What To Do When Your Dom(me) Acts Like a Sub

In this episode, I explore how cultural conditioning can undermine your erotic authority and weaken your Dom/sub dynamic through a conversation with an experienced Dominant struggling to reconcile his Southern upbringing with the authority he wants to embody.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle speaks with a submissive who feels stuck in "mommy mode," unable to break out of a caregiver headspace due to apathetic leadership and lacking dominance, exploring what options remain when the person you're trying to submit to no longer feels dominant. Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a new FemDom who feels intimidated by her own power develop the confidence to lead more naturally and overcome shame and vanilla conditioning surrounding letting her Dominant voice roar. Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a submissive woman navigate the transition from being the primary initiator, planner, and "doer" in her marriage to embracing surrender. Learn practical strategies for letting go of control, creating space for leadership, and shifting long-established relationship dynamics without losing yourself in the process. Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle shares the practical strategies She has personally used to build lasting confidence as a woman. Learn how to stop overthinking, break free from constant self-monitoring, and develop the trust, presence, and self-assurance needed to show up more fully in your Dom/sub dynamic.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle guides a couple navigating disability and medical caregiving to build clear, consensual D/s containers that protect autonomy while reigniting polarity, desire, and erotic charge.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a married couple integrate simple, strategic erotic touchpoints that restore tension, deepen connection, and make arousal fast and reliable—without overcomplicating their Dom/sub dynamic. Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a dear community member clarify her desires and boundaries surrounding a friends-with-benefits dynamic she hopes to turn kinky!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Dominant find his erotic voice and expand past his one-dimensional communication style for deeper inducement and power-exchange in his kinky relationships.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL

In this episode, Ms. Elle works helps a submissive process the realization of their covert narcissistic abuse as they dissect a recent scene in which a slow-word was called as a result of a boundary violation. Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST  |  FOLLOW ON SOCIAL