Chirp: What a healthy vagina smells like (usually) -- Episode 175

BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain how a vagina should smell. Great article on vaginal smells The Body Drama Book has great info about female bodies and more - including a bunch of photographs of different vulvas! Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US) Socials Facebook Instagram Website  

In this replay episode, I talk about how to explain intersex people to your kid. RESOURCES What is Intersex? What's it like to be intersex?  Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It!  Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own.  30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

In this replay episode, I give you scripts to explain polyamory to your kid. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover.  Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It!  Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own.  30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

In this replay episode, I explain how to talk to kids about erections. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] LEARN MORE BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

How to talk to young kids about sexually transmitted infections without freaking them out. Or being crazy uncomfortable.  What are STDs? From Planned Parenthood   The Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore  is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kids' go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources, and one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use the coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals, BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website  

Worried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining. Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy. Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Read here. Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.  Other stuff Birds & Bees & Kids.com has tons of info and resources. Work with kids? Check out BBKPros.com.   Socials: @birdsbeeskids   Monitoring and filtering: BARK is robust and pretty easy to install.   Do you have a neurodivergent kid? Grab 3 Key Things Your ND Kid Needs To Know (you'll get 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks, too)   Want to stay on top of the talks? Grab 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, I talk about the word 'slut'. List of sexual slang terms from Bark BBK Bookstore is here. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent   LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids. Facebook Instagram  

In this episode, I explains grooming - how to spot it and what to do about it. Consent Parenting is the place for you if you were sexually abused as a child.  Savvy Parents Safe Kids has up-to-date tips too help you spot trouble. There's a lot of helpful info here about this from the Australian government Practice Kit for Child Sexual Abuse (this is for folks who work with kids).  Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)  BBK Bookstore is here Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent   LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids. Facebook Instagram

The holidays can be extra tough for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent kids—new people, touchy relatives, and lots of noise. In this episode, I share simple, concrete ways to help ND kids keep their boundaries and stay comfortable. You'll learn: – How to prep ND kids for hugs and touch expectations – What language makes boundaries crystal clear – How to support them when family doesn't get it Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids. LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Holiday gatherings can make body boundaries a mess. Here's how to help kids handle hugs, high-energy relatives, and "say-hi" moments with confidence and respect. You'll learn: – What to teach kids about saying "no" politely – How to prep family for your boundary rules – Ways to model consent during the holidays Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent   LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.