From 78 - 022 | Longing... for... what?

In this episode of From78, I reflect on how place and technology shape the way we experience time and connection. Recording from my office before a day of clinical work, I think about the privilege of listening, the importance of “regular” places where relationships once accumulated, and how those spaces seem increasingly rare.Rather than simply criticizing technology, I explore a more balanced view—drawing on Marc Weidenbaum’s idea of being “digitally cozy”: staying engaged with books, walks, art, meals, and family while dialing back the constant churn of short-term online conversations.I also reflect on how meaningful relationships can form entirely through technologically mediated means, setting the stage for an upcoming interview that continues this conversation.00:32 Introduction and Reflections on Being a Psychoanalyst02:16 Exploring the Concept of Place06:34 Technology’s Role in Social Interaction07:33 Insights from Disquiet.com11:53 Balancing Technology and Real Life16:44 Upcoming Interview and Conclusion

Summary:In this episode of the From 78 podcast, recorded on Thursday, December 4th, I discuss the subjective experience of time and how it intertwines with social spaces and technology. After a hectic Thanksgiving with my family, I delve into the significance of physical places in making meaningful human connections, contrasting them with today's digital interactions. I highlight a particular episode of Craig Mod's newsletter 'Ridgelines' that emphasizes the atmosphere of jazz kisaten in Japan and their unique social dynamics. I also share observations from my own life, pondering how modern technology and remote work have transformed communal spaces like cafes, affecting how people interact today. Suggestions and reflections on this transformation invite listeners to consider their own experiences and interactions in such spaces.Table of Contents: 00:32 Introduction and Thanksgiving Reflections01:52 Podcast Content and Recent Activities04:14 Craig Mod and His Works06:50 The Importance of Place in Human Experience12:22 Jazz Kissa: A Unique Cultural Phenomenon17:48 Reflections on Modern Social Interactions24:50 Conclusion and Listener EngagementReferenced: Marjory Prime (film) Mubi (service) Craig Mod (web) Things Become Other Things (book) Ridgelines 218 (web) Ridgelines archive (web) Kissa by Kissa (book) Contact: [email protected]

In episode 025 of the 'From 78' podcast, the host reflects on the significance of maintaining routines and the therapeutic role of podcasting in organizing thoughts. The host discusses the challenges of a busy November travel schedule, which disrupted his usual podcast routine, leading him to deeper contemplation of how expressing his thoughts changes his relationship with them. Highlighting Albert Camus' 'Notebooks 1942-1951,' he explores the longing for places of informal social interaction and the creation of bonds outside structured environments. The episode also examines Paul Kingsnorth's idea of the 'four Ps' (People, Place, Prayer, Past) and their diminishing role in contemporary life, juxtaposed with the practical difficulties of reclaiming these elements without abandoning modern conveniences. The episode concludes with gratitude to listeners and a reflection on balancing the longing for a deeper connection with the practicalities of modern living.00:32 Introduction and Podcast Update01:54 The Importance of Podcasting in My Life04:21 Reflecting on Inspirations and Ideas08:45 Engaging with Albert Camus12:00 Longing for Connection and Place19:52 Paul Kingsnorth’s Four Ps23:14 Modern Intelligence and Points of Reference29:05 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell

Reflections on Life, Growth, and Connection with Rob BellIn this episode, Neil interviews Rob Bell, delving into significant memories and experiences that shaped Rob's life. They explore Rob's childhood memories on a farm and a rustic cabin in Michigan, poignant historical events like the Challenger explosion, and discussions on the impact of environment and personal history on his outlook. Rob articulates his philosophies on living a fulfilled life by being attuned to nature, engaging in creative processes, and embracing curiosity and connection with others. The conversation also touches on influences from music, the importance of empathy, and the evolution of personal growth in understanding oneself and others.You can find more of Rob's work over at RobBell.com, and you can join his Patreon page to support his ongoing work. Table of Contents00:31 Introduction and Early Memories00:56 Life on the Farm02:24 Michigan Cabin Adventures03:17 Significant Historical Events05:53 Impact of Locations on Life06:31 Connection with Nature16:32 Influence of Media and Music20:47 Reflections on Parenting and Influence26:03 Current Phase of Life29:49 Navigating Emotional Investments34:24 Understanding Agricultural Perspectives35:39 Shifting from Contempt to Curiosity37:28 The Glitch in the Progressive Matrix45:11 Navigating Parent-Child Relationships52:28 Learning from Others and Self-Reflection56:30 The Power of Perspective and Absurdity

The Significance of Place in Shaping Our LivesIn this episode of the 'From 78' podcast, I explore the subjective experience of time and the impact of physical places on shaping personal identity and relationships. I share personal anecdotes about the various places that significantly impacted my life, including a game store, a Borders bookstore, and a Denny's restaurant. I reflect on how these places provided a sense of community, facilitated friendships, and influenced my tastes and aesthetics. I also ponder the effect of technology on social interaction and question how I can create or find similar meaningful spaces in my current life. The episode encapsulates a sense of nostalgia, gratitude, and curiosity about the evolving nature of communal spaces.00:31 Introduction and Greetings01:03 Kolacky and Coffee: A Morning Ritual02:10 The Importance of Plans02:47 Wandering Thoughts: The Significance of Place05:10 Reflecting on Past Experiences07:39 The Role of Place in Personal Growth10:56 Memorable Places: Game Store and Borders17:59 Denny’s: A Hub for Connection27:00 The Impact of Technology on Social Spaces28:54 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude

Reflections on Time and LongingIn this impromptu episode of the 78 podcast, Neil Gorman delves into his subjective experience of time, sparked by a spontaneous observation while driving past a middle school. The episode explores themes of nostalgia and longing as Neil reflects on his own middle school experiences, juxtaposing them with his life as an adult, and wrestling with the emotions these memories evoke. Introduction and Episode ContextReflecting on Daily RoutinesA Nostalgic EncounterMemories of Middle SchoolThe Longing for YouthAdult Reflections and RealizationsConcluding Thoughts and Reflections

Embracing Uncertainty and Desire: A Reflection on Open-MindednessIn episode 021 of the From78 podcast, Neil reflects on a personal anecdote about eating a bagel and connects it to his thoughts after reading a New Yorker article about Mahmud Mandani's 1964 bus trip across America. Neil then explores themes of open-mindedness, desire, and the subjective experience of time, questioning whether people today are still capable of embracing the unknown and unfamiliar without fear or defensiveness. Through these reflections, the host delves into the concept of desire within Lacanian psychoanalysis and challenges listeners to consider their own reactions to lack and absence.00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote01:52 Introducing the Main Topic03:08 New Yorker Article Excerpt05:41 Reflecting on the Past and Present09:15 Exploring Human Nature and Desire13:07 Concluding Thoughts

Episode Description: In this episode of his podcast, host Neil Gorman delves into the subjective experience of time and reflects on his own emotional and cognitive journey from youth to adulthood. He discusses the shift from anger and judgment in his younger years to a more compassionate and understanding outlook as he grew older. Neil revisits previous themes, references the poem 'The Prophet' by Kahlil Gibran, and shares insights about the natural progression of becoming a steward of the world. He also discusses the contrasting paths people may take as they age—either moving towards compassion or becoming increasingly bitter. Join Neil as he explores the complexities of time, growth, and the importance of compassion.Warning: This episode is a self-referential reflection, where I revisit some of the themes from prior episodes. It is very rambly, so if you like that kind of thing, you'll like this one. And, if you don't like rambling episodes, you should probably skip this one. Themes & Returning Themes: Dwelling in the house of Tomorrow when you're young, and moving out into the world of the present.The shift from being one who is going to inherit the world to someone who has inherited the world and is now a steward of that world.The loss of youth, the future, a large stack of tomorrows.... This makes some people soften and become more compassionate, and others harden and become bitter and brittle. Referenced: The Prophet, by Kahlil GibranF78 Episode 015 Nick Cave (Faith, Hope, & Carnage; The Red Hand Files) F78 Episode 017 F78 Episode 018 

I talk about how it's been a while since I last produced an episode of this podcast. Between the release of my last episode (018) and this one (019), I went back and re-listened to all the episodes I made in season 2. This makes me reflect on two things. 1. How technology lets me kind of travel in time, by letting present me listen to past me. 2. My general liking for audio as a medium. Referenced: TV show: Quantum Leap Ira GlassThis American Life Joe Frank RadioLab  

Referenced in this episode:The Read Hand FilesNick Cave (Wikipedia) Faith, Hope, & Carnage (Amazon) Freud Morning in Melancholia (Wikipedia)