How to focus on yourself

Where your attention goes, energy flows.

RELATED SUBSTACK ARTICLE - https://lyssboss.substack.com/p/id-take-him-back-again-if-it-meantDETACHMENT MASTERCLASS - https://stan.store/lyssboss/p/daretodetachGoing backwards is necessary to move forwards Let’s be real — sometimes, you have to go back just to finally walk away for good.In this episode, I open up about the relationship that broke me open — the one that made me start my podcast. I used to think going back meant I was weak. But now I know it was part of my divine plan. That heartbreak forced me to meet myself, build everything I have now, and become the woman I was meant to be.If you’ve ever blamed yourself for going back, this will change how you see it. You’ll learn why the “wrong” person was actually your biggest teacher!! :)And if you’re ready to finally detach and reclaim your power — my Substack article and masterclass Dare to Detach are both live. Trust me, this is the moment you start choosing you.

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In this episode, I’m diving deep into the world of manifestation and quantum jumping instantly!! manifestation is actually effortless when you stop overthinking it and start embodying the identity of the person you wish to become. If you enjoyed this episode, follow on spotify + leave a comment! Lots of love, lyss <3

In this episode, I’m breaking down how to shift your aura from gray to golden - from dull and drained to glowing, magnetic, and unstoppable. I get into how your emotions literally color your energy, and I share how I healed from toxic vibes, cut out the noise, and raised my frequency. We’re talking self-belief, clarity, energetic audits, feeding your mind with the right content, and fully aligning with your soul’s truth so you can call in abundance and actually manifest what you want.00:00 Introduction: From Gray to GoldenThe vibe check: how I went from feeling gray and heavy to glowing golden.00:04 Understanding Auras and Energy FieldsBreaking down what an aura actually is and why your energy field is everything.00:50 Personal Experience with Aura ChangesMy own story—how I could feel my aura shift and what I did about it.01:51 The Healing Process and Golden AuraHow to release toxic attachments and step back into your power.02:50 The True Meaning of a Glow UpIt’s not just looks. It’s soul. It’s frequency.03:23 Mastering the Art of Alchemizing Your EnergyTurning low vibes into gold. Literally alchemy.04:51 Harnessing Inner Power and Self-BeliefWhy your energy skyrockets the second you decide you’re the main character.06:43 Certainty and Clarity in ManifestationHow being sure of yourself and your vision changes the game.12:37 Energetic Audit and DetoxWho and what gets to stay in your field—and what’s out.15:38 Consuming Positivity and High FrequenciesWhat you scroll, watch, and listen to builds your aura.18:07 Creating a Positive Morning RoutineSmall shifts to set your vibe high from the moment you wake up.19:00 Mastering Your Energy FieldOwning your aura like it’s your superpower.20:04 Life Hack: Removing Unaligned PeopleSometimes the hack is unfollow, block, delete. Protect the vibe.24:46 Living from Your Soul's TruthWhen you move from your soul, everything aligns naturally.26:17 Transforming Your Relationship with MoneyMoney is just energy—shift the frequency, shift the flow.28:33 The Power of Words and PositivityYour words are spells—speak gold, not gray.30:19 Romanticizing Your LifeHow to make every moment feel cinematic and magnetic.32:51 Connecting with a Higher PowerPlugging into the divine—God, universe, whatever you believe in—supercharges everything.34:23 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsYour aura is your magnet. Keep it golden.

In this episode, I talk about the power of just letting people walk if they choose to leave your life. Instead of chasing, begging, or trying to prove your worth to anyone, it’s about standing strong in who you are. I share my own experiences and lessons, and I remind you that healing, glowing up, and stepping into your best self is the real flex. We dive into self-worth, growth after heartbreak, keeping your heart open, and protecting your energy from negativity or toxic people. This is about reclaiming your power, learning to love yourself more than ever, and preparing for the love and life you truly deserve.Timestamps00:00 Let Them Walk: Embracing Self-Worth00:48 The Right People Will Stay01:26 Stop Chasing, Start Healing01:58 Transformation and Growth03:25 The Power of Self-Love03:44 A Journey of Authentic Connections05:28 The Glow Up: Embracing Change07:55 Reclaiming Your Power26:22 Living Freely with Love

20 MINUTES. That's all it takes. In this video, I emphasize the importance of taking control of your life by focusing on healing both your mind and body. Through my personal experiences, I highlight how physical wellness directly impacts your ability to manifest and achieve your dreams. I cover crucial steps to resetting your life, cutting off negative influences, prioritizing self-care, and believing in your own vision. This talk encourages you to let go of past burdens, be selfish with your time, and push forward with determination and faith.00:00 Introduction: The Power of Self-Rescue00:16 Mind-Body Connection: The Key to Healing01:25 Personal Journey: Overcoming Health Challenges03:14 Manifestation and Physical Health04:42 The Importance of Routine and Mental Clarity05:37 Rock Bottom: A Turning Point10:15 Embracing Change and Letting Go21:26 The Power of Self-Belief and Vision29:29 Conclusion: Trusting Your Vision and Moving Forward

In this episode, I’m diving into the importance of choosing you and really investing in yourself so you don’t end up with regrets later. I open up about my own journey of rebranding my business and my podcast, Date Yourself Instead—why I felt like it was time for a big change as I continue to grow personally and professionally.I share some of the transformational experiences I’ve had over the past few years, what went into my decision-making process, and why authenticity has been the key to everything. For me, it all comes back to self-trust, betting on yourself, and fully aligning with your real purpose.00:00 Introduction: The Odds of Regret 00:32 Personal Journey and Transformation 01:13 The Birth of 'Date Yourself Instead' 02:36 Rebranding: A New Era 03:46 The Decision to Rebrand 05:02 Betting on Yourself 07:46 The Power of Authenticity 09:45 Challenges and Reflections 11:08 Future-Proofing the Brand 12:35 The Importance of Self-Investment16:11 Embracing Change and New Beginnings 35:31 Conclusion: Believing in Yourself

This episode is me unpacking my summer all through the lens of values. I realized that authenticity, freedom, self-love, and financial independence aren’t just “nice to have,” they’re literally the blueprint for my entire reality. Every decision I made this summer.. who I dated, how I worked, what I tolerated, what I walked away from, all came back to these values. I want you to not just hear my stories, but to start writing down your own non-negotiables and embodying them like your life depends on it, bc it does.

September Reset!!! Embrace Your New Self for Fall 2025In this episode, I kick off a fresh season with a comprehensive guide to the ultimate September reset for Fall 2025. I share my personal experiences of feeling stagnant throughout the year and the transformative energy shift I felt as September began. I delve into crafting new daily routines, embodying higher-self affirmations, and reprogramming the mind to focus on future goals. I emphasize the importance of physical health, detailing my gut health detox and newfound running routine while advocating for lifestyle changes such as quitting alcohol. I also discuss the significance of revamping our external appearances to reflect internal growth and fostering relationships that uplift and align with this new identity. I encourage listeners to realign their thoughts, prioritize wellness, and let go of past negativity to step confidently into a transformed self for the remainder of the year.TIME GUIDE:00:00 Welcome to the September Reset01:02 Reflecting on 2025: A Year of Stagnation and Change02:07 The Ultimate September Fall Reset04:32 Visualization and Affirmations for a New You08:36 Rewriting Your Self-Concept13:01 Embodying a New Identity21:42 Health and Wellness: Gut Health and Detox33:26 Transforming Relationships and Letting Go36:38 Community Insights and Future Plans40:38 Conclusion: Embracing Freedom Fall