Why You Don’t Want Sex Anymore (And What It Really Means)

What happens when intimacy starts to feel like pressure… obligation… or even a negotiation?In this episode of The Lo Life, Lo dives into the conversations most couples are having behind closed doors—but rarely saying out loud. From mismatched libidos and feelings of rejection to the impact of porn and the subtle ways sex can become transactional, this episode explores the real reasons desire shifts in long-term relationships.Bringing listener questions to the forefront, Lo sits down with Dr. Nicole McNichols, an internationally renowned human sexuality professor, licensed therapist, and author whose course The Diversity of Human Sexuality is the most popular in University of Washington history. With years of experience helping individuals and couples navigate intimacy and connection, Dr. Nicole offers insight that is both practical and deeply validating.Together, they unpack the emotional and psychological layers behind desire, disconnection, and what it actually takes to rebuild intimacy. Whether listeners are navigating these challenges themselves or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers a fresh, eye-opening perspective on modern relationships.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The world feels like a dumpster fire so we could all use some escapism and a good laugh. Lo welcomes back his bestie Greg Furman. He's a writer, director, producer and actor who quickly became a favorite of the lo lifers. He's a true renaissance man and one of the few people who can keep up with Lo’s quick wit. Greg represents the East Coast with his New York sensibilities while Lo proudly holds down Los Angeles, and the cultural clash makes for the kind of playful debate that listeners love. What starts as casual conversation quickly turns into a rapid-fire series of relatable questions: Do you sit next to your date or across from them? Are you a leftovers person or do they go straight in the trash? And perhaps most divisive of all, are potlucks charming community gatherings… or culinary chaos?Lo also shares his very specific rules about overnight stays at other people’s homes, including why he travels with his own sheets (a confession that sparks plenty of laughter and surprisingly strong opinions) The conversation takes an unexpected turn when the two dive into the film Pillion, starring Alexander Skarsgård, which explores the world of dominance, submission and kink culture. Curious and admittedly unfamiliar with the subject, Lo and Greg watched the film together and found themselves discussing not just the shock value, but the deeper humanity behind it.What emerges is a funny, thoughtful conversation about the things that make people different and the surprising ways we’re all a little more alike than we think.In a moment when the world can feel heavy, this episode is exactly what listeners need: two friends, great banter, unexpected debates and a reminder that sometimes the best conversations happen when you simply follow your curiosity.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of The Lo Life, Lo sits down with career expert and content creator Emily Durham, known online as “Emily the Recruiter.” With millions of followers across social media and one of the top charting career podcasts, Emily has built a reputation for breaking down the realities of the modern workplace and sharing the insider knowledge recruiters wish more people knew.  Their conversation dives into the challenges many people are facing in today’s unpredictable job markets! From layoffs and career pivots to toxic bosses, office bullies, and interview anxiety. Emily shares practical insight on how hiring has changed, how AI is reshaping résumés and job searches, and why younger generations are approaching careers very differently. Whether someone is preparing for an interview, considering a career change, re-entering the workforce, or simply trying to understand the evolving world of work, this candid conversation offers perspective, reassurance, and advice that feels both timely and empowering.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lo sits down with author of Women Waking Up, Wendy Valentine, for an honest and empowering conversation about reinvention, resilience, and choosing yourself at any stage of life. With refreshing authenticity, Wendy shares her journey through life transitions, personal loss, shifting confidence, and rediscovering who she is after seasons of change.Rather than focusing on hardship, the episode centers on growth — exploring what it really means to wake up to your life, rebuild your self-worth, and move forward with intention, even when things don’t go as planned. Wendy’s perspective is grounded, optimistic, and deeply relatable, offering listeners a motivating reminder that starting over isn’t failure — it’s evolution.Thoughtful, honest and encouraging, this conversation is for anyone navigating change, redefining their identity, or learning to put themselves first. It’s an inspiring listen that gently reminds you it’s never too late to grow, reset, and create a life that feels aligned and authentic.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this Level Up Series episode of The Lo Life, Lo sits down with intimacy educator and viral YouTube creator Caitlin V (nearly 1M subscribers) to unpack what’s really happening in modern relationships — especially the conversations men are having behind closed doors but rarely saying out loud. Through her work coaching thousands of men, Kaitlyn shares eye-opening insight into male loneliness, intimacy struggles, emotional insecurity, and the shifting dynamics between men and women in today’s dating landscape.Together, they explore why so many women feel emotionally exhausted in relationships, the pressure to be everything for a partner, and how societal changes — independence, career growth, and autonomy, are quietly reshaping attraction, intimacy, and connection. This honest, nuanced conversation is equal parts psychology, relationship insight, and cultural commentary, designed to help listeners better understand themselves, their partners, and the reality of dating in 2026.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

When the world feels overwhelming and out of control, where do we actually regain our power? This week on The Lo Life, Lo sits down with renowned psychologist, bestselling author, and TED speaker Dr. Guy Winch, one of the leading voices in emotional health, for a deeply timely conversation about boundaries, stress, and emotional resilience in chaotic times.Known for his bestselling books Emotional First Aid and How to Fix a Broken Heart, and TED Talks viewed by millions worldwide, Dr. Winch brings practical, real-life psychology to the everyday struggles we all face. Together, Lo and Dr. Winch unpack how to set boundaries with defensive partners, navigate tit-for-tat conflict patterns, and master the art of a healthy apology — especially when the other person struggles with accountability. The episode also explores the hidden signs of chronic stress, emotional overload, and how to focus on what’s actually within your control when life, relationships, and the outside world feel overwhelming.Insightful, relatable, and highly actionable, this episode gives listeners the tools to protect their mental and emotional well-being, communicate more effectively in relationships, and stay grounded even when everything around them feels uncertain. A must-listen for anyone feeling emotionally stretched, relationship-fatigued, or craving healthier dynamics in both their personal and professional life.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In one of the most thought-provoking health conversations on the show, Lo sits down with Dr. Brennan Spiegel — physician, professor, researcher, and director at Cedars-Sinai — to explore a powerful idea: many of the symptoms people live with every day may not be random at all.Fatigue. Bloating. Brain fog. Digestive issues. Feeling older than your age. These experiences have become so common that they’re often dismissed as stress or “just life.” But this conversation reveals how the body may be responding to deeper forces — including gravity, posture, modern movement patterns, and the intricate relationship between the gut and the brain.Dr. Spiegel explains how physical alignment, core stability, nervous system recovery, and even bathroom posture influence digestion and overall well-being. The discussion also dives into the gut microbiome and why the digestive system plays a central role in mood, energy, and serotonin production — far beyond what most people realize.Blending research, physiology, and practical insights, this episode offers a new lens for understanding why so many people feel “off” — and how small shifts in daily habits may support the body in ways that are both simple and profound.For anyone who has wondered why their energy is low, their digestion feels unpredictable, or their body doesn’t feel quite right, this conversation delivers answers, perspective, and a path forwardSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of The Lo Life, Lo dives into the cultural phenomenon that is Heated Rivalry and why this breakout series is resonating far beyond the LGBTQ+ community. This isn’t just a Season 1 recap; it’s a sharp, layered breakdown of the show’s emotional core, aesthetic choices, character dynamics, the plot and the deeper themes that make the story universal.Lo explores how Heated Rivalry succeeds not because it’s a “gay story,” but because it’s a love story rooted in longing, identity, pride, fear, and vulnerability, feelings everyone understands, regardless of orientation. Through humor and personal reflection, Lo connects the show’s emotional tension to his own upbringing and love life. He speaks candidly about growing up in a household that celebrated individuality, self-expression, and being unapologetically yourself. This is a recap, a cultural conversation, and a reminder that the best stories don’t divide us, they reveal what we share.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This episode blends pop culture, personal truth, and unapologetic hot takes.Lo breaks down the Brooklyn Beckham family drama, offering a bold perspective shaped by real-life experience with dysfunctional families and difficult in-law dynamics. The episode also explores why the movie theater experience matters more than ever, reframing it as a form of escapism and mental restoration in an overstimulated world.Finally, Lo dives into the first two episodes of Heated Rivalry, sharing why the show resonates so deeply, what it represents culturally, and why its impact reaches far beyond the screen. Personal, funny, and thoughtful, this episode invites listeners to laugh, reflect, and join the conversation — especially if they want more Heated Rivalry coverage! Sound off in the review section if you want more soLo episodes See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Part 2 of Lo and Haley Fitzgerald’s 2026 life audit continues with more honesty, more laughter, and even deeper reflection. What begins as a series of shared small wins quickly turns into a conversation filled with humor, vulnerability, and the kind of real moments that only happen between close friends.Between bursts of laughter and unexpected tangents — including a moment where Lo questions his own sexuality — the two open up about confidence, self-worth, and the complicated relationship we have with how we see ourselves versus how others see us. They celebrate the wins that may seem small on the surface but feel massive internally, while also acknowledging the insecurities and doubts that still show up along the way.This episode is equal parts heart, soul, and humor. It’s honest without being heavy, reflective without being preachy, and deeply relatable. Whether you’re in a season of growth, uncertainty, or quiet progress, this conversation offers perspective, connection, and a reminder that self-discovery doesn’t have to be perfect to be meaningful.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.