We Sold Everything to Live With Less

It's been a while since I last sat down to record Second Wind, and quite a lot has happened.Since the last episode, Yvonne and I have travelled from Malaysia through Turkey, Spain, the UK, Canada, the United States and Singapore before eventually finding ourselves back in Bali. When I added up all our flights since leaving the UK last September, we'd covered almost 56,000 kilometres. More than one complete journey around the planet.This week I'm catching up on everything that's happened along the way. Six weeks living in Toronto, rediscovering my interest in photography, the changing fortunes of my YouTube channel, managing money without a salary, and why we ultimately decided to return to Southeast Asia.There's also a significant update on my long-running medical insurance dispute. After months of paperwork, arguments and representing myself in arbitration, I've finally won the case. The money hasn't arrived yet, but for the first time I can see an end to something that's occupied far too much of my life.And perhaps that's the real theme of this episode.After redundancy, losing my dad, leaving the UK, health problems, financial uncertainty and more than a year of constantly moving, I'm beginning to recognise just how much mental space all of this has consumed.Now we're back in Bali, trying to slow things down, rebuild our routines and enjoy the life we worked so hard to create.Even if that means recording this podcast under a duvet in 30-degree heat to escape the noise outside.A catch-up on travel, money, reinvention, unfinished business and the strange relief of finally being able to stop for a while.

Over the last few weeks I've talked about the battles that have slowly disappeared from my life. This week is about what came next. After years of living with deadlines, redundancy, grief, travel, legal fights and constant projects, I found myself with something I hadn't had for a long time: space.But space brings its own challenges.This week I talk about what happened after friends arrived in Spain, routines disappeared and I slowly drifted away from the habits that had helped me build this new life. More meals out, later nights, a few drinks, less exercise and a growing awareness that freedom without any structure can quietly become something else.The lesson isn't about becoming stricter or finding another battle to fight. It's about recognising the drift before it becomes the new normal. I'm learning that building a different life wasn't the hard part. The harder part is protecting it without turning it into another job.

For the last couple of years it has felt like there has always been another battle to fight. Redundancy. Grief. Leaving the UK. My dad's estate. Complaints with British Gas and Scottish Power. An ongoing insurance dispute. One by one they've occupied my thoughts, until recently I realised something unexpected. Most of them are finally coming to an end.This week I talk about what happens when those problems slowly disappear. What fills the space once your identity is no longer tied to work, firefighting or constantly solving the next crisis? We explore purpose after corporate life, why I don't want YouTube to become another job, and how Yvonne and I are settling into a rhythm that finally feels calmer than anything we've experienced in years.There's also a reflection on living through quieter seasons, adapting to different countries, finding new routines, and accepting that not every day needs to be optimised. Sometimes maintaining is enough. And perhaps the biggest lesson of all is learning that once the battles are over, you have to be careful not to replace them with new ones. The episode centres on the relief of leaving constant firefighting behind, while asking what gives life meaning when there is no longer a battle to win becomes the question that shapes the next chapter.

A year ago, leaving the UK felt extraordinary. Every flight, every apartment, every decision carried a sense that we were doing something completely outside the ordinary. But somewhere along the way, something changed. The life we spent years planning has quietly become... normal.This week I reflect on what happens when the adventure stops feeling like an adventure. House sitting, airports, finding supermarkets, living without a salary, building income from different places and waking up without a job to go to have all become part of everyday life. The uncertainty hasn't disappeared, but it no longer feels unfamiliar.The strange thing about chasing freedom is that, eventually, it becomes your baseline. The challenge is no longer escaping the old life. It's recognising the one you've already built before you invent another mountain to climb.

This week isn't about money, investing or leaving work. It's about the people you meet once you've already left.After spending the day with another couple travelling through Southeast Asia, I found myself thinking about something I hadn't really considered before. You can meet someone over a coffee, end up talking for hours, share conversations that normally take years to have, and then a day later you're on different sides of the world. It made me realise that one of the hidden costs of slow travel isn't leaving home. It's constantly saying goodbye.We talk about why travel seems to create deeper conversations, why people open up so quickly when they're living through similar life changes, and how we've gone from collecting possessions to collecting people. Along the way I reflect on the friends we've met across Malaysia and Bali, the strange sadness that comes with moving on, and why some relationships only need an afternoon to leave a lasting mark.Maybe that's what this chapter of life really is. Not collecting countries or ticking places off a map, but collecting moments with people you'll probably never forget, even if you never see them again.

This week started with an unexpected phone call from someone I used to work with.What began as a catch-up slowly turned into something else. Questions about where I was, whether I planned to return to the UK, and whether I'd ever consider stepping back into the corporate world. A couple of years ago I would have hoped for a call like that. This time, my reaction surprised me.In this episode I reflect on what happens when your old life comes looking for you, and how you know whether you've genuinely moved on. We explore identity after work, why security doesn't always mean happiness, the uncertainty of building a completely different life, and the moment I realised I no longer wanted the career I'd spent thirty years building.It's not a conversation about rejecting work. It's about recognising when your definition of success has quietly changed, and discovering that freedom might not be the absence of responsibility at all. It might simply be realising you no longer want to go back to the life you once thought you were trying to protect.

This week is about something I don't think we admit often enough.From the outside it can look as though I've got a plan. We sold everything, left the UK, travel around Southeast Asia, manage our money carefully and build a YouTube channel for a living. It probably looks like confidence. The reality feels very different.In this episode I talk about the constant self-doubt that sits underneath almost every decision I make. We discuss money mistakes, lifestyle inflation, learning discipline later in life, falling out of good habits and starting again, and why making a decision doesn't mean you're certain it's the right one. I also share how creating content, investing, travelling and building a new life all come with far more questions than answers.The biggest lesson I've learned is that clarity and certainty are not the same thing. You don't need to have life completely figured out before taking the next step. You simply make the best decision you can with the information you have, learn from the outcome, and keep moving forward.

This week is about something I've been thinking about a lot recently.People often say that time heals everything. I'm not sure that's true. I think time changes your relationship with what happened.In this episode I look back at three moments that completely changed my life: losing my dad, leaving a 31-year career, and selling everything before leaving the UK. At the time, each one felt like an ending. Looking back now, I realise none of them ever really finished. They simply became different things to carry.I talk about grief hidden behind paperwork, what happens when your job disappears but your identity doesn't know it yet, and why moving abroad turned out to be far less about beaches and far more about rebuilding an ordinary life from scratch. Along the way I reflect on what has genuinely improved, what still hasn't, and why I've stopped waiting for life to go back to how it used to be.This isn't a conversation about getting over difficult experiences. It's about slowly learning to live inside the life that comes afterwards, and discovering that things can get better without ever going back to what they were.

This week starts on a train platform in Malaysia with one suitcase, two rucksacks, and a quiet realisation.A year ago we had a house, two cars, a garage full of projects, thousands of records, and all the things that come with building a life over three decades. Today everything we own fits onto a luggage trolley, and Yvonne still thinks we could carry less.I talk about clearing my late dad's house, discovering Swedish death cleaning, selling a lifetime record collection, and why I realised I missed what those things represented far more than the objects themselves. We also explore the strange relationship between possessions and identity, the hidden weight of owning more than you need, and why every purchase now has to justify its place in our lives.This isn't an argument for minimalism or owning nothing. It's a conversation about what we choose to carry, what quietly owns our attention, and why freedom sometimes looks less like buying something new and more like finally putting something down.

Everybody talks about escaping.Escaping the job. Escaping the commute. Escaping the mortgage. Escaping the UK. Escaping the routine.But almost nobody talks about what happens the morning after.This week I talk about the strange reality of life after the thing you've spent years trying to reach finally arrives. Leaving a 31-year career, selling everything we owned, leaving the UK, and building a new life in Southeast Asia taught me something I wasn't expecting: freedom doesn't automatically change the person carrying it.We talk about retirement, identity, purpose, and why the nervous system often takes much longer to catch up than the life itself. I share what surprised me most after leaving work, the parts of corporate life I don't miss, the parts I unexpectedly do, and why so many people end up building new projects, businesses, hobbies and communities after finally escaping the old ones.Along the way I reflect on my dad's retirement, the challenge of answering the question "What do you do now?", the difference between financial freedom and psychological freedom, and why ordinary days have become far more valuable than dramatic ones.A conversation about purpose, identity, work, freedom, and what happens when the finish line turns out to be the start of something else entirely.