What We Talk About on Date Night

Date night looks a little different this week. After dinner, coffee, and a long catch-up, we sat down to share the conversations we had about prayer, marriage, parenting toddlers, work, entrepreneurship, and figuring out what God is calling us to in a really busy season of life.We talk about learning to actually enjoy the messy process of building something together, trying to show up well for our kids after long workdays, and why sometimes spending money to buy back your time is 100% worth it (including the house cleaner that may have changed Priscilla’s life 😂).Basically, come hang out with us after date night. Some deep stuff, some life stuff, and a very serious discussion about why $6 is simply too much for a side of rice.00:00 Welcome and New Format01:37 Building Together Updates03:07 Prayer and Hearing God05:41 Entrepreneur Dreams and Floundering08:28 Work Stress and Parenting11:35 How Date Night Went13:41 Instagram Question Kickoff15:38 Convenience Spending Picks18:05 Our Best Spend House Cleaner18:51 Wrap Up and See YouFollow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

How far does $200 actually get a family of four at Costco? 👀This week, we’re taking you along on our Costco date night to see if we can stick to our weekly grocery budget. We’re talking simple family meals, grocery budgeting, avoiding food waste, and the little habits that help us keep our spending in check—plus a throwback to our newlywed days when our grocery budget was just $50 a week. 😅Come grocery shop with us and see if we make it out of Costco under budget.Follow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

Football season is officially back, so obviously we had to talk about it. On this week's date night, Josh is fresh off a trip to Spokane for his 16-year fantasy football league (!!), which somehow turns into a conversation about longtime friendships, faith, community, marriage, and making time for things you love when life gets busy. We also get into how we do football season and why having different interests can actually be a good thing, and some amazing things you guys shared that make you feel loved by your spouse. Plus dinner at Uroko Cafe. Because date night. Come hang with us :)00:00 Welcome to Game Time00:05 Heading to Hiroko Cafe00:23 Spokane Draft Trip01:39 Friendship Origins02:55 Faith Family and Community05:04 Why Fantasy Football Matters05:29 Balancing Football and Marriage08:23 Communication and Compromise09:45 Food Break at Poke Spot09:54 What Made You Feel Loved10:40 Acts of Service Shoutouts11:41 Wrap Up and Date MontageFollow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

We're back with a new name, a new format and a whole new season of life. Relatbale Parenting is officially Gane Time. After taking a few months off for sickness, work, starting a business and just...life, we're finally picking the mics back up. But this time, we're getting out of the studio. Each week, we're bringing you along for date night as we talk marriage, parenting, faith, business, health, work and whatever else is happening in our lives that week. Think part podcast, part vlog, part third-wheeling our date night. For our first episode back, we're heading to Newport Beach, catching you up on where we've been, and sharing what you can expect from Gane Time. Come hang with us!Follow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

In this quick, bite-sized episode of the Relatable Parenting Podcast, Josh and Priscilla dive into a powerful parenting mindset shift: how your reaction in tough moments can shape your child’s confidence, courage, and resilience. Inspired by a viral parenting video, they explore the impact of staying calm, positive, and encouraging when kids face fear, failure, or physical setbacks - like falling off a bike or navigating playground mishaps. Through real-life parenting stories, from monkey bar fears to handling childhood conflict, they unpack how small, everyday responses can become lasting teachable moments. Priscilla shares how intentional encouragement can build toughness without dismissing emotions, while Josh reflects on how even missed opportunities can influence a child’s long-term mindset. Together, they highlight the balance between raising resilient kids and staying emotionally supportive.This episode is a must-listen for parents of toddlers and young kids who want to raise confident, courageous children without overreacting or under-supporting. If you’ve ever wondered how to turn hard moments into growth opportunities, or how to help your kids “find a way” through challenges, this conversation is a good place to start.00:00 Quick Bite Intro00:17 How We Are Doing00:48 Bike Crash Parenting02:08 Building Courage03:38 Playground Reactions04:34 Violet Finds A Way06:39 Monkey Bars Lesson07:55 How We Were Raised10:16 Bully Story Middle School13:42 Ziglar Quotes Mindset14:37 Your Turn And Wrap UpFollow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

In this episode, Josh and Priscilla dive into the idea of redeeming productivity through a Christian worldview after listening to a powerful conversation about faith, work, and purpose. In a culture obsessed with hustle, self-optimization, and productivity hacks, this discussion challenges the question: Why are we striving to be productive in the first place? Is productivity about personal success, recognition, and achievement — or is it meant to be something deeper that honors God and serves others? Together, they unpack how motivation, intention, and faith can transform the way we approach work, parenting, and everyday responsibilities. Josh and Priscilla reflect on the tension many Christians feel between working hard and trusting God, exploring how productivity can become either a tool for service or an idol of self-reliance. They discuss the importance of examining the heart behind ambition, the danger of using faith as an excuse for fear or laziness, and how staying grounded in scripture can help believers navigate that balance. The conversation also touches on modern culture’s obsession with “becoming the best version of yourself” and how that mindset can sometimes distract from a God-centered life. The episode closes with practical takeaways for parents who want to live with intention: starting the day with God, anchoring your priorities through scripture, creating disciplined routines, and modeling meaningful work for your children. Whether you’re a busy parent juggling work and family or someone seeking a healthier relationship with productivity, this conversation will encourage you to rethink success, slow down, and pursue a life that glorifies God while still embracing diligence, ambition, and growth.Here is a link to the Dial In podcast episode referred to in this episode of Relatable Parenting: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/biblical-productivity-morning-routines-goal-setting/id1505222737?i=1000750137114Resources Mentioned:• Book: "Redeeming Productivity: Getting More Done for the Glory of God" by Reagan Rose• Website: RedeemingProductivity.comConnect with Reagan Rose:🌐 RedeemingProductivity.com🎧 Redeeming Productivity Podcast📺 Redeeming Productivity YouTube Channel00:00 Welcome Back Update00:26 Why We Took A Break01:20 New Podcast Direction04:10 Episode Setup And Feedback04:43 Redeeming Productivity Intro06:28 Motives Matter - Heart Check08:33 Trust God Not Laziness11:16 Start Day With Jesus14:26 Time Blocking And Integrity15:30 Productivity As An Idol17:19 Parenting Takeaways19:11 Final Thanks And GoodbyeFollow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

In this episode of the Relatable Parenting Podcast, Josh and Priscilla return after a short hiatus to share an honest conversation about one of the hardest lessons parents eventually face: you can’t do everything (and that’s okay). After a month without their usual childcare support while Priscilla’s parents were away on a medical mission, their routines were stretched thin. The experience forced them to rethink productivity, redefine priorities, and make intentional decisions about what truly mattered in this season of family life. Together, they talk about the pressure many parents feel to excel in every area—career, marriage, parenting, faith, health, and personal goals—and how that pressure can quietly lead to burnout. Instead of trying to maintain the same pace, they learned to set realistic expectations, communicate clearly as a couple, and intentionally let certain things go. From cutting back on work after hours to sacrificing personal projects and keeping a less-than-perfect house, this episode explores what it actually looks like to prioritize family and marriage when life gets overwhelming. If you’re a working parent trying to balance career ambitions, young kids, and personal goals, this episode offers encouragement and perspective. Josh and Priscilla share practical lessons about setting boundaries, serving one another in marriage, relying on faith during stressful seasons, and remembering that while you may be able to have many good things in life—you don’t have to have them all at the same time. 00:00 Welcome Back Update00:47 Why We Disappeared01:36 Fragile Schedules Reality04:03 Choosing Priorities05:26 You Can Have It All08:30 Josh Workday Cutoff10:08 Priscilla Lets Go11:49 Pausing Side Hustles13:54 Non Negotiables16:35 Bible Plan Wins18:04 Wrap Up Next EpisodesFollow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

In this solo episode of the Relatable Parenting Podcast, Josh reflects on last week’s conversation with his parents, Jim and Tomoko Gane, and unpacks the wisdom-filled parenting values that shaped his upbringing—especially the memorable “Jim-isms” that emphasized responsibility, resilience, faith, and character. From phrases like “Be well, be right” to lessons on handling life’s unfair moments, Josh shares how these simple, repeatable sayings left a lasting imprint and continue to influence how he and Priscilla are raising their own kids today Josh then dives into a new parenting and discipleship initiative at their church called Faith Path, a practical framework designed to help parents take the lead in nurturing their children’s faith at home. He walks through the three core rhythms—daily, weekly, and routine—highlighting how small, consistent habits like prayer, age-appropriate Bible engagement, church involvement, and intentional family time can shape a Christ-centered household without overwhelming busy parents.This episode is especially encouraging for moms and dads who want to be more intentional about faith-based parenting but aren’t sure where to start. With relatable stories, realistic expectations, and actionable ideas, Josh reminds parents that progress—not perfection—is the goal, and that discipleship is meant to be woven naturally into everyday family life.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:56 Recap of Last Week's Episode02:05 Parenting Wisdom from My Parents07:22 Introducing Faith Path at Crosspoint10:04 Daily, Weekly, and Routine Discipleship19:45 Faith Path Themes and Resources22:02 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsFollow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

What actually sticks with kids as they grow up? In this special guest episode of the Relatable Parenting Podcast, Josh and Priscilla sit down with Josh’s parents, Jim and Tomoko Gane, to unpack the family sayings—“Jimisms”—that shaped five sons, strong marriages, and a faith-filled home. From “Be well, be right” to “Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future,” this conversation explores how simple, repeatable phrases can form a child’s conscience, guide decision-making, and build character that lasts into adulthood.Jim and Tomoko share honest reflections on parenting through different seasons, why the hardest work happens between ages zero and ten, and how discipline with an eye on the future differs from punishment in the moment. They also dive into family values, leadership, friendship choices, faith formation, and what it looks like to raise kids who don’t just comply—but truly own their beliefs. The episode is full of practical wisdom, real-life stories, and encouragement for parents who feel like the payoff of intentional parenting is still far away.Whether you’re parenting toddlers, navigating the teen years, or thinking long-term about the adults you hope your kids become, this episode offers perspective, reassurance, and tools you can start using today. It’s a reminder that consistency, wisdom, and patience matter more than perfection—and that the lessons kids roll their eyes at now may become the ones they carry for life.00:00 Welcome to the Relatable Parenting Podcast00:22 Meet the Most Requested Guests: Jim and Tomoko Gain01:28 Episode Overview and Jimisms Introduction03:10 Diving into Jimisms: Be Well Be Right05:52 Family Values and Listener Questions08:14 The Importance of Early Training and Wisdom11:49 Parenting Challenges and Reflections18:43 Listener Questions: Love Story and Discipline34:20 Concluding Thoughts and Where to Find UsFollow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube

What does it actually mean to create a family vision—and how do you turn it into something practical, not just wishful thinking? In this episode, Josh and Priscilla share their family vision for 2026 and walk through how they intentionally define what they want their family to pursue and leave the year with. From faith and family culture to hard work and strength, they break down the values guiding their parenting decisions this year.You’ll hear the honest conversations behind narrowing a big-picture vision into a simple, actionable family motto, along with the three prompts they use each year to shape their direction. They talk candidly about raising young kids, modeling faith at home, teaching the value of money and effort, and creating a household where children feel safe, loved, and confident as they grow. If you’ve ever wanted to be more intentional about your family rhythms, values, or parenting goals—but felt overwhelmed by where to start—this episode will give you encouragement, clarity, and practical inspiration to create a family vision that fits your season of life. 00:00 Introduction and Funniest Moments of the Week02:18 Reflecting on December's Annual Meeting02:50 Defining Our Family Vision for 202606:53 Family Vision: Faith, Family, Hard Work, and Strength15:42 Action Steps for Achieving Our Family Vision20:55 Conclusion and Upcoming Guest AnnouncementFollow us on socials: InstagramTikTokYouTube