ROMANTICIZING WINTER ❄️ how to enjoy the holiday season and love your life

Happy December!!!! As the year come to an end, a lot of us may be realizing we’re not exactly where we thought we’d be. Maybe you didn’t hit your resolutions. Maybe you feel like you should be “further along.” Maybe you’re disappointed in your own lack of progress and don’t know why things aren’t changing… even though you want them to. In today’s episode, I talk about the truth behind why you know better but still don’t do better. Why you keep repeating the same patterns, ending up in the same situations, attracting the same friendships or relationships, or feeling stuck in the same habits.  Today's ep covers.... • Knowing the problem but not actually solving it • Repeating patterns you haven’t named yet • Ignoring the lessons life is trying to teach you • The difference between “protecting your peace” and avoiding accountability Journal prompts - How does this make me feel…. Why did this happen? Did I play a part in this happening? Does this align with who I want to be? Am I able to change the outcome or do I need to remove myself from the situation? “What’s one pattern I’ve been repeating that I haven’t named yet? What is it and is it negatively impacting me or my goals?” “Are my actions aligned with my goals? What are 3 things I can do right now to change my behavior and make a change?” Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - Go to fabletics.com/TNTC and sign up as a VIP and get eighty percent off everything Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/tntc WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

It's that time of year again...shorter days, colder nights, and seasonal depression looming around the corner. But it doesn't have to ruin your whole winter! In this episode, I give you easy ways to romanticize your life to actually enjoy the winter, not just survive it. These are a few things I'm doing this season to make winter feel softer and more magical. 🧦❄️🌨️🧣☕️ Grab a hot chocolate or a Christmas flavored coffee, get cozy, and let's get rid of the winter blues together 🤍  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - Go to fabletics.com/TNTC and sign up as a VIP and get eighty percent off everything WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

Going through a breakup and dreading the holidays? Missing your ex and considering texting them? Not sure if you should buy your situationship a gift? I got you!!!! This advice session is all about dating during the holidays ❤️‍🩹🎄🥧👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🎁 Trying Not to Care is sponsored by MicroPerfumes -  Find your scent soulmate today and get up to 60% off at MicroPerfumes.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by FUM - Head to https://tryfum.com/products/zero-crisp-mint to Start with Zero. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by PAKA -To grab your PAKA hoodie and free pair of alpaca crew socks, head to go.pakaapparel.com/TNTC and use my code TNTC. WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

Decentering men doesn't mean you need to be anti-men...it means you being pro-yourself. In this episode, I talk about the implications of making a man the center of your world, the ways you might be centering men without even knowing it, and how to reclaim your power and refocus on yourself. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/tntc Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Revolve - Shop at REVOLVE.com/TNTC and use code TNTC for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner SHOP MY REVOLVE FAVORITES HERE!! WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

This episode is for my overachievers, anxious 20 somethings, and girlies filled with self doubt 💌 Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Graza: Take your food to the next level with Graza Olive Oil. Visit https://graza.co and stock up during our sitewide sale! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp: visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

"Maybe you have a fear of abandonment because you consistently abandoned yourself to convince others that you're worthy of not being abandoned.” Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping Trying Not to Care is sponsored by MicroPerfumes -  Find your scent soulmate today and get up to 60% off at MicroPerfumes.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/tntc WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

Girl wake up....you're literally your own biggest hater. In this episode, I talk about unlearning the self doubt, judgement, and impossible standards that we set for ourselves. If you've ever struggled with feeling like you're not enough, or you're tired of being your own worst enemy, this one's for you. IT'S TIME TO GO FROM ENEMIES TO LOVERS WITH YOURSELF 🫶🏻🫵🏻✨🦋 Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - Go to fabletics.com/TNTC and sign up as a VIP and get eighty percent off everything Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Green Chef - Head to greenchef.com/50TNTC and use code 50TNTC to get fifty percent off your first month, then twenty percent off for two months with free shipping Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the guesswork out of your dog's well-being. Go to ollie.com/tntc and use code tntc to get 60% off your first box! WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

welcome to media of the month!! 👻🦇📚🖤🎵🎃this is going to be a new series (if you like it lol) where I share everything I'm reading, watching, and listening to. I'll also give you recommendations of media I think you'll enjoy! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by PAKA - To grab your PAKA hoodie and free pair of alpaca crew socks, head to go.pakapparel.com/TNTC and use my code TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping Trying Not to Care is sponsored by FUM - Head tohttps://tryfum.com/products/zero-crisp-mint to Start with Zero. SPOTIFY PLAYLISTS: cozy October playlist halloween playlist BOOKS: book recommendations short stories We, the Girls Who Did Not Make It by E.A. PETRICONE The yellow wallpaper by Charlotte Perkins Gilman FAV CREATORS: arabellatouchstone ctlyons24 giddyfiggy WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

ADVICE SESSION #13 🧡 In this episode, I'm answering your questions to help you get through this season as a more kind, unbothered, and grounded version of you. Questions in this advice session: 1. What would you say is the art of actually not caring? 2. How to stop yourself from stalking people you used to date/be friends with? 3. Any tips on avoiding talking about other people? 4. What’s one thing that actually helps stop binge eating without feeling restricted? 5. How to leave the past behind and focus on the present? Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp: visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Graza: Take your food to the next level with Graza Olive Oil. Visit https://graza.co and stock up during our sitewide sale! WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

Ever have someone do your dirty...but somehow you're the villain and everyone is cheering for them? This week I’m talking about why people defend toxic behavior, how misery loves company, and why being alone doesn’t mean you’re the problem. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]