Episode 6: Green Flags & Healthy Relationships

jc celebrates the pod's first birthday as she looks back on the year that has been and talks about how cc with jc actually started back in 2018, how talking to people and expanding your experience will give you a different perspective in how you see life and how you see yourself, how having a pact with your friend that if you turn 40 and both single you'll marry each other is crazy, how the russo brothers took inspiration from The Society to create Infinity War and Endgame, and how to know when you're actually in love.  i hope i could thank each and every one of you personally for allowing this podcast to be part of your lives but i hope this episode will do for now.  special thanks to lucy (@jennieandroses) for producing this episode! thank you ♡

jc talks about how 500 days of summer's Tom was such an asshole, how she would describe each zodiac sign in her own words, about Toni Gonzaga's debut as kampon ng kadiliman and how super religious people oftentimes have questionable life choices, and how to handle if you and your family have different political views.  vote wisely this coming 2022 elections.  #KulayPulaAngKulayNgMagnanakaw

jc talks about how you play stardew valley THE RIGHT WAY, not as a gamer but as a chismosang kapitbahay in Pelican Town who is into everybody's business, what she loves and hates about stardew valley villagers, her and lucy's new favorite Youtube Channel, Mike's Mic, and how Marnie the rancher is living her All Too Well (10 Minute Version) (Taylor's Version) (Sad Girl Autumn Version) era and how she deserves better.  Stardew Valley giveaway!!  answer the following questions and send it to my twitter DMs (@kapsyon):  1. tell me why do you want the stardew valley game 2. who's your favorite villager and what's the chika about them?  Stardew Valley is available on all platforms: pc, mobile, switch. Php 249 on mobile and Php 420 on Steam! 

jc talks about topics that will make your crush notice you, how long lasting relationships are all about meeting each other in the middle, the bisexualification of known icons, classic filipino movies, how some au writers should stop sexualizing (and in a way, disrespecting) their idols by writing overly explicit smut, how we sometimes have the tendency to overemphasize the actions of the people we like just because we like them, and why are some people too desperate to be in a relationship? speakers: lucy (@jennieandroses), julia (@jxndeukix), rj (@slytherjennie), and ellie (@jenbossbish). 

jc talks about why do people tend to admit their feelings to their crushes during the holidays, why she will never date (or have feelings for) a friend, how love bombing is a red flag, how stan twitter expose threads are sometimes unnecessary, how you should ALWAYS tell your friends you love them (because they deserve it!!), dating rules and inappropriate dating behavior, talking about your sexuality to the straight people around you, and can you really always be "a little bit in love" with your exes? (hint: no. discussed further.)  happy new year, everyone!! :)  speakers: lucy (@jennieandroses), trissha (@lovesickher), tet (@chichuutops), kharya (@kh4rya). 

jc talks about undergoing LASIK surgery, her pc setup, about how moving on is not linear (you can progress and and go back as many times as you need), about healthy relationships and green flags, about not having to worry about people staying in your life. and she reminds everyone that NOT EVERY BAD THING IS A RED FLAG, that you are not your bad days, and that you should ALWAYS tell your friends that you love them.  HUGE THANKS to everyone who supports the podcast. thank you for letting cc with jc be part of your 2021 spotify wrapped! ♡ p.s. apologies for the background noise. my ac was being a bitch.  anna akana videos mentioned (in case anyone is interested):  1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mlAU_mlkAbk 2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BP3IrphwwXA&t=392s

what do you consider as relationship (or friendship) red flags? kapag ba marcos apologist, red flag agad? ang sagot ay oo. jc talks about common red flags, baby pink flags, and green flags. how do we differentiate the three? what makes a red flag, red? kapag ba kinuskos natin ang red flag behaviors will it turn pink?  Register to vote. Keep yourself informed. Matuto mag google. 

jc celebrates her birthday salubong, talks about what might happen after we die, how kindness is often mistaken as flirting, how you should have an overflowing love for yourself, how there is more love in letting go than holding on, relationship deal breakers, and how people heavily romanticize putting labels on things (when they really shouldn't force it!!)  guest speakers: lucy (@jennieandroses), tet (@chichuutops), trissha (@lovesickher), kharya (@kh4rya), eli (s0jujen), rj (@slytherjennie), and julia (@jxndeukix). 

jc talks about fangirling and the rules of consent, the consequences of blind fanaticism (trigger warning: rape, abuse, duterte administration), the musical Hamilton (deep dive!!), how eldest daughters sacrifice the most, how being neutral in situations of injustice is enabling the oppressor, how you can't force connections, how there's not a perfect time to break up with someone, and are the stars we see in the night sky really dead? guest speakers: julia (@jxndeukix) and lucy (@jennieandroses) disclaimer: this podcast was recorded june 19, 2021. 

jc talks about love languages, how barney and robin should've ended up together, how forgiveness is something you owe to yourself and not to those who have wronged you, and how love sometimes makes us do horrible things.