bh186: how we started swinging

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast! In this episode we kick off a brand new series of interviews. We'll be chatting to guests about their journey, their thoughts on ethical non monogamy and the highs, lows and challenges that they've faced. This week we are joined by Ruby and Cole who share how they got started, talk about their dynamic and their tips on what to do if you get locked out of your room. Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links Find Ruby and Cole on Swinghub by searching 'RubyandCole' Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/  

In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for you!  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/  

In this episode we take time out to explore an article that featured in the Sun. We talk about some of the reactions from the community and how we feel about it. We also share a story where Mr H faces a challenging moment and isn't performing to his normal standards. What went wrong and what have we learned since then? Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Read the article we mention: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/31158998/gran-canaria-nude-beach-swinging-orgies-sex/ Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our journey and who do we admire? We work out which celebs would be on our hall passes and if we've had any negative experiences that have had a lasting impact. It's a fun rambling exploration of our past, present and future.  Thanks for hopping into our podcast!   Handy links Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  

In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and talk about our experience in trying it out. Mrs H attempts to talk us through some sexy times too. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk OMGYES: https://start.omgyes.com/join 

In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again. Since it's us, not everything goes to plan - so we also talk about what went wrong and how we might do things differently. We talk about solo play in general and then a have a recording from some delightful friends covering their experiences in going Han-Solo.  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  

In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things! Do let us know what has surprised you since you've started on your adventures. Stay tuned to the very end for a couple of clips from friends of the show too! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classes to pre-parties and walks of shame, there's something here for everyone! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about Keri Gold here: https://www.instagram.com/keri_gold_/ Find out about VA here: https://www.instagram.com/vanillaalternativeclub/ Check out the Spicy Match Insta here: https://www.instagram.com/spicymatch_official/ Email us [email protected] to come along to our October social Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Tickets to our NEON Dreams event are available here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ Email us [email protected] to come along to our October social Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one has something for almost everyone. Prob'ly. Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/  Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/ Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at [email protected] Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk