What does amazing aftercare look like?

Listen, I know its been a minute but this episode was TOO good to leave in my drafts from a few months ago. Have you wanted to know the secrets of mindblowing anal sex, surrender and what it means to call in more connectedness during penetration? Tune into this 15 min riff on everything NOT practical you need to know to create the most delicious anal sex of your life.  

Listen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover. If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-bookCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!   Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at  https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing  or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to  hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!  

Don't listen to this if you don't want to know what could happen at a kinky birthday party! Meg and I sit down for a slightly chaotic and engaging chat about a juicy event I hosted for Meg's kinky birthday. Meg shared their favourite and sexiest moments from the party, what it was like to be spanked, teased and worshipped  and you may or may not find out what big role honey plays into all of this.  If you have ever been curious what could be possible at this type of event, tune in. We discuss how consent, communication, preparation and intention can set a really good foundation for yummy and delicious experiences!  Do I drop some bombs about  cake sitting fetishes, my Domme work and all the kinky contraptions I have in my house... ? I don't know you'll have to find out you curious little cat. Meg Froehler is a Métis, queer, gender fluid, photographer who specializes in creating safe spaces for her subjects to discover self empowerment and to witness themselves in a new light. They love to work in the realms of kink, sexual health, queer weddings and motherhood. You can find them on Instagram @meg.froehler and they are open to inquiries at [email protected] 

If you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear some incredible experiences of folks who shared how medication affected their libido in positive or negative ways. This is a great podcast to learn a little more about the intricacy and layers that contribute to your libido and what you can do to feel more balanced  in the game of mental health, medications, desire and sexual wellness advocacy. If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-bookCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!   Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at  https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing  or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to  hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! *Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. Anything said should NOT be taken as a replacement for medical, clinical, professional advice, diagnosis, or medical intervention. If you take any action or inaction as a result of any of the content you consume on this Podcast, this is based solely on your decision, and Azaria Menezes and her guests cannot be held liable for any of the consequences of such action or inaction.This podcast represents the opinions of Azaria Menezes and also the opinions of her guests on the show and my guests do not necessarily reflect any agency or organization or company that they work for.

I was triggered hard during sex, and I wanted to share (after processing) how I navigate a trauma response showing up in my own personal sex life. I've done tons of work on my sexuality - and there are always new ways my body integrates things on deeper levels. Some things I share out of this experience are: understanding what my body needs and how it helps me process triggers or big emotions during sex, shame and guilt associated with sex and feelings during sex, the fear of getting triggered happening again and what we did to navigate that time to have sex. I also shared how the intimacy I created with my body helped me process things much quicker, the complexity of limiting sexual experiences of the past and the most important thing to practice mastery in when it comes to integrating big feelings + hard experiences. Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!   Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at  https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing  or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to  hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! 

An update on the Italy trip, why I didn't really miss anyone at home and what it means to take space away from the hustle and bustle.  In this episode I share about my struggle of slowing down, what it means to learn enjoying time with myself and the way I honor my identity outside of being a mother and a wife. I also share all the ways you can practice taking space in your relationship, what it means to seek sacred and inspiring experiences in your life  and how you can support your relationship to feel spacious. I also share how this all intersects into motherhood, relationships + identity. If you've been craving a bestie catch up with me, grab your giant tea mug and tune in! Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!   Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at  https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing  or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to  hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! 

Drop into this episode where I share the beginnings on how Ry and I met. When I tell you I spent the majority of the first year of our relationship crying you might not believe me. I share about how we went from disliking each other to having a hot secret office romance all the way to what I wore on our first time together and how the tools we used at the beginning of our relationship still support us to feel amazing today. If you told me I would go from primarily being in relationships with women to being married to Ry years ago, I would have bet money on myself the story would never ever come true. Never say never.  Tune into all the intimacy and a peak in to all the lessons I went through to let this beautiful love into my heart! xo The Pussy Fairy Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!   Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at  https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing  or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to  hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! 

Have you ever wondered WHAT you can do about different levels of desire?  How to actually navigate those times when you're feeling low/high desire and your partner is feeling the opposite? In this episode you'll learn How to communicate effectively about this, what to do to navigate the challenging lows, what some of the things are that actually contribute to low desire. Theres also an art to understanding your desire, you'll leave this episode understanding how you can find out what turns you on sexually and non sexually and knowing how you can shift to the sex you actually want with one simple trick. xo The Pussy Fairy Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!   Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at  https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing  or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to  hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! 

For all of you baddies who want to create amazing  aftercare for yourselves or the lover/s in your life.  If youre wondering if you even need to know about aftercare or need it in your life, the answer is always YES. In this episode I dive into what the whole point of aftercare is, how we can make it fun and how it can really benefit us with in any relationships.  This includes dating, long term relationships, non -monogamous relationships and monogamous relationships.  If you want to know the deets on how to communicate your needs, process big feelings post sex or learn how to create a beautiful aftercare ritual; you won't wanna miss this.  Aftercare is a staple of integrating our sexual experiences and I'll share with you exactly how to make your erotic experiences a little richer.  Will I share some of the things I do as aftercare? You might have to tune in and find out you curious cat. xo The Pussy Fairy Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!   Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at  https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing  or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to  hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! 

In this episode I'll share with you not only 5 core tips on how to increase the pleasure factor during your midnight sex adventures. I also share my most recent experience, how to navigate not being in the mood for it and ways you can tap into your intuition and discern between routine and desire.  Midnight sex is underrated and I know that after this episode, you'll be calling some of this midnight delight into your life. xo The Pussy FairyIncase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!   Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at  https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing  or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to  hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!