Battle Picking & DADT

These two crazy cats reflect on what they’re thankful for this year. Big Cat and Dutchess Zane both agree that the groceries are a meal they’re cool with skipping.

These two crazy cats discuss how disparities of funds across partners can foster different styles of relationships. Big cat explains what METT-TC is and how he applies it to his poly style.

These two crazy cats discuss how picking and choosing one’s battles helps to reduce stress. Dutchess Zane attempts to help Big Cat unpack why he prefers “don’t ask don’t tell” from his partners.

The holidays are coming and these two crazy cats discuss diplomacy on how to manage time sharing between each of their partners. Big Cat and Dutchess Zane give their opinions on envy and how they navigate it.

Dutchess Zane helps Big Cat unpack the bloodlust he experiences when playing DBZ fighters with his metamour. Then the two explore the first impression energy of Dutchess Zane.

These two crazy cats discuss how, regardless of partisanship, this election has had everyone on edge. Big Cat and Dutchess Zane rundown reactionary red flags in relationships.

Dutchess Zane & Big Cat debate if/when a kink might be seen as a red flag for danger ahead and the importance of being honest about mental health status with your partners.

Big Cat and Dutchess Zane discuss how trial and error helped them realize which fantasies weren’t for them. Betas cloaking themselves as Master, cheerios, and fingers in booty holes.

These two crazy cats discuss when, where, and what kind of public play is okay. Big cat questions the motives of a recent public petplay scene that went viral. While Dutchess Zane suggest potential societal benefits of seeing kink in day to day life.

These two crazy cats discuss how to makes time to prioritize themselves while attempting to have balance in others areas of their lives. Meanwhile the upstairs neighbors run laps.