The Great Phone Debate

We're going somewhere a little uncomfortable this week, and honestly? Good. We're breaking down cancel culture — who deserves it, who got a timeout they're calling a cancel, and why Aziz Ansari are not in the same category as Harvey Weinstein, even if Abe had to Google what actually happened to both of them.We talk Me Too, the pendulum of gender power, and whether men should maybe just sit down for a minute — Erin thinks yes, Abe disagrees but manages to explain himself without being a chauvinist about it. And? We actually reach a conclusion.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@[email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We finally caved and got our 11-year-old a phone. Here’s the thing though: it was actually the right call. Not for every kid, but for him. We talk about how we made the decision, the contract we made him sign, and why this is genuinely not a one-size-fits-all debate. Also, our 18-month-old grabbed Abe’s shoes at bedtime and personally escorted him to Riverside Park. I'm convinced he's a baby genius.Plus the pumping era, Dead & Co at The Sphere, a yacht in Ibiza, and why a man who volunteers opinions on your body is a red flag, period.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Abe sits down with Jason Zeffir — pop culture creator, debut novelist, and now podcaster — to talk about building an audience from scratch, what it actually takes to grow on Instagram, and why his literary agents eventually had to go. Jason’s book, Zombies of the Upper East Side, is part divorce story, part zombie apocalypse, and apparently the agents weren’t sure about the zombie part. They also get into the double standard around unlikable female characters, reality TV escapism vs. the void, The Swan documentary (yes, Terry Dubrow was there), and Jason’s new podcast Slay Replay, which is a Buffy rewatch and also kind of everything else.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@[email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The new RHONY season has begun and Erin and Abe are finally talking about it. They clear up the headlines (disputes, not debts — there’s a real difference), react to the Jessel moments, and discuss what it’s actually like watching yourself on TV months after filming. Also on the agenda: Mezcalum updates, Lioness is a must-watch, and they’re heading to Paris for Fashion Week — including a Celine Dion concert that Abe was once dragged to and definitely, absolutely cried at.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@[email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Brooke Taylor — career coach and author of Healing the Success Wound — comes on to talk about the thing high-achieving women don't want to admit: that the drive to do more, be more, and accomplish more is sometimes a wound dressed up as ambition. She breaks down the five types of unfulfilled achievers (Erin immediately claims "work hard, play hard" and "grinder," which tracks), why dopamine hits in the anticipation of success and not the success itself, and what it actually looks like to want things without making your whole identity contingent on getting them. Get More BrookeORDER BROOKE'S BOOK 'Healing the Success Would' HERE!@brookevtaylorGet More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@[email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

September was a lot. Erin's been running around nonstop, Abe's been holding down the fort, and Levi got himself on a yacht. They kick things off with the Stassi Schroeder show — what Abe related to about Beau, why a man suffering on camera is actually not that complicated, and the five-second editing format that might be changing reality TV forever. Then it's audience questions: spacing out your kids, night nurses (and why Erin didn't get one until baby four), sleep training without the cry-it-out guilt, keeping the spark alive when you have four kids and approximately zero time, and whether the spark even has to be there all the time. Spoiler: it doesn't. Also, go outside. Get off the apps.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Erin's out. Abe's in charge. What could go wrong.This week Abe takes your questions solo — and doesn't sugarcoat a single answer. Should your spouse come before your kids? Yes. Is it okay to go to bed angry? Also yes. Is a little jealousy healthy? Absolutely. Are men actually simple creatures? Mostly, but they need more hugs than they'll ever admit.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@[email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For a long time, Erin has been waiting to open up about how grief has shown up in her life. But the time wasn't right, until now.If you've ever lost someone and tried to keep moving anyway — you'll recognize this. The repressing, the distracting, the moment your body finally forces you to stop. Erin shares what happened after her dad died, what showed up physically when the grief ran out of places to hide, and how Nicole Sachs helped her understand what was actually going on.Whether you've dealt with chronic pain, anxiety, autoimmune stuff, or just feel like your body is working against you, this episode is for you.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@[email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Serena Kerrigan is in the building, and she has a book, a boyfriend, and approximately 600 men worth of dating experience to draw from. We cover all of it.We get into why wanting a relationship has somehow become embarrassing, why the talking stage is ruining everything, and why butterflies might actually be a red flag. Serena makes the case for rebranding dating as fun — and explains why the women who stop trying so hard are always the ones who find someone. We also get into first date etiquette (drinks, not dinner, and definitely not Nobu), why sex on the first date almost always leads to spiraling, and what it actually means to let yourself be pursued without losing your edge.Her book Let's Fcking Date is out September 22nd.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@[email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Okay, hear us out...Erin's not here this week. So naturally Abe brought in a very special guest: Claude. Yeah, the AI. We're honestly just suprised it took him this long to do it.Together, they cover AI relationships, consciousness, mortality, the three things quietly killing most marriages, and whether presence can survive the attention economy. It's a philosophy episode disguised as something weirder.We know. Just trust us on this one.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@[email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.