103. Why BDSM Went Mainstream

Look in the comments of any squirting video, and you'll see it's nothing more than a giant argument about whether squirting is 'real' or not.So is it an actual thing, or is it really just urine? The answer is more complicated than you might think!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Some people associate shy with weak and awkward. Others see shy as interesting and mysterious. So, which is it?It turns out that it's far more about the demeanor and image you project rather than whether you're introverted or extroverted. In this episode, I'll be going over how you can remain incredibly attractive, even if you're actually shy and introverted deep down.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Dirty talking for the first time can feel.... awkward at best. But it doesn't have to be that way. And the better you get at it, the more confident you can pull it off.But how do you actually start? It turns out, there are some techniques that make it a lot easier to ease into it, so tune on in for dirty talking 101, presented by someone that literally talks dirty for a living!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Ahh, pubic hair. It's one of those confusing mysteries about evolution - why did we lose almost all the hair our ape ancestors had, but evolution decided to keep that one random patch near the genitals?It turns out, there's more to it than you might think. In this episode, I'll cover the leading theories as to why we have pubic hair in the first place - and then why many of us choose to shave it off.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

The single best thing you can do to improve your luck in the dating market? Become a person that you, yourself believe is worth dating. Because if you can't value you yourself, you can't expect anyone else to, either.This episode is a detailed breakdown on how you can become the 'catch' in the relationship, and start being someone who has women chasing them rather than the other way around.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Sexual compatibility is important. No doubt about that. And building sexual tension is a vital part of attraction.But when do you introduce the topic of sex when meeting a new potential partner? In this episode, I help you master this critical moment!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

BDSM used to be the sort of thing that nobody ever talked about. Now, you see BDSM equipment being sold openly at shopping malls.What changed? In this episode, I share the events and the cultural changes that led to so many people embracing the BDSM lifestyle openly!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

First dates can feel like a lot of pressure. And if your relationships aren't going anywhere after the first date, it can feel like something's genuinely wrong with you.While nothing can save the date if you two just aren't a match, most people make at least one of the mistakes I share in this episode!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Although many advancements have been made, the porn industry is still full of unethical - and sometimes illegal behavior.In this episode, I go behind-the-scenes to unveil some of the harsh realities that happen behind closed doors, that most consumers aren't aware of.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

If you recently had a breakup, it can feel like your entire world collapsed, and your entire life is put on hold. The feeling sucks, and I can empathize with you.However, it's not pleasant to be stuck feeling this way forever. So, in this episode, I'll go over some of my best tips to help you move forward and get your life back!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio