Work on Yourself, Not Your Spouse Pt. 1

Join Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley with their guest, Pastor Dan Seaborn as he describes how he and his wife transformed their marriage over the last three years. There's clinical wisdom for serious issues, but shared in casual and productive ways on this episode. We also share some questions to open up your spouse's inner world, as well as answer a listener's question on how often married couples should have sex.   The Necessary Nine   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Call our Counseling Line   Here's insight on a Healing Separation   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of making marriages strong enough to withstand life's challenges. We're bringing back one of our best friends, Dr. Gary Thomas, who talks about his book 'Making Your Marriage a Fortress.' The conversation covers how sin, temptations, and life trials can erode a relationship. We also discuss the significance of spiritual growth, community, and emotional safety in marriages. We'll also answer a listener's question about handling life after divorce and provide practical advice on creating a couples' vision board to achieve future goals together.   Making Your Marriage A Fortress   Hope Restored   Article: How To Overcome Unrealistic Expectations in Marriage   Take the FREE Reactive Cycle Assessment   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Call our Counseling Line   Here's insight on a Healing Separation   Contact the show!   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

There's something exciting happening and you could call it an Adventure In Odyssey! This is a special release to talk about the brand new animated feature film that will release in the Fall of 2026.   Listen to Adventures in Odyssey   Donate To The Making Of Journey Into the Impossible!   Contact the show!   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

We're doing a Question/Answer Show again because you are part of our community—addressing real questions, exploring fresh perspectives, and continuing the dialogue together! Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley share on a variety of marital challenges. From persuading a husband to give family trips another chance to discussing sensitive issues like pornography in marriage, emphasizing boundaries and seeking professional help. Keep sending your questions to us. It's our honor to help you in every way possible!   Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Book   Learn More About Pornography Help From Pure Desire   Resources to Help a Pornography Addiction   Check Out The Marriage Assessment Tool   Check Out The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

In this engaging conversation, Luke and Courtney Smallbone share the story of their 16-year marriage, reflecting on their love story that began with a chance meeting at a shoe store. (Luke and his brother Joel make up the band For King And Country.) Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley delve into the unexpected challenges and growth that marriage brings, sharing insights on leadership, conflict resolution, and maintaining a fun and fulfilling relationship. And as always, we answer a listener question.   Take The Date Night Challenge   Listen to the Song Ever & Ever Before   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

We continue the conversation with Kait and JJ Tomlin, but we dive deeper into understanding ways to be more intimate with our spouse. Calling out our feelings, checking ourselves, and seeking God's truth as you walk through tough times. They delve into the surprises and challenges they faced and the importance of pre-engagement and premarital counseling. JJ shares his journey of overcoming resentment and selfishness, highlighting the impact of ownership and repentance on their marriage. The Tomlins speak candidly about their sex life, illustrating the importance of realistic expectations, too. We also address a listener's question about dealing with pain, mental health issues, and a perceived lack of support from her spouse.   Take The FREE Marriage Assessment   See Where You Are In The Reactive Cycle   Click Here For More Information About Marriage Resources   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley talk with the founder of Heart of Dating, Kait Tomlin, with her husband JJ about our mindsets when we're dating before marriage, versus the reality of what we each bring into our married life. They emphasize the importance of being open to changes and the significance of individual growth and self-examination to maintain a healthy marriage. Our hurts, our issues, our expectations, all of it! We'll also give you a Valentine's Day activity, and we answer a question from a wife who knows that her relationship is stuck in the reactive cycle. The conversation provides practical advice on managing relationship conflicts and stresses the value of a teachable spirit and open heart in fostering marital growth.   The Language of Sex   Check Out The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Article: Flirt Your Way To A Better Marriage   Article: Maximize The Mundane   Check Out the Marriage Assessment Tool   Hope Restored Marriage Intensive   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Get ready for a GREAT conversation with Micah E. Davis, author of the book Three Strikes, You're Forgiven! He delves into the profound concept of forgiveness, emphasizing it as a deliberate decision rather than merely a feeling. Greg and Erin share strategies for beginning the forgiveness process, as well as God's grace in the journey as they share the story of someone close to their family that they had to forgive, too.   Three Strikes, You're Forgiven   Forgiveness In The Family Article   Hope Restored   Take Our Free Marriage Assessment Tool   Article: Dealing With Your Child's Divorce   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley address listener-submitted questions about various marital issues. They emphasize the importance of connection over pressure, advise on navigating financial transparency in relationships, and discuss handling mismatched sexual desires. They also provide guidance on dealing with snoring issues, setting boundaries, and striving for better marital satisfaction. We're advocating for open communication, self-awareness, and seeking professional help when needed to strengthen the marriage bond.   Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Book   New Hope Restored Focus On The Family Marriage Center in Cave Creek, AZ!   Check Out The Marriage Assessment Tool   Check Out The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Healing Separation Information   Resources About Sex   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of placing more faith in God rather than your spouse with Dr. Gary Thomas. They address various marital challenges, including the impact of adversities, providing both spiritual guidance and practical advice, and they offer recommendations for self-care and self-compassion. Dr. Thomas emphasizes the significance of drawing strength from God and uses personal anecdotes to illustrate how adversity can strengthen marriages. Greg and Erin also tackle listener questions, offering insights on handling emotional abuse and the potential for a healing separation. The episode concludes with critical components in sustaining healthy relationships.     The Life You Were Reborn To Live   Call Our Counseling Line at 1800-A FAMILY   New Hope Restored Focus On The Family Marriage Center in Cave Creek, AZ!   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.