Validation

"Appreciate the little things, see the good in yourself, have the energy to keep going" sounds like a lot. Hard times will come but would you let it take you too? Instagram:unambiguousonair Email:[email protected]

In Nigeria, the rate of crime has drastically increased, there is a hike, people are grumpy because everything has been bad vibes of late, the world is currently undergoing an increased level of insecurity, poverty, crimes, you name it.  Not everyone has the ability to thrive mentally in such a chaotic situation but for those who intend to find the light, bask in positivity even just for a hot second, here is the sign to find a bit of peace or good news.  Block out the daily rants and actually enjoy a sane day, we all deserve to enjoy a day full of happiness, Yes I know! You are wondering why I typed a day and not days, truth be told the reality of things is unending.  You can connect with me on Instagram on these accounts; StrictlyForCreatives, Elsie Ayobolu, for contributions leave a voice message...

Funny how people chase you when they need money from you, when it’s time to return the money borrowed they suddenly become a whirl wind .

Everyone eventually reaches that success point, success means different things to each one of us but when we attain it how do we appreciate those who made it possible because no man is an island, every successful person had help either consciously or unconsciously.

I’m so elated with my consistency but this episode comes from a time of anger, irritation, amidst a lot of feelings. People feel entitled through relations and positions , which shouldn’t be. Once an Entitlement doesn’t make head way , it can lead to harm and we don’t want that.

Lagos, Nigeria is New York and Los Angeles, well that is the vibe you get when you live in or migrate over here. Lagos is drama filled from the fight of sophistication between those living on the island and the mainland, issue of congestion, stress, cliques, always guarded and ready for a fight especially in public transport,hang out spots .it is a full package .

This episode speaks on being friends with a person but not giving it your all, pretense, unnecessary hate when you can just not be friends with the person . There is no joy in showing fake love, if you don’t truly like a person it’s neat you don’t relate with them.

One of the existing deadly weapon existing is “Validation “ the hunger to seek affirmation from others concerning your opinions and doing. It makes you forget what you truly want and stand for, have a good listen.

It became a major problem in a lot of relationships especially in the 2000’s . So many people are left wondering what could be the problem or what went wrong? I’ll be giving reasons why people get ghosted.

The first voice you’ll be hearing is my wannabe Uk accent 😂, I thought it cool to introduce myself in a very concise fun way but also tell you never allow anyone criticize you in a destructive manner.