Episode #70: What Happens Next?

We dream in fantasy land. We picture the finish line, the business that works, the baby in our arms. The hard parts never make it into the picture, so when they show up, most people decide they picked the wrong dream.My dream for years was racing the Ironman World Championships in Kona. I got there in 2022 and had one of the worst days I've ever had on a course. I still got every ounce of what I asked for. It just didn't look like the version in my head.This episode covers why you can't predict the challenges ahead, why trying to pre-engineer around them keeps you stuck, and why the deeper pull behind a big dream is who you become on the way there, not the destination.The Autopilot Reset: https://findingyoursuccess.com/A free tool to help you see the patterns running your decisions and start choosing differently.Mindset Hacks: https://join.findingendurance.com/mindsethacksMindset Coaching / Finding Success: https://findingyoursuccess.com/Athlete Mindset Coaching: https://www.findingendurance.com/triathlon-coachingTriathlon / Single Sport Coaching: https://www.findingendurance.com/triathlon-coachingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifervollmann/

Building a life takes two things: pushing hard for what you want, and staying open to the pull toward something you couldn't have imagined on your own.The push is defensible. Everyone understands commitment and hard work. The pull is less obvious, and it leads somewhere bigger than what your own imagination can come up with. The work is knowing which one the moment is asking for.In this episode:The gap that opens up when you keep pushing toward something you chose five or twenty years agoWhy the push is so hard to quit, and why everyone around you will support you doing itLimbo, and why sitting in the middle feels safe and drains everything out of youHow to tell a real pull from something you only think you should be pulled toWhy the chaos in your brain has to get quiet before you can hear anything underneath itGetting comfortable being unsettled, because that's the actual mindset workChange isn't a one-time event you get through and never repeat. The dance goes both directions, sometimes at the same time.Free Resources:The Autopilot Reset: https://findingyoursuccess.com/A free tool to help you see the patterns running your decisions and start choosing differently.Mindset Hacks: https://join.findingendurance.com/mindsethacks7 Simple tools to shift your thinking fast!Mindset Coaching / Finding Success: https://findingyoursuccess.com/Athlete Mindset Coaching: https://www.findingendurance.com/triathlon-coachingTriathlon / Single Sport Coaching: https://www.findingendurance.com/triathlon-coachingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifervollmann/

What Happens at the Top of the MountainThe midlife crisis gets all the attention. Nobody talks about what happens after it. You do all the things, rebuild a life, and then it's only "mid" life, which means you have a hell of a lot more life left to live.This summer I got to the top of the mountain I've been climbing for years. Instead of relief, I found unease.This episode is the other side of it. Why reaching the goal doesn't make you happier, why the tapping comes back after you answer it, and how to find the next mountain before you start to shrink on top of this one.Free Resources:⁠The Autopilot Reset⁠: https://findingyoursuccess.com/A free tool to help you see the patterns running your decisions and start choosing differently.⁠Mindset Hacks: ⁠https://join.findingendurance.com/mindsethacks7 Simple tools to shift your thinking fast!⁠Mindset Coaching / Finding Success⁠: https://findingyoursuccess.com/⁠Athlete Mindset Coaching⁠: https://www.findingendurance.com/triathlon-coaching⁠Triathlon/ Single Sport Coaching⁠: https://www.findingendurance.com/triathlon-coaching⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/jennifervollmann/

Recovery is the most misunderstood phase of the season. Most people get it wrong in one of two ways. 1. They take a giant vacation and disappear from the work entirely2. They skip it and keep dialing the intensity until they burn out. Neither is recovery. Recovery is a deliberate phase with work attached. Skip it and the next season starts from a worse place than it should.This episode walks through the four pieces of real recovery: celebration, reflection, evidence, and contained rest. Why most high performers skip celebration and what it costs them. How to reflect using fact versus story so the brain stops exaggerating what went wrong. The volume button approach to managing intensity across the rest of your life. And what closing a season actually looks like so the next one can start strong.This closes out The Season You Are In series on the Finding Your Endurance Mindset Podcast. Base, build, peak, recovery. Whatever phase you're in next, the work is the same: do the work that belongs to the phase you're in.Free Resources: ⁠The Autopilot Reset⁠: A free tool to help you see the patterns running your decisions and start choosing differently.⁠Mindset Hacks: 7 Simple tools to shift your thinking fast!⁠Work with me:Mindset Coaching / Finding Success⁠Athlete Mindset Coaching⁠Triathlon/ Single Sport Coaching⁠Instagram⁠

What lesson keeps coming back to you?Peak phase is the moment everything you've trained for shows up to meet you.There are 2 things to know about Peak Phase 1: you are entitled to nothing 2: this is when the lesson you have been carrying all season is the one that shows up and you can either learn and grow or have it hit you over the head again. When you are open to it, Peak Phase is when you have been trained to be at your best and you can handle take in that lesson and grow from it, if you choose. You are not entitled to the result. Best training block of your life and your legs can still have ten watts less than you needed. That is just what peak is. It is not a guaranteed performance. It is an invitation to find out what you actually have.From The Season You Are In series on the Finding Your Endurance Mindset Podcast.Free Resources:The Autopilot ResetA free tool to help you see the patterns running your decisions — and start choosing differently.Mindset Hacks7 Simple tools to shift your thinking fast!Mindset Coaching / Finding SuccessAthlete Mindset CoachingTriathlon/ Single Sport CoachingInstagram

We've moved out of base. Intensity is going up, intervals are in, and stress moves to the center of the conversation.Stress isn't the enemy. The build phase runs on it. The question is whether the stress you're applying is controlled and intentional — or random and reactive.In this episode:What the build phase asks of you in sport, business, and lifeControlled stress vs. random stress, and why the distinction mattersCapacity beliefs and belief ceilings — what happens when your work outpaces what you think you can handleWhy discomfort is a signal that growth is happening, not a sign that something is wrongThe momentum trap: adding too much, dropping recovery, and how the build phase quietly turns into burnoutAdd stress. Sit in the discomfort. Grow. Then do it again.Next episode: the peak performance phase.Triathlon / Single Sport CoachingMindset CoachingAthlete Mindset CoachingInstagramAthlete Travel

Base phase doesn't get a lot of glory. No PRs to post, no breakthroughs to share — just the consistent work that everything else gets built on. That's exactly why it's the hardest phase to stay in.In this episode, we get into what the base phase actually is — in training, in business, and in life — and why so many people either skip it, shorten it, or quietly abandon it when things start to feel slow or boring.We cover:Why boredom in base phase is expected and how to stop letting it pull you off planThe comparison trap that shows up when your current fitness doesn't match your pastFuture belief work — a practical way to anchor yourself to where you're going instead of where you currently areHow to manage your energy strategically and stop spending matches you'll need laterThe difference between being behind and simply being in the right phaseBase phase isn't the waiting room. It's the season. This episode is about treating it that way.Next episode: The build phase — and why controlled stress is your friend, but random stress isn't.Triathlon/ Single Sport CoachingMindset CoachingAthlete Mindset CoachingInstagramAthlete Travel

In this first episode of The Season You Are In, Jennifer kicks off a brand new mini series by breaking down one of the most powerful — and overlooked — concepts in endurance sports and life: you are always in a season, whether you're paying attention to it or not.Drawing from her own recent experience racing the Black Canyon 50K on base fitness, Jennifer talks about what happens when your expectations don't match the phase you're actually in. The result? Frustration, self-judgment, and a whole lot of unnecessary suffering.In this episode, you'll learn:Why peak fitness — and peak performance in business — is meant to be temporaryHow to identify the four phases of your season: base, build, peak, and recoveryWhat the "mismatch" between where you are and where you think you should be is really costing youHow to label your season correctly and trust yourself to do the right work at the right timeWhether you're an athlete, entrepreneur, or creative, this episode will change how you measure where you are — and help you stop arguing with reality.Next episode: we're diving deep into the base phase.Mindset Coaching (Life + Business)Mindset Coaching (Athlete)Triathlon/Single Sport CoachingInstagram

You have thought patterns running your life right now that you don't even know are there.They sound like facts. They feel like identity. And they're driving your decisions, your confidence, and your results without you realizing it.In this episode, Jennifer breaks down what autopilot patterns actually are, where they come from, and why they show up as procrastination, self-doubt, imposter syndrome, fear, and playing small. I walk through the framework I use with every client to uncover these patterns, unravel them, and create new ones. And I share a real client story that shows exactly how one invisible thought pattern was quietly running someone's business decisions for 20 years.If you've been feeling stuck, frustrated, or behind — it's not a character flaw. Your autopilot button is just on.I also introduce a free resource called The Autopilot Reset that walks you through this framework step by step. Download it a findingyoursuccess.com/autopilotLearn More:Triathlon CoachingAthlete MindsetMindset CoachingInstagram

In this episode, Jennifer explores a pattern that keeps high performers stuck: waiting for permission.Not because they lack skill, effort, or desire—but because decision-making has moved outside of them.This conversation breaks down what self-authority really is (and what it’s not), how permission-seeking disguises itself as “just wanting clarity,” and why spreading out responsibility can keep people looping in hesitation and overthinking.Using examples from racing, training, and real-life decision moments, Jennifer explains:How to tell the difference between seeking input and seeking permissionWhy waiting for validation feels safer but limits forward movementHow spreading responsibility reduces ownership of both success and failureWhat it looks like to bring decisions back home—without needing certaintyThis episode is for anyone who keeps circling a decision, waiting for the right signal, the right timing, or one more green light.Because at some point, no one else is there to decide for you.1:1 Mindset CoachingTriathlon/Single Sport CoachingInstagram