The Inner Voice You Stopped Listening To | Ep 104

▶︎ Get my FREE ‘Self-with' Checklist: https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/Self-With-checklist  ▶︎ Order my new book The Connection Code: https://theconnectioncodebook.com You've been told to be more disciplined. To push harder. To just do the thing.But what if discipline was never the real problem?In this episode, breathwork expert and global speaker Samantha Skelly breaks down the concept of nervous system safety and why building it is the key to breaking free from the patterns holding you back. Procrastination, self-sabotage, and shutting down aren't character flaws... they're your body trying to protect you from something it still perceives as unsafe.Samantha shares her own journey from anxiety, eating disorders, and a relentless inner critic to healing, building multiple seven-figure businesses, and discovering that peace is more powerful than pressure ever was.Plus, she walks us through her signature Breath of Joy practice live, a two-to-three minute breathwork technique you can do anywhere to clear your mind, shift your energy, and reconnect with yourself fast.You’ll learn things like:▶︎ Why self-sabotage and procrastination are protection responses, not laziness▶︎ What somatic safety is and how to build it daily▶︎ How breathwork became Samantha's gateway out of anxiety and into healing▶︎ Why peace has made her more successful than pressure ever did▶︎ The cost of your current decisions on your future self▶︎ The Breath of Joy practice (done live, step by step!)Whether you're a busy mom, an entrepreneur, or just someone who's tired of feeling stuck, this episode is your reminder that you already have everything you need inside of you, and a shift in your state is just a breath away. FOLLOW SAMANTHAWebsite: https://www.samanthaskelly.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samanthaskelly/ Pause Breathwork website: https://www.pausebreathwork.com/ Pause Breathwork App: https://www.pausebreathwork.com/app/ RESOURCES▶︎ My favorite red light - The Glow Light by Sauna Space: https://sauna.space/inspired Use code INSPIRED for 10% off!▶︎ Grab your Higher Dose PEMF Mat (use code DRSONNERS15 for a discount): https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-pemf-mat?utm_source=awin&utm_medium=1711217&1711217&sv1=affiliate&sv_campaign_id=1711217&awc=86123_1764658767_4b696c1751239db29557ca7413c6a23b ****************Want a free and meaningful way to support the show? Give us a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts (you can even leave a review on Apple too!). And if you’re tuning in on YouTube, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Your support helps more mamas discover this space and we’re so grateful you’re here.Follow Melissa:▶︎ YouTube▶︎ Facebook▶︎ Instagram▶︎ TikTok

▶︎ Order my new book, The Connection Code: https://theconnectioncodebook.com▶︎ Get my FREE ‘Self-with' Checklist: https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/Self-With-checklistDo you ever feel like you've lost touch with yourself?Like somewhere along the way, the confident, knowing, grounded version of you got buried under the noise of daily life?You're not alone... and it's not your fault.In this video, Dr. Melissa Sonners introduces you to the inner voice that's been with you your entire life. She's your intuition, your inner guide, your most powerful ally. And most of us have completely stopped listening to her.You'll learn how to:▶︎ Identify your inner voice and understand how she shows up in your life▶︎ Name her (yes, really!) so you can start working with her instead of against her▶︎ Create a little distance between your inner critic and your true, highest self▶︎ Redefine self-care in a way that actually fits into your busy life▶︎ Reconnect with your feminine intuition for more clarity, confidence, and calmThis isn't about adding more to your plate. It's about tuning back in to the guide you were born with, the one who's been waiting for you to listen.She's still there. And she has a lot to say.****************Want a free and meaningful way to support the show? Give us a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts (you can even leave a review on Apple too!). And if you’re tuning in on YouTube, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Your support helps more mamas discover this space and we’re so grateful you’re here.Follow Melissa:▶︎ YouTube▶︎ Facebook▶︎ Instagram▶︎ TikTok

▶︎ Get my FREE ‘Self-with' Checklist: https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/Self-With-checklist  ▶︎ Order my new book The Connection Code: https://theconnectioncodebook.comDoes it feel like you’re stuck in fight or flight?What if the most powerful health tool you have isn't a gadget, a supplement, or a self-care appointment, but is already inside you?In this talk from Copenhagen Health Week (CPHHW), Dr. Melissa Sonners shares why so many women have outsourced their wellbeing to external tools, and what it looks like to come back home to yourself instead.Drawing from her own experience with meningitis, encephalitis, and Lyme disease brought on by years of ignoring her body's whispers, Melissa breaks down the neuroscience of nervous system regulation in a way that's simple, practical, and actually fun.This isn't another thing to add to your to-do list. It's a reminder that YOU are the magic, and you always have been.****************Want a free and meaningful way to support the show? Give us a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts (you can even leave a review on Apple too!). And if you’re tuning in on YouTube, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Your support helps more mamas discover this space and we’re so grateful you’re here.Follow Melissa:▶︎ YouTube▶︎ Facebook▶︎ Instagram▶︎ TikTok

▶︎▶︎ Get my FREE ‘Self-with' Checklist: https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/Self-With-checklist  Are you experiencing brain fog, joint stiffness, or constant fatigue?Do you wake up tired, struggle to think clearly, or feel like your body just isn't what it used to be?You might be telling yourself "I guess this is just aging"... but what if it's not?In this episode, Dr. Shivani Gupta (PhD and Ayurvedic practitioner) reveals why that constellation of symptoms you're experiencing isn't aging at all...it's inflammation. And more importantly, she shares the simple daily rituals that can help you pause the inflammation and feel like yourself again.Discover how ancient Ayurvedic wisdom meets modern science to address chronic inflammation at the root cause, not just mask the symptoms.These practical, ancient tools are perfect for busy women who want better health without adding another full-time job to their plate.Your body isn't failing you...it's sending you messages. Start listening today.RESOURCES▶︎ Dr. Shivani's Supplements & Teas (use code: MELISSA for a discount!): https://fusionaryformulas.com/?sca_ref=10256069.6Jms0prGWhCFdMAL ▶︎ The Inflammation Code book by Dr. Shivani Gupta: https://amzn.to/3OlCq2v ▶︎ Order my new book The Connection Code: https://theconnectioncodebook.com Connect with Dr. Shivani:Website: https://shivanigupta.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/dr.shivanigupta Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theshivanigupta YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.shivanigupta Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/theshivanigupta ****************Want a free and meaningful way to support the show? Give us a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts (you can even leave a review on Apple too!). And if you’re tuning in on YouTube, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Your support helps more mamas discover this space and we’re so grateful you’re here.Follow Melissa:▶︎ YouTube▶︎ Facebook▶︎ Instagram▶︎ TikTok

▶︎▶︎ Get my FREE ‘Self-with' Checklist: https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/Self-With-checklist  If you’ve ever felt lonely even while surrounded by people, busy but disconnected, or like you’ve somehow lost your spark along the way — this episode is for you.In this conversation, I sit down with Aubry Marie — a movement teacher, breathwork facilitator, artist, and mama whose work and presence have deeply shaped my own journey back into my body and back into myself. What started as a handstand workshop turned into a friendship rooted in vulnerability, play, and showing up scared.Together, we talk about female friendship, community, identity, and what it really takes to feel alive again as a woman. We explore why adult friendships can feel awkward and hard to build, why so many women quietly play small, and how reclaiming the parts of yourself you’ve set aside can open the door to deeper connection — with others and with yourself.This episode is about finding your people and remembering who you are in the process.In this episode, we cover:▶︎ Why adult female friendship feels lonely and harder than we admit▶︎ The subtle ways women lose their spark over time▶︎ Why community doesn’t just “happen” — and how it’s actually built▶︎ How vulnerability creates real connection between women▶︎ The role movement and embodiment play in reconnecting to yourself▶︎ Motherhood, identity shifts, and belonging▶︎ Why being seen can feel scarier than being alone — and why it matters▶︎ How to stop playing small and start showing up as who you really areAubry Marie is a movement teacher, breathwork facilitator, artist, and mama based in Miami. She’s a three-time American Ninja Warrior competitor, rock climber, yoga instructor, and the first Alo Yoga billboard model. Her work centers on helping people reconnect with their bodies, confidence, and inner spark through movement, play, and embodiment.She’s also the creator of I (love) you, a message rooted in self-love, presence, and connection that has grown into a community movement and wearable art.Resources:▶︎ Order my new book The Connection Code: https://theconnectioncodebook.com ▶︎ Grab my favorite red light - The Glow Light by Sauna Space (Use code INSPIRED for 10% off!): https://sauna.space/inspired ▶︎ Connect with Aubry Marie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aubrymarie ▶︎ Aubry’s I (love) you merch: https://aubrymarie.com/ ****************Want a free and meaningful way to support the show? Give us a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts (you can even leave a review on Apple too!). And if you’re tuning in on YouTube, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Your support helps more mamas discover this space and we’re so grateful you’re here.

▶︎▶︎ Get my FREE ‘Self-with' Checklist▶︎▶︎ Get Dr. Sonya's new book, Heal Your Hormones, Reclaim Yourself If you feel anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, or numb — even while doing all the “right” things — your nervous system and hormones may be driving the cycle, not your mindset or willpower.In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Sonya Jensen, a naturopathic physician and women’s health expert, to explore why so many women feel stuck in chronic stress, why self-care isn’t working, and how hormonal shifts and nervous system regulation shape how safe, calm, or on edge you feel in your body.We talk about why anxiety, burnout, and emotional overwhelm aren’t personal failures, how survival mode becomes a default state, and what actually helps your body return to calm and regulation. This conversation focuses on real life — small pauses, awareness, and simple nervous system tools you can use throughout the day.If you’ve been wondering why your body won’t relax, why stress feels constant, or why you feel “off” without a clear reason, this episode will help you understand what’s happening underneath — and how to work with your body instead of pushing against it.In this episode, we cover:Why anxiety and overwhelm are nervous system patterns, not flawsHow hormones affect stress, mood, and emotional safetyWhy many women stay stuck in fight-or-flight or shutdownWhy productivity-based self-care doesn’t lead to nervous system regulationSimple, everyday ways to support your nervous systemResources:▶︎ Preorder my new book The Connection Code ▶︎ Grab your Higher Dose PEMF Mat (use code DRSONNERS15) ▶︎ Higher Dose PEMF Go Mat (use code DRSONNERS15)  ▶︎ Heal Your Hormones, Reclaim Yourself by Dr. Sonya Jensen▶︎ Dr. Sonya Jensen’s website  ▶︎ Follow Dr. Sonya Jensen on Instagram  ****************Want a free and meaningful way to support the show? Give us a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts (you can even leave a review on Apple too!). And if you’re tuning in on YouTube, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Your support helps more mamas discover this space and we’re so grateful you’re here.Follow Melissa:▶︎ YouTube▶︎ Facebook▶︎ Instagram▶︎ TikTok

If you feel constantly overwhelmed, anxious, emotionally numb, or stuck in survival mode, your nervous system may be driving the cycle — not your mindset, motivation, or willpower.In this episode, we dive into the vagus nerve, the primary nerve responsible for regulating stress, calm, emotional safety, digestion, and connection. When the vagus nerve isn’t supported, the body stays locked in fight-or-flight or shutdown, no matter how much self-care you try to add on.This conversation breaks down why modern women feel chronically stressed and exhausted, why quick fixes don’t last, and how to work with your nervous system instead of overriding it. You’ll learn how simple, science-backed practices can shift your body out of survival mode and back into calm, clarity, and connection — in real life, not just on retreat.I also share my personal experience with burnout: doing “all the right things” while still feeling reactive, disconnected, and depleted. What finally changed everything wasn’t more discipline — it was learning how to regulate my nervous system from the inside, in small moments throughout the day.In this episode, we cover:▶︎ What the vagus nerve is and why it controls stress, calm, and emotional regulation▶︎ The difference between fight-or-flight, shutdown, and safety states▶︎ Why chronic stress isn’t a mindset problem — it’s a nervous system pattern▶︎ How posture, breath, and focus directly affect vagal tone▶︎ The “2-3-4 regulation rule”: two minutes, three times a day, for real change▶︎ Why narrow focus and screens keep the nervous system stuck in survival mode▶︎ How expanded gaze instantly signals safety to the brain▶︎ Why cold exposure activates the vagus nerve▶︎ How long exhales calm anxiety and lower stress hormones▶︎ Why play and laughter are powerful nervous system regulators▶︎ How small, consistent regulation reps outperform one-hour self-care routines

Modern wellness culture has taught us to chase fixes: supplements, biohacks, protocols — without ever addressing the root. But real healing doesn’t happen downstream. It happens upstream, where the nervous system, circadian rhythm, and cellular signaling quietly determine how everything else functions.In this episode, I sit down with Nathalie Niddam, a holistic nutritionist, longevity educator, and internationally recognized expert in peptides and bioregulators. Nathalie has spent decades studying how the body heals itself when we stop overriding it — and start working with its natural intelligence instead.Together, we explore what peptides and bioregulators actually are, how they differ, and why they’re best understood as signals, not shortcuts. We talk about the concept of “going upstream,” nervous system regulation as the foundation of health, and why no advanced intervention works without basics like light exposure, circadian rhythm, nutrition, and stress recovery in place.This conversation is not about doing more. It’s about doing things in the right order — and learning when the body needs support versus when it needs space to recalibrate on its own.You’ll learn:▶︎ What peptides and bioregulators really are — and how they differ in the body▶︎ Why bioregulators are considered epigenetic switches rather than stimulants▶︎ The “upstream vs downstream” model of healing — and why symptoms are not the problem▶︎ How nervous system regulation sits at the top of the health hierarchy▶︎ Why circadian rhythm, light exposure, and melatonin influence aging, hormones, and immunity▶︎ The role of peptides like BPC-157 and copper peptides in repair and regeneration▶︎ Why peptides are tools — not replacements — for lifestyle foundations▶︎ When advanced interventions help move the needle, and when they can backfire▶︎ How to approach peptides and bioregulators safely, intelligently, and ethically▶︎ Why healing works best when we trust the body’s design instead of constantly overriding itResources:▶︎ The Connection Code by Melissa SonnersThe Connection Code Book: Reset & Realign Your Nervous System▶︎ Follow Nathalie: Longevity Biohacker and Peptide Expert (@nathalieniddam) • Instagram profile▶︎ Nathalie’s website: https://natniddam.com▶︎ Peptide Pro App: PeptidePro - Your all-in-one peptide tool▶︎ PEMF Mat (Use the code MELISSAS for 15% off): HigherDOSE PEMF Pro Mat

Most nervous system dysregulation doesn’t come from trauma, burnout, or “doing life wrong.” It comes from small, everyday habits we repeat without realizing how deeply they affect our brain, body, and emotional state.In this episode, I break down three common patterns that quietly keep the nervous system stuck in survival mode — even for women who are doing all the “right” things. These habits are especially common for busy women juggling work, family, and mental load, and they often show up as irritability, anxiety, brain fog, exhaustion, or snapping at the people we love most.Rather than adding more routines or self-care to your plate, this episode focuses on simple, realistic nervous system resets you can use in real life. We explore how brainwaves, device use, stress repair, and visual focus shape regulation — and how small, consistent shifts can help you return to calm, clarity, and connection throughout the day.What You’ll Learn▶︎ Why starting your day on your phone pushes your brain straight into stress mode▶︎ How theta, alpha, and beta brainwaves affect mood, focus, and emotional regulation▶︎ Why snapping at loved ones is often a nervous system signal — not a personal failure▶︎ Simple repair tools to reset after emotional reactions, especially with children▶︎ How chronic narrow focus keeps the nervous system locked in survival▶︎ What “expanded gaze” is and why it instantly signals safety to the brain▶︎ Why short, consistent regulation reps are more effective than long self-care routines▶︎ How to rewire your nervous system in minutes, not hoursResources:▶︎ The Connection Code by Melissa Sonners:https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/the-connection-code▶︎ FREE Circadian Reset Resource: Circadian Rhythm Reset https://beehive.drmelissasonners.com/circadian-rhythm-reset

Modern life quietly disrupts the circadian rhythms that regulate sleep, hormones, energy, mood, and nervous system health. Artificial light, screens, and indoor living keep the brain in a constant “daytime” state — leaving the body overstimulated, anxious, and stuck in survival mode.In this episode, I sit down with circadian biology expert and My Circadian App founder Sarah Kleiner to break down how light exposure, darkness, lux levels, and daily rhythms shape the nervous system at a cellular level. Sarah’s work in applied quantum biology bridges research with real life, showing how working with your circadian biology — not overriding it — can restore calm, mental clarity, sleep, and natural energy.We cover practical, science-backed ways to reset your internal clock, even if mornings are dark or your schedule is busy, and why consistency matters more than perfection when it comes to circadian health.In this episode, you’ll learn:▶︎ How circadian rhythm disruption shows up as anxiety, poor sleep, and low energy▶︎ Why morning sunlight is one of the most powerful nervous system regulators▶︎ How light exposure affects cortisol, blood sugar, and hormones▶︎ Why indoor and evening light suppress melatonin and deep repair▶︎ Simple ways to reset your body clock without wearables or tracking▶︎ How light environments affect children’s sleep and brain developmentResources▶︎ The Connection Code by Melissa Sonnershttps://theconnectioncodebook.com/▶︎ Sarah’s website: https://sarahkleinerwellness.com/▶︎ MyCircadian App: https://mycircadianapp.com/