offering, and to relate to them with curiosity instead of automatically believing them.If you would like to join one of these live meditations and community meetings, you can sign up at mindfulfire.org/join.In this meditation, you willSettle your body into a calm, steady postureUse breath to drop into the present momentNotice doubt and unhelpful stories without judgmentPractice asking whether a thought is useful, not whether it is trueCreate space to choose a more supportive perspectiveAbout Mindful FIRE LegendsMindful FIRE Legends is a community for people on the path to Financial Independence who want more connection, support, and encouragement along the way. Join us for live meditations and community meetings at mindfulfire.org/join.Reflection questions (optional)What story has been creating unnecessary stress for me lately?When I believe this story, how do I act?If I set the story down, even for a moment, what becomes possible?DisclaimerThis meditation is for education and personal growth and is not a substitute for medical or mental health care.Join the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join.PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...

In this episode: Coast FI and financial freedom, State of the Union practice for couples, intentional life design, family travel planning, entrepreneurship journey with Jake WysockiEpisode SummaryJake Wysocki shares his journey from mechanical engineering and corporate sales to entrepreneurship, powered by reaching Coast FI. He reveals the quarterly "State of the Union" practice he developed with his wife to design their life intentionally—using structured exercises to assess satisfaction across key life pillars, prioritize changes, and take action. Jake discusses how financial independence enabled them to travel the world for a year before having kids, and how they continue to plan meaningful family experiences while building his business helping coaches design impactful workshops.Guest BioJake Wysocki is an entrepreneur and founder of Intention Craft, where he helps coaches design world-class workshops and group coaching programs. With a background in mechanical engineering and sales, Jake worked in corporate America before reaching Coast FI and making the leap to entrepreneurship. He and his wife traveled to 25 countries over a year and now live in Milwaukee with their two children, ages 5 and 8.Resources & Books MentionedDie with Zero by Bill PerkinsGood to Great by Jim CollinsThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen CoveyChooseFI PodcastWheel of Life exerciseThe Family Board Meeting conceptWhisper Flow app (for voice-to-text with AI)Claude AI with custom projectsGuest Contact InformationWebsite: intentioncraft.comKey TakeawaysReaching Coast FI gives you freedom to take calculated risks without fear—every step toward FI creates more options, not just the final number.The State of the Union practice: quarterly sessions where cJoin the Mindful FIRE Legends community at MindfulFIRE.org/join. PS: Introducing the… 🔥 FIRE Starter Group Coaching ProgramYou did the “money” part. You saved, invested, and built real options. But if you’re being honest… FU money alone isn’t enough—and you might still feel stuck in “one more year syndrome,” unclear on what you actually want next.In 10 weeks or less, we’ll help you get clear on what you want—and start living it now—using envisioning, mindfulness, and practical mini-experiments (not endless overthinking).Interested? Let’s chat: https://mindfulfire.org/chat🔥 WHO I’m creating this forThis is for you if you’re at or near FI (Coast FI or full FIRE) and:You feel stuck after “doing everything right,” but you’re not sure what you’re optimizing for anymore.You’re caught between freedom and overwhelm (“I could do anything… so I do nothing”).You want clarity and momentum—but you don’t want someone to tell you what to do.🔥 WHAT we’ll do together (over 10 weeks)In a small group (mastermind-style), you’ll:Get clear on what you actually want (beyond expectations, comparison, and “shoulds”).Create a big, meaningful vision for your next chapter—one that fits who you are now.Learn the brain science behind envisioning (why it works, and how to use it).Turn yo...