Follow Your Instincts, Not The Crowd

Love is not supposed to choke you, punch you, or kick you. Stop protecting these abusive men and start exposing them for who they really are. Women are dying at the hands of their abusers because everyone wants to mind their own business or cover up for the abuser. My book "They Said That I Wouldn't Make It: But Here I Am" @ notesfromwanda.com/mybook

Restore your faith and confidence. Stop second guessing yourself as if you know nothing about yourself. If you made a decision to leave sorry ass Tyrone alone, then leave him alone. My Book "They Said That I Wouldn't Make It: But, Here I Am is now available on Amazon, Kindle, and Barnes & Noble. Click Here 👉🏾 notesfromwanda.com/mybook or type the link into your web browser.

Just because he's not going upside your head or cheating on you doesn't mean that your relationship is worth saving. Walking away from something or someone doesn't mean that you are giving up. It simply means that some people and some things no longer deserve your energy or attention. Download my free action guide @ notesfromwanda.com/imready

Abused women abusing men. It's quite disturbing to witness such behavior in public. Recently, I witness a woman running behind her husband with a pot full of boiling water. She was upset because he had failed to take out the garbage on his day off. Download my free action guide today @ notesfromwanda.com/imready

Justice is not always served in the way we want it to be. It's uncomfortable to know that the perpetrator is still out there on the lose. But, don't allow this to steal your inner peace. Download my free action guide today @ notesfromwanda.com/imready.

Build yourself back up and don't let anyone or anything tear you back down again. Have some respect for yourself & stop accepting less than what you deserve. Download free action guide today! @ notesfromwanda.com/imready

At first, he was an angel. Then, he turned​ into a ​monster. I thought that I had found love. But, all I found was a baseball bat, aiming for the side of my head. A relationship or a one night stand is not the solution to heal from your trauma. Download my free action guide @ notesfromwanda.com/imready

Desperation will lead to self-destruction. Don’t wait until it hurts so bad that you feel as if you have to create a natural disaster to get someone’s attention. As human beings, we crave love & attention. Especially if you've been hurt by the actions of a stranger or someone close to you. Be careful when it comes to choosing "your person". The person that is supposed to be there for you while you're hurting.Some people come into your life to restore what was lost & broken. While others will simply take advantage of your vulnerability. I was lost & confused. I couldn't connect or socialize with people without feeling paranoid. The flashbacks of being abused & or sexually assaulted are not easy to cope with. It left a huge hole in my heart that could only be healed by a shot of tequila or whiskey. I was acting out and my reckless behavior almost took my life & my child. Download my free action guide on ways to cope with painful memories & flashback @ notesfromwanda.com/imready

Don't cut off everything & everyone. Isolation is not the answer to protecting yourself. You can build and or restore your relationship after the trauma has passed. Take your time and take care of you. download my free action guide today @ notesfromwanda.com/imready

Coping with Flashbacks & Painful Memories. Don't jump into this rabbit hole where you feel stuck and can't get out. Download a copy of my free action guide on five things that you can use to help you cope "after the pain." Click Here 👉🏾notesfromwanda.com/imready