Sikkim

In this episode, we reflect on what it’s been like to return home after months of travelling. We talk openly about reintegration, grief, identity, work, friendship, and rebuilding life back in the UK. This is our first episode together since April. From emotional highs to unexpected challenges, we share the honest reality of coming home changed.Timestamps:00:00 – Intro & catching up 01:10 – Last days in India 03:10 – Reflections on our India journey 05:42 – Benji’s Bihar volunteering 07:43 – Returning to India someday 07:55 – Judah’s return home 10:58 – Surgery, grief & “soul surgery” 13:38 – Burnout & taking time off work 15:21 – Benji’s South Africa season 19:24 – Friendship, identity & coming home changed 24:01 – Leeds 2.0 & rebuilding life 26:28 – Not understanding our story yet 27:15 – Outro

Today, we're taking a deep, honest dive into quite a sensitive topic, but an important one.Before I left South Africa, I sat down for a candid chat with my friend, Ethan, who is from Durban. I put him on the spot with a few questions, and he bravely shared his personal perspective on what it's like living in a nation still very much shaped by the legacy of Apartheid.It's important to remember this is Ethan's unique viewpoint, and he was incredibly gracious to share it, even with some natural concerns about how it might be received back home in South Africa. But trust me, his voice is insightful, and for anyone outside South Africa, this episode will be incredibly informative and thought-provoking.We cover everything from personal identity, family history, and the nuances of diverse racial groups, to the complexities of economic inequality and the challenges and hopes for the future.If you're curious about South Africa beyond the headlines, this dialogue offers a truly unique and valuable lens. Tune in!Episode Timestamps:00:15 Ethan's Background and South African Experience01:19 Cultural Differences and Family History01:57 Racial Identity and Historical Context04:47 White South African Groups and Stereotypes07:25 Diverse Racial Groups in South Africa13:00 Apartheid and Its Aftermath21:16 Current Issues: White Farmers and Safety25:02 Discussing White Farmers as Refugees25:20 Perspectives on Immigration and Genocide27:05 Trump's Stance on Skilled Immigrants29:32 Life as a White South African Post-Apartheid31:16 Affirmative Action and Economic Inequality33:29 Challenges of BEE and Corruption40:37 Economic Disparities in South Africa46:34 Informal Economy and Unemployment51:16 Hope and Resilience in South Africa52:05 Living in South Africa: The Positives

In this solo episode, I take you on a reflective journey through India’s vast and layered history — from ancient civilisations to the British Raj, Independence, and the tragedy of Partition. Alongside key facts and stories, I share my experiences visiting some of these locations connected to Indian history. Whether you’re curious about Indian history or part of the diaspora wondering where you come from, I hope this episode is informative!In this episode:(00:00:00) Welcome & My Personal Connection to India's History(00:02:38) Understanding India as a Diverse Subcontinent(00:06:21) Ancient India: Indus Valley, Caste System & Buddhism's Rise(00:12:03) Medieval India: Islamic Influence & the Mughal Empire(00:15:10) The East India Company: Trade to Empire & Its Impact(00:27:09) The 1857 Uprising & British Raj(00:34:30) The Amritsar Massacre (1919) & Gandhi's Non-Cooperation Movement(00:39:22) Partition: A Traumatic Divide & Lasting Legacy(00:51:35) Modern India's Formation & Current Affairs (e.g., Kashmir)[00:54:13] Personal Reflections: Connecting with Ancestral HeritageResources mentioned:-The Golden Road by William Dalrymple-Empire Podcast Series by William Dalrymple and Anita Anand

In this episode, we reflect on our journey through Punjab—our mother’s homeland. From village tractors in Kular to the sacred sites of Amritsar, we explore what it meant to walk in the footsteps of our ancestors while being Christian backpackers. We share stories of unexpected family connections, rich hospitality, and moments of deep spiritual meaning—from Sadhu Sundar Singh’s birthplace to believers bringing food to the train station. Join us as we talk culture, heritage, and faith in the heart of Punjab.

In this episode, we reflect on what it’s been like to travel long-term as Christians while embracing the backpacker lifestyle. We explore the unique challenges, faith-filled moments, and how our beliefs shape the way we experience the world on the road.

In this episode, Judah takes the lead as we dive into music, reflecting on how his planning shaped our journey. He shares how his music has connected with our travels, his growth in playing the ukulele, and what this trip has meant for him creatively.

We had a week in Sikkim which was a welcome retreat from busy Indian cities.

Join us to hear our experiences of Kolkata and meeting family in Chandannagar.

In this episode we discuss our time in Hyderabad. It's the longest we have spent at one destination in India. We discuss Benji's observation at LV Prasad Eye Institute and what it was like for Judah in his free week. We then discuss recent reflections on India, and our positive experience in a house church. Let us know what you think, and continue to like and follow the show!

Listen along to hear what it was like being in India initially. It is my first time and Judah's second time in India. Hear about about our physical challenges but also the joy of travelling in India. And listen to our thoughts about Mumbai, Goa, Mysore and Bangalore. There are a few musical treats this episode to enjoy too!