Rest Isn’t a Reward: What Real Support Feels Like

You don’t need another self-care checklist — you need somewhere to exhale.In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove I am unpacking the real science behind why venting isn’t weak — it’s regulation.🌿 Learn how releasing emotion through voice, breath, or tears signals safety to the nervous system🌿 Discover how pressure builds in the body when you suppress your truth🌿 Explore simple somatic techniques to calm your system in real time✨ Join The Soft Return — My 4-day private Voxer coaching experience — to release, rest, and remember who you are underneath the tension.DM “SOFT” or visit here to join.Join Jennifer Grove’s online community hereFollow Jennifer Grove on social: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠,⁠Pinterest⁠, ⁠LinkedIn⁠Subscribe to our ⁠YouTube Channel

Rest isn’t something you earn. It’s something your body needs to survive. In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, I break down the lie we’ve been sold — that worthiness comes from productivity — and share what real support looks like when you’re exhausted from holding it all together.We’ll explore:✨ Why rest is nervous system medicine, not laziness✨ The difference between performance-based strength and genuine support✨ How to reclaim rest as your right, not a prize you’re chasing💌 If you’re ready to soften, exhale, and finally unclench — join The Soft Return, my 4-day voice-note based coaching experience. Enrollment closes Monday, October 27.👉 DM me “RETURN” or tap the link in the show notes to join.

You’ve probably been told that growth means doing more — more posting, more pushing, more performing. But what if that’s the very thing keeping you stuck?In this episode, I’m getting real about the truth no one talks about: growth isn’t about adding more pressure — it’s about releasing it. I’ll share how tightening your focus, listening to your nervous system, and unclenching from the chaos actually amplifies your magnetism.We’ll talk about the moment I stopped throwing spaghetti at the wall, the single shift that changed how I attract clients and clarity, and why your next level doesn’t require more effort… just more alignment.✨ Listen if you’re ready to grow through softness, not struggle. Take the quiz + join waitlist.Join my online community here:Follow Jennifer Grove on social: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠,⁠Pinterest⁠, ⁠LinkedIn⁠Subscribe to the ⁠YouTube Channel

We’ve been told to “be nice,” “calm down,” or “just let it go.” But what happens when you hold everything in? In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, I'm unpacking why venting isn’t weakness — it’s emotional alchemy.You’ll hear:🌿 Why venting is a nervous system release, not collapse🌿 How holding it in keeps you clenched + disconnected🌿 A personal story of shifting from silence to softness🌿 Why venting transforms heaviness into clarity and truthIf you’re ready to unclench, Jen’s 4-day private Voxer coaching space — The Soft Return — is now open for just $111.✨ DM SOFT or book your spot here

When you’ve spent years in survival mode, boundaries can feel impossible… or even selfish. But what if boundaries aren’t walls at all? What if they’re the doorway into freedom, softness, and abundance? 🌿In this episode, I share how nervous-system safety is the missing link in boundary-setting — and why saying “no” isn’t about pushing others away, but about finally saying “yes” to yourself. We’ll explore practical ways to unclench, protect your energy, and create space for the life you’ve been trying so hard to manifest.✨ Listen in if you’re ready to stop people-pleasing, stop clenching, and start living from a place of softness and strength.🔗 If this episode resonates, DM me “SOFT” on Instagram to explore how we can work together.

Starting fresh doesn’t have to mean hustling harder, piling on pressure, or chasing a new to-do list. In this episode, I share the one simple promise I’ve made to myself this season: to unclench and come back to myself in 30 days.We’ll talk about why clarity isn’t found in doing more, why calm is actually a strategy, and how the energy you choose to start with will shape the reality you create.✨ If you’ve been craving a reset that feels soft, grounded, and real, this episode is your permission slip.📌 Takeaway: Calm creates focus. Calm creates consistency. Calm creates freedom.👉 Tune in, then ask yourself: What’s one promise you’re ready to make to yourself for the next 30 days?Join Jennifer Grove’s online community hereFollow Jennifer Grove on social: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠,⁠Pinterest⁠, ⁠LinkedIn⁠Subscribe to our ⁠YouTube ChannelJoin our email list The Trailblazer

You’re not broken. You’re not “too much.” And you’re not even angry — you’re unheard.In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, I crack open one of the biggest lies women carry: that anger makes us irrational. The truth? What we call anger is often the weight of being silenced, dismissed, or told to “calm down.”We’ll explore:✨ Why anger isn’t the enemy — suppression is✨ How “performative self-care” keeps you stuck in survival mode✨ The radical shift of seeing anger as wisdom instead of weaknessIf you’ve ever smiled through the ache, swallowed your truth, or felt like one wrong word might break you open, this conversation is for you.💌 Ready to stop pretending and start softening? The Soft Return — my 4-day voice-note based coaching experience — is open now. Enrollment closes Monday, September 29th.👉 DM me “RETURN” or click the link in the show notes to join. Because you don’t need fixing. You need to be heard.Join Jennifer Grove’s online community hereFollow Jennifer Grove on social: Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, Pinterest, LinkedInSubscribe to our YouTube Channel

What does real support actually feel like?In this episode, we’re not talking about fluffy encouragement or “let me know if you need anything” energy — we’re talking about soul-level, nervous system-softening support. The kind that makes you exhale.I’m sharing the difference between performative care and true emotional holding, why so many high-functioning women struggle to receive support, and how to begin letting yourself soften — without spiraling.This is your invitation to unclench, exhale, and return to yourself.💌 Join The Soft Return 4-Day Experience🎧 Join The Softness Practice Circle on Voxer🔗 Take the What’s Your Anger Archetype? QuizLet’s stop performing strength and start receiving real care.— JenNervous System Whisperer + Venting Coach@jgrovewellness

Have you always been the strong one? The dependable one? The one everyone calls when their lives fall apart — even while yours is quietly unraveling?In this raw style episode, Nervous System Whisperer + Venting Coach Jen Grove unpacks the hidden cost of being “the dependable one.” From personal stories to client breakthroughs, Jen dives into the ways constant dependability drains your body, erases your needs, and locks you into an identity that was never meant to be your whole truth.Inside this somatic-rich session:💔 The exhaustion + erasure behind the “strong one” role🔥 Why your constant reliability might actually be rooted in fear🌿 Somatic resets you can use in real time💡 How to unsubscribe from the default savior role + reclaim your own presence💌 Practices to let yourself be held without guiltThis isn’t another productivity pep talk. It’s an invitation to set the weight down, breathe deeper, and finally remember:You’re not here to hold everything. You’re here to hold yourself.✨ Ways to Go Deeper with Jen:Take the What’s Your Anger Archetype? Quiz Join the free Softness Practice Circle on Voxer Work with me inside The Art of Well-Being — my 30-day signature self-care program ✨ DM “ENOUGH” to @jgrovewellness for a free nervous system anchor tool.

If you’ve ever felt like letting go means losing control… or that rest is something you have to earn… this episode will change the way you see yourself.Join Nervous System Whisperer + Venting Coach Jen Grove as she unpacks the hidden weight of high-functioning control, the fears underneath it, and why softness isn’t weakness — it’s radical self-trust.Inside this episode:💛 A personal unpacking of control as a trauma response🌿 Nervous system reframes for moving from proving to presence🫁 A guided release practice to drop tension and shift into receiving mode🔥 A loving permission slip to choose softness — starting nowYou are still strong when you soften.You are still powerful when you rest.You are still worthy when you stop proving.✨ DM “SOFT” to @jgrovewellness for your free nervous system self-check tool.#SoftnessAsPower #SelfCareThatHeals #TheStrongWomansUndoing #GettinInTheGrove #EmotionalResonance