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Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EsiXrrWill Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower.The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blogSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3T8O91zSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWith his popular YouTube channel Some Good News, John Krasinski is showing how powerful it can be to combine humility, positivity and humor.In this video we'll be covering 5 ways John Krasinski is able to make you laugh, that you can use in any situation, from school, to work, to dates, that will get people to instantly like you more. We will also cover a major mistake people make, and how you can avoid it. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:18 - #1: Use go to stories.1:10 - #2: Act out your characters.3:01 - #3: Be comfortable using self-deprecating humor.4:20 - #4: Tell jokes that elevate other people.5:43 - #5: Double-down on other people's jokes.7:21 - Mistake: Be genuine and share your emotions.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JohnKrasinski #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 8000+ Members At Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3CfNW5P5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charminghttps://bit.ly/2SkU9e0Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all had that moment where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It sucks.So in this video, we’ll go through easy ways to get a laugh in 4 different situations: when someone else is talking, when you get teased and need a comeback, when you’re asked a question, and when you’re telling a story.And rather than go through examples where you need to be insanely witty, these are purposefully some of the absolute easiest ways you can get a laugh. Do these consistently and people will love being around you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:44 - #1: Do the wordless walk off1:55 - #2: Use an appearance analogy3:33 - #3: Say an absurd answer5:00 - #4: Laugh as you tell a joke or funny story-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3umpdd9Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all had those moments where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It can be frustrating, especially when you’re talking to someone you really want to like you.So in today’s video, we’ll go through 6 easy ways you can make people laugh or just love being around you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:12 - #1: Finish someone's incomplete sentence with a joke1:48 - #2: Surprise them with unexpected absurd answers2:59 - #3: Pivot to an exaggerated version of your real answer4:12 - #4: Start saying your positive thoughts out loud5:09 - #5: Be relentlessly positive6:34 - #6: Focus on having fun--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#ChrisHemsworth #ChrisEvans #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2H4cPDmSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe https://goo.gl/Bz7r46Experiencing Physical Warmth Promotes Interpersonal Warmthhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2737341/A free 30 day trial of Audible if you want to listen to How To Win Friends And Influence People, Influence, or Presuasion. All three are musts if you like this kind of stuff :-)https://www.audible.com/charismaWe grow up being told that if we want to be liked, get a date, get sales or a promotion, that it’s based on who’s the most qualified.But qualifications aren't always what influence people.I first saw that when reading Dale Carnegie's How To Win Friends And Influence People and Robert Cialdini book Influence.Call it persuasion, influence, manipulation, it's all about learning how to sell (an idea, a product, or yourself) in the best way possible.So in this video I’m going to go over 3 "how to influence" tips that have NOTHING to do with your credentials OR what you say.These can help you be more likable, get a date, and be more successful in business or sales.ALSOThe words "manipulation" and "persuasion" have become dirty words in today's society, but in this video, I just mean them as synonyms for "influence".These are harmless, ethical ways you can sway someone to give you a chance (both in business and socially) so that your true merit can actually shine through :-)0:29 How to game the Stereotype Content Model to influence people to like you more (whether it's to get a date, make friends, or sales)2:26 How to influence what they think about BEFORE they think about you or what you are asking for (from Robert Cialdini's book Persuasion)4:08 Does what you hold in your hands impact your ability to get a date or successfully sell?Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University and boost your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/010-25Today we're using the power of AI and hindsight to fix some of the most awkward celebrity interviews, showing exactly how you can avoid these cringe-worthy situations in your own life. Learn to handle passive-aggressive comments and uncomfortable moments with confidence.0:00 - Intro0:31 - Blake Lively1:16 - Blake Lively Fixed With AI2:38 - Turn Passive Aggression Into Active Aggression3:18 - Jonah Hill & Jimmy Kimmel4:21 - Agree, Exaggerate & Let It Go4:27 - Jonah Hill Fixed With AI5:53 - Ellen DeGeneres & Dakota Johnson6:37 - Allow Awkwardness To Exist7:13 - Ellen Fixed With AI7:35 - Jim Carrey9:37 - Jim Carrey Fixed With AI10:41 - Learn how to boost your confidence & charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/KevVsClavMost people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity.You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it.Timestamps:0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You"6:33 The Characters We All Play7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First8:28 Nothing Left To Protect10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular16:29 Try This YourselfSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get your first audiobook and a monthly selection Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeBobby Axelrod from Billions has more money and power than most of us could imagine, and it's not just because he's a good investor. Bobby is a brilliant negotiator, capable of getting people to give him almost anything he wants.In this video, we're going to cover 5 tactics Bobby uses in almost every negotiation, and how you can use them to negotiate better, whether it's at work, in your romantic relationships or with friends. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:27 - #1: Nail down what people need before negotiating.2:45 - #2: He will use his body language to manipulate other people's emotions (don't do this in your own life).4:47 - #3: He uses an exploding offer to create panic in the other person (don't do this in your own life).6:00 - #4: Always be willing to walk away from the table.7:44 - #5: Point.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#BobbyAxelrod #Billions #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/001-26If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable.0:00 - Intro0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments2:50 - Level 2: MC Compliments4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments6:59 - The essential mindset7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Shut Down HatersDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2C44MneOne of the unfortunate downsides of making positive changes is that people around you sometimes get negative. It doesn't matter what it is. It happens with people beginning new fitness regimens. . It happens with people starting new businesses, And it certainly happens with people who follow tips on this channel to become more charismatic. As they say, haters gonna hate.In this video, you’re going to discover 5 tips to put haters in their place when they start chirping..0:22 Ignore the hating, ignore the haters0:50 Play along with passive-aggression1:07 Special tip when haters say, "I could never do that..."1:39 Share your values and concerns for people close to you2:31 Find a community without hatersSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupertAnimations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/)Art: Bonni Rambatan, Fadhila Arimurti, Dwinanda EdoEditing: Bonni Rambatan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices