Opening Up Without F*cking Up, with Ruby Rare

It’s time to talk about… KINK. Blindfolds, bondage, being a gang bang princess — this episode is dripping with all things freaky. Florence and Reed are diving clit-first into their favourite topic ever: kink. From tickle fetishes to golden showers, degradation to dentist gloves, it’s a wild ride through the buffet of BDSM and beyond. They’re taking the ultimate kinky quiz, swapping filthy stories (shoutout to the sushi date turned “Mommy Dom” moment), and giving you the lowdown on how to explore your kinks safely — whether you're a seasoned switch or a curious newbie with a fresh pair of handcuffs. Consent, safe words, self-pleasure tips, kink shame spirals — it’s all here. Plus, loads of listener confessions that prove: you lot are DIRTY. And we love to see it. So… how kinky are you, curious f**kers? Get your ropes ready. Let’s find out. Support Come Curious Keep us wet, wild, and whispering dirty things in your ears: patreon.com/comecurious Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you squirm, squeal, or say “Yes, Mummy” smash that 5 star, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s time to talk about… AGEING. From saggy titties to spiking libidos, Florence and Reed are diving deep into the wild, wobbly, and wonderful world of getting older. This episode is a full-body embrace of wrinkles, weight changes, and the shifting sands of self-esteem — and we’re not holding back. Why are we so terrified of ageing? Is it all doom, gloom, and bingo wings? (Spoiler: absolutely not.) We’re talking stretch marks, gray hairs, changing libidos, and learning to actually love your body — not just tolerate it. Plus, we’re busting myths with juicy facts that’ll make you want to fast-forward to 50 (hello longer orgasms and bigger clits). Whether you're hitting your thirties or living it up in your sixties, this one’s for anyone who’s ever felt a little weird about getting older. Curious f**kers, it’s time to go from fuck no to fuck yes on ageing. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink your anti-aging cream — smash that five star, baby. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever Googled “Am I gay?” and clicked on the weirdest quiz imaginable? You're not alone. In this gloriously queer and candid Pride Month episode, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into the wonderfully confusing world of sexuality with zero judgment and all the juicy honesty you’d expect. From bisexual panic and gay porn epiphanies to kissing your best mate and not feeling “gay enough” — nothing’s off-limits. They work through the infamous 10-question “Gay Checklist,” opening up about their own chaotic journeys through queerness, identity, imposter syndrome, internalised biphobia, and the confusing politics of desire. Whether you're questioning, fully out, or just feeling curious, this episode is a rainbow-coloured hug for your confused, horny, beautiful soul. Curious f**kers — get your flags out and press play. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's time for a special minisode dedicated entirely to our beloved Get F***ed segment — because sometimes life gives you so much material that one regular episode just isn't enough to contain the chaos. Florence's discovered her own sweat is literally giving her a rash (evolutionary fail, much?), while Reed drops a major bombshell about her relationship status. We're serving up burst pipes, breakup revelations, body image battles, and the kind of messy honesty that makes you feel less alone in your beautiful disasters. Don't worry, curious f**kers — next week we'll be back to our full-length episodes with all the regular segments and extended deep dives you love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bush, landing strip, bald eagle — we’re getting into the hairy truth of it all. From shaving disasters and itchy regrowth to waxing regrets and the porn-fuelled pressure to stay bare, Florence and Reed are pulling no punches (or hairs). Why are we still so weird about pubic hair? Should we be doing anything with it at all? And what happens when your partner’s pube-preferences cross a boundary? We dive into personal stories, body politics, and the wild history of the bush. Whether you’re team full bush, neatly trimmed, or silky smooth, this one’s for you. Curious f**kers, let’s get into the thick of it. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

TW: Discussion of transphobia, homophobia and language that could be distressing for some listeners. This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by award-winning sex educator and writer, Topher Taylor to talk all things DL guys- men who identify as straight but have sex with men. Together they answer your questions, listen to your stories and unpack desire, secrecy, queerness, kink, and all the complexities that come along with it. Nothing’s off-limits. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed get into the messy, emotional world of relationship breaks- the rules, the realities, and whether they actually work. They read your stories, tackle a juicy voicenote dilemma, and Reed opens up on where she’s at in her own relationship right now. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week Florence and Reed are joined by award winning sex educator and author, Ruby Rare to chat all things non-monogamy. Ruby opens up about her personal experiences within poly and open relationships, and shares her best tips for handling conflict and navigating jealousy when there’s multiple people involved. Plus, Ruby gives her take on the concept of a “one penis policy”. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

TW: Miscarriage - In this week’s episode, Florence opens up about her recent miscarriage. She shares what the experience was like, both physically and emotionally, and how she’s currently navigating the healing process. Meanwhile, Reed shares a dating story involving a feeding kink. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What happens when your hormones, brain, and body are all speaking different languages? In this deeply honest episode, we explore the complexities of PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), neurodivergence, and body image. From battling mood spirals and sensory overwhelm to navigating body dysmorphia, our guest shares what it's like to live inside a body that often feels unfamiliar — or even hostile. We unpack how PMDD can exacerbate the challenges of being neurodivergent and how both can distort self-image. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices