4 Years Later

What if you didn’t get what you wanted yesterday, what if you became who you were meant to be in your own timing?Today I want to introduce you to Gus, a human with what I can only describe as a gravitational pull, a tangible presence of light, and one that holds space for others to find their potential. Gus is one that might describe himself as a “hooligan” and he is one you are sure to have a good time around, but more than anything he is one that intentionally chooses to use his own life experiences to give back to others He shares what it means to be a free diver, how it healed him from violence and aggression, how he attributes it to saving his life, and how it has given him the tools to express his emotions. How diving has brought different cultures, personalities, and people into his life; and how they have impacted him for the better.We chat about the work we need to be willing to put into a healthy relationship, the honesty we need to give to another for a chance at real connection, and what it means to be real and honest with your own emotions, how a lie is sometimes simply not expressing what you feel in totalityHe shares how he can know when he has pushed himself to capacity, when feelings of darkness, or a lack of tolerance begin to form; what it means to care for ourselves so we have capacity to see things like a dog barking or someone needing help as things that we can come alongside without frustration because we have cared for our well being Gus is someone that shares wisdom, wisdom that comes from a place of humility, wisdom that speaks with a tone of gentle love, a voice that knows what it is to be lost at times, a heart that desires sincerely for others to be whole. So tune in today and meet Gus, a human I admire, for his humility, honesty, joy, and the way he intentionally shares all he is with others, from a meal to a conversation about loss or joy, Gus is one that is a man choosing to be a better man each day and one that is doing all he can to support those around him to do the sameAnd to you Gus thank you, thank you for sharing space with me, for your light, for the way you genuinely speak of all life has taught you, and for your open heart in allowing others to see how life has shaped you. I have the utmost respect for how you show up in this world and it is an honor to know you. May life return to you all the love you continue to give, both to yourself and to those that get to know you. 

Today I want to introduce you to Wahba, I had the pleasure of meeting this human a few years ago on one of my many trips to Egypt and he quickly became someone I could connect with, someone who’s energy and passion for what he does is almost tangible in how he speaks, and someone who not only makes time for those close to him but has welcomed me into those spaces and shared those friends with me as well We chat about what it means to pursue what you love and life overall with a passion that does not wait on others to understand or agree, and what it looks like to value the memories made in the small moments when we get to disconnect and be fully present with those closest to us.He shares how Egypt’s culture is such a combination of its people, its chaos, its food, the religion, and how all of it comes together to be something he missed when living in LA. He shares how being known for his work is one thing, but being valued alongside those closest to him means more than what it is to be recognized for his work alone.We talk about how men and women respond to struggles and how we respond in support to each other, how overthinking can come for all of us, and letting go of perfectionism can allow for more in the end.Wahba is one that shares advice that I believe we all need to hear, in both how we pursue our dreams and how we allow the voices of others to impact those dreams, he is one that speaks with gentleness and kindness, one that is inspiring in how he lives, and one that I admire for how he shows up in this world as a humanSo tune in today and meet Wahba, learn why your life is worth chasing, why Egypt is worth visiting, and what we all can do to leave humanity better than we found itAnd to you Wahba thank you, thank you for always receiving me with such warmth, for making the time to stay connected, for sharing with me the projects that excite you, and inviting me along even if I can’t come just yet. You are a spirit filled with passion and heart and it is a pleasure of mine to know you and share time and space with you always, see you soon my friend 

What have you chosen in life that changed you?I like to think that everyone on this earth is someone who can change us for the better, someone we can learn from, share life with, and celebrate who they are.People like Marco are why I continue to believe that to be true. I spent the past week in Sardinia, and being greeted by Marco in the mornings and sitting and talking in the afternoons quickly became a highlight of my time thereMarco shared with me what it has been in life to make choices, to step towards big changes and step away from parts of life he knew he didn’t want. He shares what it means to listen to someone, to make them feel seen, and why putting yourself in places you are not known allows us to know ourselves and othersWe chat about focus and the determination it takes to complete what you’re are dreaming of, how focus can be a gift, but one if we aren’t careful, can take away from what matters most, and how lack of confidence can keep us from knowing others if we let it.Marco is someone that is thoughtful and kind, someone that presses in to connecting with others and learning how they have experienced life, he is someone that I witnessed care and communicate with others in a way that says “I see you and you matter” I don’t think it takes much in this life to value another, and I agree with Marco that this world would be a better place if we listened more to learn and assumed a little less. If we weren’t afraid, or even if we were, if we took the time to share moments with others.So tune in today and meet Marco, someone that reminded how softness, morning greetings, and simple questions can lead to connections that remind us the value in knowing another And to you Marco thank you, thank you for sharing time with me, for the way you made me feel a sense of ease around you, for the conversations and the chance to know you more. For the way you allowed me to know a part of your life and the intentionality in which you show up in this world. I wish you all the best as you continue to pursue whatever this life brings you my friend 

Sometimes someone asking about who we are and wanting to know can change our life, I know the way people have allowed me to do that over the years has changed mine, and today I want to tell you why this matters to you

Have you ever trusted an animal’s instinct when it comes to trusting people?Today I want to introduce you to Ismail, I had the pleasure of meeting Ismail on one of my trips to Cappadocia and have come to look forward to seeing his smile and his company. Ismail is one so much talent, a kind heart, and someone that is easy to laugh and get creative with when it comes to photography and his love for horsesWe chat a little about what it means to allow the pursuit of what you love change your life, how his first horse led him to becoming a veterinarian, and how that brought him to Cappadocia, and to what life is like for him now. We talk about how learning is something to never give up on and how the pursuit of being open to learning allows us to welcome incredible things into our lives.He shares one of the most important life lessons I believe we can all learn, in how knowing time with ourselves is not something to fear but rather something to press into. How life can allow us the opportunity to do so or we can pursue it for ourselves, and how it leads to allowing us to know who we want to become. Ismail is kind, someone I trust, someone with a gentle heart, one who works hard, and pours into his work without hesitation. Ismail is someone you will not get to know fully from this episode, like most that I get to share on here, you are getting a small part of someone’s story, a piece of what makes them who they are, and I’m so honored to share a part of this humans story with you. So tune in today and meet this sweet human, I believe animals hold an ability to know the good in someone, and I have witnessed time and again Ismail to be someone who holds the trust of a horse, and it is such humans that I believe make this world a kinder and more loving place to be And to you Ismail thank you, thank you for letting me share a little of you, thank you for the times of sharing conversation, for getting to create with you, for your gentle and warm heart, and the chance to know you more. You are a beautiful soul and one I am grateful to know. May you always be seen fully for who you are in this life

Do you feel like you delay your happiness?Today I want to introduce you to Jesse, Jesse is one of my dear friends and a human that leans into happiness. He is one that has a natural ease about finding happiness, both in life, in himself, and in what goes on around him. In the times I get to spend with Jesse I find myself seeing life itself with a little more whimsy, in a way that I notice the sound of the wind in the trees and the beauty of a bird nearby. There is something magical in humans that make sure you don’t miss out on the details of life around you, and Jesse is such a soul.We chat about what the words family and honor mean to him, why family and the intentional acceptance and openness of that space creates love in a way not much else can. We chat about how fear isn’t always something to be conquered but at times something to trust, and how a lack of a singular emotion would make the world a better place.He shares how his recent move, his time living in his car in the mountains, and the trust and support of his family to find his way, in his own way, has meant the world to him. He shares how his time in South America created space for change, for growth, and for a deeper understanding of how he shows up in the world, and how he believes we each have an ability to choose to feel and give love.Jesse is an adventurer, a space of gentle joy, a heart of acceptance, and a human that will remind you to live life now in all its fullness and all its wonder. So tune in today and meet Jesse, a human that can’t help but smile and make you feel the same, one that creates space for others, one that will remind you that who you are is what matters and not to let anyone or anything limit your pursuit of happiness in this lifeAnd to you Jesse thank you, thank you for your friendship, for the way I feel life slow down when I’m with you, be it biking down the shore, hiking a mountain, or pausing to watch a bird, you have an ability to draw me back to simplicity in the best way. You are a treasured friend and I’m so grateful I get to know you and witness the way you show up in this world. Love you

Do people feel safe to be themselves around you?Today I want to introduce you to George, George is someone who calls himself “recognizable” and I agree with this, but not for the same reason he does. I think we remember and recognize what feels like kindness and a safe place. George is one that will take the time to talk, but more so, be one to listen. He is a human that values others, values communication, and shows that value in how he interacts with others.We chat about what it means to have integrity, how it goes beyond honesty, how our wholeness is something that makes us stronger, and what it means to balance the pieces of yourself in that wholeness.He shares about his work over the years, how showing up in what was often the worst times for others shaped him to be one to listen, to value communication, and to hold understanding and care for others.We chat about loss, about the importance of not waiting to tell those you love what they mean to you, and a truth he is sad to say to womenGeorge is someone that lives and has shown up in this world with intention, intention to be kind, to be his best, to offer others the best of himself, and to give those he interacts with the best chance of being their best as wellSo tune in and meet George, a man that will remind you that life in all its simplicity is beautiful, that joy shared with others is joy magnified, and that meeting others is always worth itAnd to you George thank you, thank you for always being a kind face and a welcome conversation at the gym, for taking time out of your day to allow me the honor of sharing a bit of your story with others, and for believing and living out the reality that there truly is more good in this world than anything else

Are you living a life you want to live?Today I want to introduce you to Shannon, as someone I’ve had the honor of exploring the world with, calling a friend, and drinking rose in the pool on a floating swan; Shannon is one who is intentionally living the life she wants to live It is often we forget that we are in control of how we live, of what we do, and who we become. We chat about what it looks like to honor who you are, to be who you were made to be, and to live life to the fullest She shares how loss at a young age was both something she would change in a heartbeat but how it was also the greatest gift that was given to her, how choosing and intentionally looking for joy in everyday is a must, and how finding the beauty in the ashes is what determines so much of how we see life and those around us We chat about what it looks like to be the best version of yourself, what it means to have the support and love of someone who both desires and supports that in you and pursues it in themself as wellShe shares how working in a mans world and often for women challenges her, but more importantly how she continues to choose to hold on to kindness and the knowledge that if the worst thing that is said is “you’re too nice” then like was not at all a lossShannon is one that has been a soft and safe friend in my life, one that has reminded me what it is to know your tribe, to trust yourself, and to love that version of who you are becomingSo tune in today and meet Shannon, and let her words do the same for you, let them remind you to be kind, that contentment is ok to be found in the now, that you get to choose to be you, and that the sunset will make your life better when you sit with itAnd to you Shannon thank you, thank you for always reminding me I have a place at your table and never ever making me question if you value being at mine, thank you for your softness and gentle kindness in a world that can feel cruel, and thank you for being so excited about every creative idea that crosses your mind and sharing them with me. You are what makes the world a better place, love you.

Do you feel seen even when you are silent?Today I want to introduce you to Renata, an absolute gem and life filled soul, one that is gentle and kind, one that sees and responds with a heart of confidence and love to those around her, and one that I can laugh with and learn from alwaysRenata is so many things as we might conventionally define her, a designer, a dj, a diver, a yoga instructor, model, and so so much more, but perhaps it is in the ever explored roads she goes down that define her most, as one that is pursing life, in all its joys, all its excitement and intrigue, and doing so with a fluid acceptance of herselfShe shares about the value of being real, in being yourself, no matter what that may be, but to be reminded that who you are is how others should know you, and it’s up to us to show and be who we are. She shares the peace and joy she finds in being in the water and creating art and getting to express herself in movementWe chat about how childhood trauma impacts us far beyond what many of us have been told, how emotional intelligence should be taught in school and how it would create a better world for all of us, and how emotions are both beautiful and at times hold our deepest heartache Renata is someone that I will name when I’m asked why humanity is worth trusting, worth knowing, worth being known by, and worth sharing the love we have been given. She is one I admire, one who lives and loves from a place that is true to who she is, one that laughs and loves with intention So tune in today and meet Renata, one that I believe can teach us all what it is to choose yourself in a healthy way And to you Renata thank you, thank you for being the sweetest, full of life, laughter, and gentle loving friend. You really are a treasure and I am so so grateful for the memories and the ones yet to be made, love you 

 If someone saw the magic in you, what would they see?Today I want to introduce you to Jason, someone who is light and magic in human form, someone full of life, stories, and empathy in a way that has known life. Jason is someone filled with kindness for humanity around him, the kind that desires to share joy and see the sparkles in othersJason shares with me his journey in becoming a charter captain, how life is not a practice run, and the conversation that we have with ourselves to find the courage to pursue what brings us fulfillment and joy We chat about how fear can so often be intertwined with what we love and how it is something we both do our best to find ourselves one day on the other side of. We chat about the difference between empathy and sympathy and how knowing it is often out of our control, how you never know what someone is going through, and how acknowledging light in someone else can be exactly what they need to know joy He shares his pride in being a dad, in removing something from his life and the struggle in making decisions for yourself that others don’t often understand.Jason is someone I could spend hours talking to, days at sea with, and still feel like I’ve both known him forever and like the time was too short all at once. He is a remarkable human living in a remarkable way, making a remarkable impact on those that get to share time with himSo tune in today and meet Jason and be reminded of the magic within you, of the power you hold to live a live you love, of the impact you get to have on humanity And to you Jason thank you, thank you for allowing me and my crew the honor of sharing time on the water with you, for you joy, your light, and your heart to share life so fully with others. May you know how much better of a place this world is with you in it and how grateful I am to know you my friend. Can’t wait to cross the open ocean with you one dayand if you are looking to sail the BVI there is no better captain than Jason Geyser! @captainjasongeyser