3 Surprising Problems of Successful People

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3sYOfxOSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeChanging someone’s mind is hard. I believe a huge part of the reason boils down to the fact that we often trigger one another’s emotional defenses before the content of our arguments can be evaluated.That’s why in this video I want to give you 5 do’s and don’ts to actually change someones mind and we’ll be using Steven Crowder’s “Change My Mind” segment to do it .⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:48 - #1: When persuading someone, go slow.2:10 - #2: Build rapport.4:08 - #3: Don't use insults.5:49 - #4: Concisely summarize how the other person feels.7:45 - #5: Make it clear that you're speaking from your individual perception of reality.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #StevenCrowder #ChangeMyMind--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s CharismaSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandHere, we try to look into the dangerous side of Tom Cruise's charisma. Tom Cruise is known as one of the most charismatic celebrities in Hollywood. When Rolling Stone writer and author Neil Strauss met him, he described him as “the perfect specimen” who has “a natural ability to remain dominant in any social situation without seeming to exert any effort.”As amazing as that sounds, that kind of superhuman charisma does have a dangerous downside. And it’s both of those things that we’re going to explore in this video: the specific behaviors that make Tom Cruise such a dominant social force. And the potential cost of being so charismatic. Below are the ones that make him so charismatic.0:36 Tom Cruise commands his physical space as in The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon 2:20 He genuinely smiles all the time and with other celebrities2:53 He mentions the name of the person he's talking to as in this NBC interview3:37 Tom Cruise keeps eye contact and in Oprah as well4:28 His talent in conversation also shows when he leans in when talkingSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Steps To Win Any ArgumentJoin our online training course Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ In this video I’m going to tell you how to win any argument. And I have years of training as a logician as a philosopher here, I can mangle people in debates and we are not going to use ANY of that here. I wasted so much time and damaged relationships with the "right” logical correct argument that SHOULD win. And I can make a video on that if you want, but the truth it would be next to useless when it comes to getting what you truly want.Because we are dealing with people. And throwing the right facts at people without catering to the psychology required to open them up, is destructive to your relationship and to getting what you want. Plus it destroys your ability to be compassionate and truly see things from someone else’s point of view. 0:54 How to win any argument is to edefine what winning means1:54 How to win any argument is to know what they want2:47 Empathizing via statements can help build social skills and mindsets4:01 Aim for self improvement and recognize their positive intent5:21 Build your confidence and make your case Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James Corden - How To Be Nice Without Being A PushoverDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EdT6QsPush Pull In Flirting: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8kSelf Deprecating Humor: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07cE9uFJ-SqUHQvmuNbhdRmzJames Corden has the fastest growing Late Night channel on YouTube thanks mostly to the massive success he has had with Carpool Karaoke on the Late Late Show.And while it is certainly fun to watch your favorite singers rock out to their most popular songs, a big contributor to the success of those videos is the dynamic James is able to create in such a short time. He’s able to get people to open up and really enjoy themselves. And if you watch closely, there is a moment where these stars who were previously bored or skeptical, seem to really begin to like James Corden. James Corden’s magnetism comes from the fact that he is able to make people feel good, without losing their respect. That is what we are going to learn how to do in this video. 01:44 Make your compliments more specific and direct02:06 Push-pull compliment to avoid the vibe of butt-kissing02:54 If tension arises when complimenting, follow up with a joke06:01 For certain groups, don't get walked over by dishing it back out07:55 Set boundaries at times too like what James Corden did hereSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EPUGcpWhy Donald Trump Will SMASH Hillary ClintonDonald Trump is going to beat Hillary Clinton and be the next President of the United States.Let me be clear. This isn’t a pro-Trump video. I’m not voting for Trump. But after watching hours of footage of both Trump and Hillary, I have seen an incredible pattern that convinced me to bet $1000 of my own money that Trump would be president. Even though I am not voting for him. That’s how confident I am.Not because I want him to, but because he is head and shoulder above Hillary when it comes to campaigning and you may not have realized why it’s working so well.So let’s rewind one year to see how Trump got to where he is and how that can show us where he’s going. Because as soon as Trump announced, a lot of people thought it was a joke.First he was seen as a joke....Then he started making outlandish statements, dominating the news cycle....Then he took down his republican rivals one by one, naming them Weak Jeb, Little Marco, and Lyin' Ted...And now he has set his sights on Hillary Clinton.Hillary, in the meantime, has demonstrated an ineffective strategy. Her slogan, "Love trumps hate," has Trump's name in it. Her talking points typically come back to the fact that she is a woman, which Trump has labeled "playing the woman card."It has caused her to slip to the point where she and Trump are at a dead heat in the polls. Some even have him up.If this continues, it won't even be close come Election Day in November.Check out Scott Adams' blog: http://blog.dilbert.com/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Handle Toxic People Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2LFJ3ah Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeHey, guys! Here's another video for you on how to handle toxic people from friends to family members and just shut down that negative behavior. There's times when it feels like all the charisma in the world just won't stop one person from ruining your day. Now, maybe this person is a complainer, maybe they are a whiner, or maybe there's someone who is verbally abusive to you but whatever it is, they have this toxic pattern of behavior and it's really starting to bring you down. That's why in this video, I want to talk about how to handle difficult toxic people in a way that is charismatic. You need to separate from a toxic person because what's keeping you close to them is not something that ought to. When I've talked to people and they have left, no one has ever regretted it; you would be shocked how much you can be dragged down by a negative person in the workplace. 3:21 Think concretely what you want a toxic person to change1:25 Find the timing to approach a toxic person1:53 Give them a sense that you're approaching them differently this time4:47 Ask permission to remind them gently if they do the negative behavior againConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3y4zg8OSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeActress Millie Bobby Brown has a polarizing but effortless charm that has made her incredibly popular. So in today’s video, we’ll break down 8 habits you can steal from Millie that will help you immediately make people like you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:10 - #1: The magnetic effect of having fun0:57 - #2: Soften your tease with a laugh2:17 - #3: Mix in compliments with your teases3:15 - #4: Use warm platonic touch3:32 - #5: Make your life relatable to others5:30 - #6: Give expansive answers6:34 - #7: Turn the conversation back on the other person7:30 - #8: Be a likeable listener--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#MillieBobbyBrown #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3U3skkJSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn this video we’ll go through 4 habits you can steal from Chris Evans that will help you to be charming in any conversation.  And because Chris’s charisma is so nice, we’ll also go over a few nuances around flirting so you can create attraction as more than just a friend.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile.2:21 - #2: Own the space around you.5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method.7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#ChrisEvans #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3T3pL14Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWhen most people are asked to picture someone quiet or shy, they picture someone meek, someone who lacks confidence. But that isn’t always the case.In fact, you can be quiet while still radiating massive confidence and commanding respect from the people around you.So in this video, we’ll go through 4 tricks you can use to be charismatic without needing to be loud or over the top.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.1:23 - #1: Use hand signals to capture attention.4:49 - #2: Share praise to others.6:50 - #3: Use your body language.8:01 - #4: Be non-reactive.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Confidence--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjERussell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices