221. Adjusting Expectations: Dream Big Without Setting Yourself Up for Disappointment

What happens when you actually listen to that inner whisper telling you something in your life isn’t aligned?This week, I’m introducing you to the Adventurous Reinvention podcast, created and hosted by my friend Allison Boyle. Here’s what she says about this episode:Marie-Pier shares how leaving a long-term relationship led her on a path of deep self-discovery, dating, and eventually finding new love with her current partner.And together? They jumped straight into his very first backpacking trip… which just so happened to be a 100-mile thru-hike across Norway’s Lofoten Islands.We cover:Trusting yourself enough to leave relationships (even when nothing is “wrong”)How heartbreak became a catalyst for clarity, courage, and growthWhat it was like to date again, define her values, and find love that fully alignedWhy she chose Norway’s Lofoten Long Crossing as her next big adventureLogistics, challenges, and highlights of thru-hiking in Norway (with no switchbacks!)How adventure and relationships can both be powerful training grounds for reinventionThis is a conversation about courage, new beginnings, and the wild ways the trail mirrors our personal lives.Listen to more episodes of the Adventurous Reinvention: https://open.spotify.com/show/7sUkAmUHxUZ9C9DVJuBIFS?si=9ea2563a36af4bc2Work with me: https://mariepiertremblay.com/coaching

Do you ever feel like something’s missing? Maybe life looks fine on the outside… You’re checking the boxes and doing what’s expected, but deep down, you’re craving more meaning, more creativity, more you. The tricky part is… you might not know what that “more” is.Here’s the truth: not knowing your purpose is completely normal. Most people aren’t born with a crystal-clear vision, and the pressure to figure it out often blocks the very answers you’re looking for.In this episode, I share the winding path of how I discovered my own sense of purpose, and the 4 keys to finding your own. You’ll learn how to start noticing the subtle clues that can guide you toward a more fulfilling life and what to do with them—whether that shows up in your career, your relationships, or the way you spend your time.Work with me: https://mariepiertremblay.com/coaching

Feeling unsure about your relationship, career, or life path? You’re not alone. In this episode, we explore why it can take years to allow yourself to truly want what you want—and how to finally take ownership of your desires. I share the 3 essential ingredients to navigate big transitions: grief, vision, and legitimacy. Learn how to grieve what you’d leave behind, build a vision that makes risk worth it, and give yourself permission to pursue what calls your heart.You’ll discover how to:Challenge the “worst-case scenario” stories your brain tells you.Create a compelling vision that makes change feel possible and exciting.Feel fully legitimate in wanting what you want, without guilt or self-doubt.This episode is for anyone ready to embrace change, honor their values, and take the difficult—but transformative—steps toward a life that truly feels theirs.Work with me: https://mariepiertremblay.com/coaching

You have a successful career, but your creativity feels limited. You dream of launching a side business, writing, or starting a podcast… but can’t find the time. The truth? It’s not about time management at all. In this episode, I’ll explore the real obstacle I’ve noticed after 750+ hours of coaching countless ambitious people — and show you how to break it.You’ll learn:The importance of learning to manage emotional discomfort.How to move from scattered effort to focused, meaningful progress.Practical strategies to take your dreams seriously and move forward with confidence.👉 Ready to stop avoiding your creativity and start building what matters? Book a free clarity call with me to map out your next steps: https://mariepiertremblay.com/coaching

Ever started something, didn’t see instant success, and immediately felt like a failure? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive into why our high expectations can sabotage our progress before we’ve even started, and how our ego plays a big role in quitting too soon. You’ll hear real stories from first-time entrepreneurs, backpackers and creators who expected overnight success… and what happened when reality didn’t match the movie in their heads.We’ll break down:How ego turns slow progress into an identity crisisThe difference between ambition and expectation (and why it matters)Practical ways to adjust your expectations without lowering your goalsIf you’ve ever felt frustrated by slow growth, this episode will help you reframe your results, stay in the game longer, and actually reach the big goals you care about.Work with me: https://mariepiertremblay.com/coaching

In the last 15 years, I have made 3 career changes in pursuit of more fulfilment. From mobile coffee business owner to graphic designer and illustrator, and finally to coaching, discover the strategies and mindset shifts that propelled me forward. If you're contemplating a career change but feel uncertain about where to begin or whether it's the right move, tune in now for actionable insights to gain clarity and confidence in exploring a new direction.👉Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠https://selfgrowthnerds.com 👈Resources:📚Books:⁠You Are a Badass at Making Money, by Jen Sincero⁠⁠Born for This, by Chris Guillebeau⁠🎙️Podcast:⁠Unfuck Your Brain, by Kara Loewentheil

Are you yearning to overcome struggles like perfectionism, laziness, or addiction? Join me for an exploration of Internal Family Systems (IFS), a therapeutic approach developed by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz. Discover how IFS can transform your relationship with yourself by acknowledging and understanding all aspects of who you are. Learn how to replace inner conflict with self-compassion, reclaiming your power and reconnecting with your joyful, playful self. Tune in now to start your journey of healing and self-discovery with IFS.👉 Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selfgrowthnerds.com/ 👈

These 5 simple practices improve my mood, give me energy and help me manage my time and money in an empowering way so I can accomplish my goals and lead a more flexible less stressful life. Try what resonates, play around and find your own way!👉 Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selfgrowthnerds.com/ 👈

Feeling confident comes from the belief that it's safe for you to share who you really are more openly. In this episode, I share 5 skills you can practice to stop letting insecurity take over and strengthen your confidence so you can show up as your true self wherever you go and come home feeling proud.👉 Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selfgrowthnerds.com/ 👈

Ever catch yourself trying way too hard to be liked? Saying you'll go to the party when you'd prefer to read romantasy in bed or holding back your feminist opinion and love for tarot so no one judges you? Yeah… same.In this episode, we’re talking about the very human need to be liked, and the 5 skills to develop to stop caring so much about what people think. You’ll hear stories about what I used to do for approval (I'm not proud!) and how I’m learning to show up more honestly… We’ll get into why people-pleasing is so hard to let go of and how to make it hurt less when someone thinks badly of you. We’ll also talk about going camping with your partner's family, Lady Gaga, Inside Out 2, and what it actually feels like to be disliked... and okay with it.If you’ve ever watered yourself down to be more “palatable,” this one’s for you.