How To End Enabling Behavior

Get ready for a deep dive into the chaotic and unhinged world of modern dating! Jamie is joined by Val Parker and Andie Popova, the brilliant and beautiful minds behind "Ask a F-ckboy" - New York City's sold out show where participants confront a panel of f-boys to dissect their ghostings, gaslightings, and situationships... PowerPoint presentations included. Now they're bringing the fun to Los Angeles on March 28! The duo spills on how they met, the origins of the show, and the most jaw-dropping stories from past participants. Plus what they learned along the way. If you've ever been left on read, this one's for you! FYI-this episode is rated Explicit! Not for young ears! Follow our guests: @askafuckboy @valparkercomedy @andiepopova Tickets: www.askafuckboy.com Follow Jamie: @jamielynneallover Support the show: www.patreon.com/jamieallover Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered why you connect with others the way you do? This week, we're breaking down attachment styles with special guest Adam Lane Smith, a licensed psychotherapist and attachment specialist who has helped thousands of people improve their relationships through attachment healing. Adam explains secure and insecure attachment (which includes anxious, avoidant, and disorganized). We'll explore how these types form, how they affect your relationships, and most importantly, how you can move toward a secure attachment style for deeper, healthier connections. Tune in to learn: How to identify your attachment style The real difference between anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment (Jamie is not the type she thought she was!) How childhood experiences shape our connection patterns Practical strategies to rewire your attachment style for better relationships Whether you struggle with emotional closeness, fear of abandonment, or just want to understand yourself better, this episode is packed with game-changing insights. Listen now and take the first step toward stronger, more fulfilling relationships! Follow our guest: www.adamlanesmith.com @attachmentadam Follow us: @jamielynneallover Support us: www.patreon.com/jamieallover Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jamie is joined by Dave Kramer, best friend of Hannah Clarke, to discuss how her tragic story became the catalyst for his advocacy against domestic violence and toxic masculinity. Hannah's murder, along with her three children, shook Australia to its core, sparking a national conversation about coercive control, gender-based violence, and the urgent need for change. Dave opens up about the painful regret of not speaking up when Hannah's husband made misogynistic and degrading remarks about her. That silence haunts him, but instead of letting it consume him, Dave has turned tragedy into purpose. We dive into how small, unchecked misogyny can escalate into something worse, the pressure men face under traditional gender roles - and how that can fuel violence, teaching young men and women healthier ways to process emotions, and what healthy masculinity looks like. Dave shared the song that was played at their funeral and we thought it would be fitting for the outro song: "You are my Sunshine" by Jasmine Thompson  In loving memory of Hannah, Aaliyah (6), Laianah (4), and Trey (3). Follow our guest: @_davekramer @smallsteps4hannah Follow us: @jamielynneallover Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jamie talks with Annemarie Pazmino (she also goes by Annamarie and Anna), whose family lost their Altadena, CA home in the Los Angeles Eaton wildfire. Annemarie shares the harrowing account of the day her family left their home, unaware they would never see it again. She recounts the irreplaceable losses from cherished mementos, to their beloved chickens, and even her father's and grandmother's ashes. Built with their own hands and life savings, the destruction of their home left them navigating the "Hunger Games" of finding housing - from insufficient savings to qualify for rentals, finding housing that accepted pets, and landlords price gouging, with little help from FEMA or insurance. Annemarie refelcts on how their community became their greatest support, shares where her family stands today, and how listeners can help support families rebuild after devastating loss. To donate, support our guest, and/or share her story: @annapazer Follow us: @jamielynneallover Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let's get weird with one of Jamie's favorite content creators, Mr. Cult Daddy! The two dive into his recent transformative session in Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT) that revealed how his past lives were influencing his current life. They explore his unexpected career path from working in finance to making content about crypto, only to lose a million dollars and have it all come crashing down. After stepping back to focus inward, he found the courage to pursue content that truly resonated with him. By letting go of the need for external validation and learning to love himself, he unlocked success on Tik Tok and Instagram. This conversation is a thought-provoking look at why we're here and what it means to align with your authentic self. Follow our guest: @mrcultdaddy Follow us: @jamielynneallover Support us: www.patreon.com/jamieallover Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This brief episode tackles the culture of silence and complicity that protects abusers and harms survivors. Jamie discusses the line between self-preservation and complicty. With a focus on healing, Jamie offers insights on how to support survivors and create real change. If you've ever felt silenced, betrayed, or unsure of how to navigate these complex dynamics, this episode is for you. Together, let's honor survivors and commit to a better way forward. Ad revenue from this episode will be donated to www.laurashouse.org If you're experiencing domestic violence, Laura's House is available 24/7 with resources, referrals, and safety planning. 866-498-1511 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Leah Garcés, president of Mercy For Animals and a longtime animal rights advocate, joins Jamie to discuss her groundbreaking initiative, “Transfarmation,” which helps farmers transition away from factory farming to sustainable, cruelty-free livelihoods. Leah shares her journey of teaming up with Craig Watts, a Perdue Farms contract farmer raising 700,000 chickens annually. Despite being on opposite sides of the issue, they joined forces to challenge the harmful practices of animal agriculture. As Leah reflected in her TED Talk, “My whole life I had spent blaming him, hating him. I never thought, he feels as trapped as the chickens.” We also dive into Leah’s powerful experiences, from stepping inside factory farms to caring for a rescued chicken as a pet. Additionally, we explore the hidden truths about how taxpayer dollars fund cruelty in animal agriculture and discuss what we can do to drive change. Follow us on Instagram: @jamielynneallover Follow our guest: @mercyforanimals @leahgarces www.mercyforanimals.org www.thetransfarmationproject.org Support us: www.patreon.com/jamielynneallover Video episodes: www.youtube.com/jamiealloverpodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aaron Thomas Green had a near death experience and says we choose our appearance, intelligence, parents, hardships, and even enemies before we are born. We also explore his vivid description of Heaven, including a place just for dogs. He challenges common ideas about Hell, revealing it's not what we think and it doesn't have to last for eternity. Plus, he shares his awe-inspiring encounter with the face of God and answers the very controversial question - does life begin in the womb or at birth? This conversation will expand your perspective on life, death, and what comes next! Follow our guest: @green78401 Follow us: @jamielynneallover Support us: www.patreon.com/jamieallover Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this captivating episode, Jamie welcomes Dianne Sherman, who reveals her astonishing near death experience (NDE) and the life altering insights it brought.  Dianne takes listeners on an incredible journey from witnessing doctors trying to revive her in the hospital to a transcendent realm where she felt an overwhelming sense of love and belonging, making her reluctant to leave.  Dianne details how she returned with enhanced gifts that she now uses to help others release blocks, heal, and find heaven here on earth. Jamie asks Dianne why some spirits haven't crossed over and how can those with a sixth sense lean into it, despite their own fears and stigmas from society. This powerful discussion challenges listeners to rethink beliefs about existence, suffering, money, and religion, as you're invited to explore the mysteries that lie beyond our understanding.  Dianne's website: www.guidingyourspirit.com Follow us: @jamielynneallover Support us: www.patreon.com/jamieallover Outro song: "Cherish" by Madonna Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jamie is joined by two podcast listeners, turned friends, Jen from Ohio and Mel from Canada, plus a cameo by Ivy! The ladies ask a series of out of the box questions to each other such as: "Have you ever broken into someone's phone or house?" "What's the craziest dare you ever accepted?" "Would you rather be stuck in a room filled with bees or spiders?" "What's the shadiest thing you did on a date?" "What's your most embarassing butt dial or wrong recipient for a text?" and more! Suppport us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/jamieallover Follow us: @jamielynneallover Outro song: "Sugar We're Goin Down' by Fall Out Boy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices