Doubt and Dropping-Out

Episode 14: Body-Image and Belonging Body image is a topic often discussed in relation to female dancers, but what about boys? In this powerful episode, we examine body image, ballet ideals and self-worth through the lens of a male dancer. Reflecting on personal experiences with comparison, criticism, confidence and acceptance, we explore the pressures many boys experience in dance and the impact these pressures can have on wellbeing. This episode challenges traditional ideas of the "perfect dance body" and encourages a healthier, more inclusive perspective on what it means to belong in dance.

Episode 13: Support and Showing Up Support comes in many forms, and it doesn't always come from where we expect. In this deeply personal episode, we reflect on the importance of positive male role models, support networks and community in the lives of boys in dance. Drawing on personal experiences, we explore the influence of fathers, mentors, teachers, studio families and community members who help young dancers feel valued and supported. A heartfelt conversation about belonging, role modelling and the people who show up when it matters most.

Episode 12: Doubt and Dropping-Out Why do talented boys leave dance? In this episode, we explore one of the most significant challenges facing the industry: retention. Looking at stereotypes, peer pressure, visibility, belonging, financial barriers and access to opportunities, we investigate why some boys walk away from dance and what teachers, parents and communities can do to support them. This episode provides practical insights and reflections on how the industry can better understand and address the factors influencing participation and long-term engagement.

Episode 11: Mentorship Matters Behind every successful dancer is often somebody who believed in them first. In this episode, we explore the power of mentorship, and the role mentors play in shaping confidence, resilience and belonging. Through personal stories and research-informed discussion, reflections on the teachers, role models and industry professionals who influence journey and examine how mentorship can help boys navigate challenges, remain engaged in dance and grow into future leaders themselves. A powerful conversation about connection, guidance and the people who help us stay.

Episode 10: Leading and Learning In Episode 10 of YTB: Dance Discussion, we explore the importance of leadership, representation and education in shaping the future of boys in dance. Drawing on personal experiences, current educational practice and industry insights, this episode examines how male role models, mentors and educators can influence participation, confidence and retention. We reflect on the importance of creating inclusive learning environments, supporting young male dancers and developing pathways that encourage boys to thrive both inside and outside the studio. Whether you're a dancer, teacher, parent or advocate, this episode highlights how leadership and learning go hand in hand in building a stronger future for boys in dance.

Episode 9: Choreography and Costuming How do choreography and costuming help shape the identity, visibility and storytelling of male dancers? In this episode, we explore the evolution of male-specific choreography and dance costuming through the lens of history, creativity and performance. From pioneering choreographers such as Ted Shawn, Gene Kelly, Michael Jackson and Matthew Bourne to groundbreaking productions including Lord of the Flies and Swan Lake, we examine how male movement, strength, characterisation and storytelling have influenced dance for generations. Through discussions around choreography, male dance technique, performance aesthetics, dancewear and costuming across a variety of styles and cultures, we explore how movement and visual presentation work together to support character, artistry and masculine identity within dance. A fascinating conversation about performance, tradition, innovation and the many ways male dancers continue to shape the art form. From the choreography created for male dancers to the costumes that bring characters to life, this episode highlights the rich history, diversity and evolving future of men in dance.

Episode 8: About Andrew My Journey Through Dance, Performance and Beyond Who is Andrew Ross-Graham, and how did a young boy who started dance lessons at the age of three build a career that has spanned performance, education, choreography, leadership and advocacy? In this special and highly personal episode, Andrew shares his own journey through the world of dance and entertainment, reflecting on the experiences, mentors, opportunities and challenges that helped shape his path. From growing up as one of the few boys in dance classes, training with the Queensland Ballet's Junior Extension Program, studying at the Queensland Dance School of Excellence, performing internationally with Royal Caribbean, appearing in productions such as Hairspray, working in theme parks and live entertainment, directing large-scale immersive experiences, creating Equal Entertainment, and eventually transitioning into teaching and advocacy, Andrew explores the many pathways that can emerge from a life in dance. A reflective conversation about passion, perseverance, mentorship and the belief that dance can open doors far beyond the stage. Life experience is often the greatest teacher, and this episode is a celebration of the lessons learned through a lifetime in the arts.

Episode 7: Socially Subscribed How has social media changed the world of dance for boys and young men? In this episode, we explore the powerful influence of social media, digital storytelling and online communities on participation in dance. Looking at both the opportunities and challenges that come with living in an increasingly connected world, he examines how platforms such as Instagram, TikTok and YouTube have helped increase visibility, representation and access to positive male role models while also contributing to issues including comparison, unrealistic expectations, cyberbullying and creative burnout. Through research, personal reflection and examples from the dance industry, we discuss how boys can navigate the digital landscape in healthy and productive ways while using technology as a tool for inspiration, growth and connection. A timely conversation about dance, identity, representation and the realities of being a dancer in the social media age.

Episode 6: Dames, Drag and Dance What role do drag, dames and gender performance play in the world of dance? In this thought-provoking episode, we explore the history, artistry and cultural significance of drag and dame traditions within dance, ballet and musical theatre. From Shakespearean theatre and classical ballet to productions such as Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Kinky Boots and La Cage aux Folles, he examines how performers have used gender roles, character work and creative expression throughout history. Drawing on personal experiences, professional training and reflections on identity, inclusion and representation, we also discuss the long-standing stereotypes surrounding male dancers and sexuality, while highlighting how the arts have often provided a safe space for self-expression, diversity and acceptance. A thoughtful conversation about performance, identity, tradition and the importance of creating supportive environments where every dancer can thrive.

Episode 5: Boys in Ballet Why are boys so important to the future of ballet? In this episode, we take a deep dive into the role male dancers play within one of the world's most influential dance forms. Exploring the physical, artistic and social benefits of ballet for boys, he examines common misconceptions surrounding male participation and discusses the barriers that continue to affect recruitment and retention. Through personal experiences, industry insights and examples of successful initiatives from around the world, including programs from Queensland Ballet, Baltimore Ballet Boys, Central Pennsylvania Youth Ballet and Ballet Jörgen, we explore how the ballet community can create stronger pathways for boys while building a more inclusive and sustainable future for the art form. A thoughtful discussion about stereotypes, opportunity, representation and why boys remain essential to the continued success of ballet.