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We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we're working with: 1. How does Sally get her blowouts to last all day? Linked @Sal.Gals hair tutorial here. 2. What is the etiquette for texting after a first date? 3. Extended family at a small international wedding? 4. Should I feel guilty about not attending a child's birthday party so close to Christmas? Our Partners: Lola Blankets: Get 35% OFF Lola Blankets with code MAILIN at LolaBlankets.com Underdog Fantasy: Download Underdog today and get $50 in bonus entires when you play $10. Trading involves risk, including total loss on positions. Content is promotional and not a recommendation to trade. Terms apply. Promotion issued by affiliate. For Fantasy contests: Must be 18+ (19+ in AL, NE; 19+ in CO for some games; 21+ in AZ and VA). Concerned with your play? Call 1-800-MY-RESET or 1-800-GAMBLER. NY: Call the 24/7 HOPEline at 1-877-8-HOPENY or Text HOPENY. WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we're working with: 1. I need to elevate my husband's wardrobe. 2. Can we talk about wedding gifts for a sec? 3. A girl who I've been seeing for a bit had a friend kiss her at a concert... how should I proceed? 4. How should I go about feeling less guilty about carving out alone time after putting the kids to bed? 5. Chicago recs? Our Partners: Lola Blankets: Get 40% OFF Lola Blankets products with code MAILIN at LolaBlankets.com Warby Parker: Get 20% OFF an additional pair of glasses at WarbyParker.com/MAIL WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries! Here's what we've got this week: 1. How do I compartmentalize my potential fertility issues with my friend's pregnancy success? 2. How am I supposed to tell if she's really "the one" or if there's a reason why I'm itching for another escape hatch? 3. I'm in the thick of wedding planning and my fiancee feels like I'm not helping enough. 4. My wife is struggling with anxiety and depression right now - how do I best support her? Our Partner: Lola Blankets: Get 40% OFF your order with code MAILIN at LolaBlankets.com WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman, Randy Trembacki, and the newest member of Washed Media, Brett Nierengarten aka New Brett. Here's what we've got this week: 1. What's the deal with New Brett? 2. What constitutes the Midwest? 3. Should I let my boyfriend pay for his flight to a wedding that I'm invited to? 4. I'm trying to visit every national park. What are your favorites and which ones are must-see? 5. I broke up with my first-ever girlfriend after 2.5 months and I'm not sure if I made the right decision. Our Partners: Lola Blankets: Get 40% OFF Lola Blankets with code MAILIN at LolaBlankets.com. Warby Parker: Get 20% OFF any additional pair of glasses at WarbyParker.com/MAIL WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy September, folks! We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries. Here's what we've got this week: 1. I'm a 30-year-old woman getting back in the dating scene after a decade. What do I need to know? 2. Does Instagram feel blatantly too ad-focused now? 3. How do you repair your reputation after dating a very toxic person? 4. Do I leave my dream job for a job with more money and better benefits? 5. I feel guilty about posting a pregnancy announcement after struggling myself with infertility. Our Partner: Warby Parker: Get 20% OFF an additional pair of glasses at WarbyParker.com/MAIL WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got: 1. Shouts to a listener of ours who's battling cancer. 2. My girlfriend doesn't reciprocate payments for things. 3. My wife has stopped putting effort into anything in our relationship. 4. What's the appeal of being an influencer? Our Partners: Warby Parker: Buy one pair of glasses and get 20% OFF any additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/MAIL Lola Blankets: Get 40% OFF select products with code MAILIN at LolaBlankets.com WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Back on The Mail-In this week with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman. Here's what we're working with: 1. How do you approach your girlfriend about upping her "style"? 2. Give me UK recs? 3. I got engaged three months ago and I think it's time to call it off. 4. Where's the line between moving on and getting my ex back? Our Partner: Factor: Get 50% OFF plus 1 free breakfast item per box with code mail50off at FactorMeals.com/mail50off WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got: 1. When do you know you're ready to have kids? 2. Can I be nice to my Dad's girlfriend when my Mom is around? 3. Cowboy cocktail attire at a wedding plus Bozeman recs? 4. What gifts should you get for a pregnant friend outside the registry? Our Partner: Warby Parker: Get 20% OFF an additional pair of glasses at WarbyParker.com/MAIL WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got: 1. Reciprocating wedding invites? 2. I'm hesitant to start trying to conceive as a woman in finance. 3. How much is too much to ask people to spend on your birthday? 4. I'm not sure I support my friend's engagement. What should I do? Our Partners: Factor: Get 50% OFF plus free daily greens per box with code mail50off at FactorMeals.com/mail50off Lola Blankets: Get 40% OFF select Lola Blankets products with code MAILIN at LolaBlankets.com WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back on The Mail-In fresh off a few Europe trips with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got: 1. Europe pros/cons 2. Am I right to feel weird about my girlfriend talking to exes? 3. Sally's COSTCO list 4. My friend backed out of our all-inclusive resort room, what should I do? 5. Is it ok to propose in Italy after a wedding? Photographer? WRITE IN TO THE MAIL-IN FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices