EP 28: The Cost of Transparency

Welcome to a new episode of “This Too Shall Pass”This week I’m joined by "Single Mom Attorney" Gianni C Avalos—both a family law attorney, her firm sues baby daddies for a living! Together, we tackle the realities of co-parenting, child support, and custody, breaking down the legal and emotional challenges single moms face. We’ll explore the distinction between financial support and visitation, the impact of absent parents, and the role of judicial discretion in custody cases.   Gianni shares key insights on legal advocacy, documenting parental involvement, and maintaining integrity in co-parenting. Whether you're considering legal action or seeking guidance, this episode provides practical advice and encouragement to help you move forward with confidence.   Tune in for an empowering conversation!     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

  Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Can transparency in relationships be more costly than rewarding? In this heartfelt episode, I open up about the raw realities of single motherhood—co-parenting challenges, family dynamics, and the importance of community support.    We tackle custody battles, fathers' rights, and proactive steps to stay involved in children’s lives, inspired by a listener's question. I also share the emotional journey of preparing my family member, Andre, for independence, while addressing homelessness, mental health, and fostering open communication. Join the conversation—share your experiences and insights as we navigate these complex, yet deeply relatable, topics together.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

In this inspiring episode, we explore the power of reflection, resilience, and setting intentions for the year ahead. As we embrace the lessons of 2024 and look to the opportunities of 2025, we dive into personal growth, triumphs, and the value of overcoming life’s obstacles.     A special shoutout to Natalia Sanchez, a cherished listener who loves our family segments—stay tuned for an exciting mix of guest appearances, solo episodes, and more moments with the kids next year.     We also spotlight Linda J, an exceptional Orlando realtor, in our "Her Voice, Her Story" segment. Hear how her dedication and expertise made my first home-buying experience unforgettable, and gain inspiration to celebrate your own milestones and the support systems that lift you up.     Discover the transformative power of vision boards as I share my journey from skeptic to believer, balancing aspirations with gratitude. Plus, we tackle parenting challenges, including teaching empathy by addressing real-life situations, like bullying, to help shape compassionate kids.    As we move forward together, I thank you, our listeners, for your unwavering support. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe—your engagement keeps our community thriving. Here’s to growth, gratitude, and an incredible year ahead!       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Tying a tie for my son's homecoming was more than knots and loops—it was a moment of reflection on shame and societal expectations. This simple task became a mirror, revealing the pressures and feelings of inadequacy we all face. In this episode, I share how shame, while often a moral guide, can also become a barrier if left unchecked. Raised in the church as a Florida girl, I explore how faith and life experiences taught me to embrace uncomfortable truths and use shame as a tool for growth and authenticity.   From navigating school struggles to meeting familial expectations, we delve into the deep-rooted societal pressures faced by daughters, particularly Black women. I recount five pivotal moments of vulnerability, illustrating how feelings of inadequacy shaped my identity and led to cycles of shame and disruptive behaviors. These stories reveal how reading struggles and the weight of parental expectations influenced my sense of self and the coping mechanisms I developed.   We also examine the emotional toll of absent fathers and the challenges of single motherhood. Through personal anecdotes and reflection, I discuss the guilt and struggles mothers face in filling the gaps left by non-participating fathers, and how this affects children's identities. My story of teen pregnancy and isolation is shared to inspire strength in vulnerability. This episode is a call to build community support, embrace unique narratives, and find healing through openness and understanding.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Feeling weighed down by invisible burdens? Join me and my guest, Carla Wilmaris , as we share stories of releasing the "dead weight" in our lives—whether it’s relationships, jobs, or overconfidence that no longer serve us. Through honest reflections, including my experience with a difficult first marriage, we discuss how letting go creates space for personal growth and well-being.     We also explore the complexities of setting boundaries in friendships and evolving relationships, using my friendship with Carla as an example. From clear communication to addressing changes before they turn toxic, we highlight the importance of maintaining balance and protecting personal space.     In a playful yet insightful segment, "Pick it Up and Preach," we turn a sticky pad into a metaphor for sharing blessings and embracing vulnerability. This episode is all about fostering self-acceptance, setting healthy boundaries, and finding courage to release what no longer serves us.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join us as we explore the complexities of teenage life and family dynamics. In this episode, I sit down with my 14-year-old daughter, Hailey, a high school freshman and cheerleader, to discuss her experiences navigating friendships, academic pressures, and the balance between independence and safety. We’re also joined by her protective older brother, Andre, who shares his perspective on sibling relationships and support.     Hailey opens up about reconnecting with her father after years of absence and reflects on the emotional impact of parental choices. We also discuss a tragic story of a teen's attachment to an AI chatbot, raising questions about human connection and societal shifts.     Through candid conversations, we highlight the value of empathy, open communication, and intentional relationships within families. This heartfelt episode invites you to reflect on growth and connection in the lives of teenagers and their families.           Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Should children be compensated for their appearances on social media, just like they are for chores? We tackle this provocative question as we explore the intricate ethics of family vlogging. With examples like the LeBrants and Ruby Frankie, the conversation traverses the fine line between sharing genuine family moments and exploiting children for profit. Our discussion encourages you to reflect on the importance of giving children a voice and setting boundaries in the digital age.   In a touching exchange with my son Dre, we delve into his journey navigating social media as a 16-year-old. Dre candidly shares how these platforms have shaped both his personal and family life, highlighting the benefits and challenges of growing up online. Together, we emphasize the significance of consent and open communication between parents and children regarding their online presence, while Dre recounts how this digital involvement has positively influenced our living situation.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join us for an engaging discussion on family dynamics and identity exploration as I, Ariel, welcome my amazing cousin Cameron to the podcast. Together, we reflect on our experiences growing up as Black women and the powerful influence of family on shaping our identities. In the *Her Voice, Her Story* segment, I celebrate Cameron, not only as a remarkable cousin but also as a cherished friend.   We dive into the generational differences within our family, exploring the older generation's preference for privacy and formality compared to our more open, candid approach. This conversation shines a light on the structured nature of our family gatherings, steeped in tradition and etiquette, while also highlighting how our understanding of these dynamics has shifted over time.   We also explore the complexities of parenting and communication styles, reflecting on the lessons learned from our own upbringing and how they now shape our approach to raising children. Emphasizing the value of open communication, we challenge traditional views that equate gentle parenting with weakness. Instead, we advocate for fostering environments where children feel heard, respected, and empowered to express their needs and boundaries confidently.       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Hey Tribe!! We know it’s been a while, but we’re back with a brand new episode of This Too Shall Pass! This week, we’re diving into the topic of child support. Now, I want to be clear—I’m not an attorney. What I’ll be sharing is based on my own experience navigating the child support system here in Florida.   In this episode, we answer listener questions on everything from starting the process to dealing with situations where the other parent lives in a different state or even another country. The insights we share aren’t just for single moms—fathers out there are also doing their best with the tools they have, trying to ensure the best possible outcomes for their children. Tune in, take a listen, and walk away with some valuable information on this important topic!   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions