Hold Wins Loosely: Why Performance Won’t Fill the Hole Inside

Send us Fan MailThis episode explores how midlife men can stop letting results and insecurity rule their relationships and sense of self. Through an honest talk about recent competition, the hosts connect the dots between physical health (bloodwork, weight loss, testosterone), nervous-system regulation, and emotional availability. They unpack the damaging pattern of expecting a spouse to be a "mom," the role of shame, and the difference between being rescued and taking responsibility. Expect actionable encouragement: get help, do the work, show up consistently, and let faith and self-care fuel real intimacy.For more info on the retreat go to www.thewildcourage.orgSupport the show

Send us Fan MailPractical, theological, and deeply human, this interview explores how identity, performance, and fear of abandonment drive destructive patterns — from hopping ranches to day drinking to pushing friends away. Bodie explains the moment his marriage and fatherhood forced a reckoning, how curiosity about the root causes of his behavior changed everything, and why learning new tools shortened his low seasons. The pair unpack the difference between healthy pride and the critical voice that projects onto others, offering listeners a roadmap: get curious, find brothers, do the inner work, and let faith and community steady you through the hardest rides.Support the show

Send us Fan MailJosh’s beach trip unspools into a raw exploration of vulnerability: rented ‘the Hulk’ longboard, giant sets, and an ego-driven decision to paddle out lead to a humbling wipeout and later a stingray puncture that leaves him in intense pain. Josh & Jeremy use the episode to unpack how unmet expectations make us miss the good parts of life—like surfing with a daughter—and expose selfishness. They talk practical reflections: coach yourself through disappointment, reframe outcomes, hold wins and losses loosely, and lean into the lesson instead of letting a single moment define your worth.   Retreat infohttps://www.thewildcourage.org/events/wild-courage-spring-2026-retreat-zazz8Support the show

Send us Fan MailBrian traces a life that looks like a frontier map: childhood moves between California and Montana, a fractured family, and early immersion in cow work and rodeo. That world taught him grit but also left unprocessed wounds. The episode follows Brian from steer riding and bronc addiction to the shop floor—dayworking, saddlebuilding, and eventually horseshoeing—where a canceled saddle order pushed him into silversmithing and engraving. Along the way he reflects on mentorship, hard lessons about control, and how craft can both conceal and heal the deeper struggles of a life forged in motion. You can check out Brian's work at www.brianhochstrat.comSupport the show

Send us Fan MailThis episode delves into Dylan's captivating life story from her upbringing on a ranch in Alturas, California, under her mother's guidance. The podcast reveals Dylan's resilience and ingenuity as she navigates the challenges of operating a horse training business across Idaho and Arizona. Dylan shares her real estate decisions, shaped by her mother's legacy and hard work. As the conversation unfolds,  Jeremy and Dylan recount their shared love for branding and cowboy culture, while inspiring listeners with tales of adventure, perseverance, and living courageously. Dylan's story is full of hard times and what happens when you don't give up. Tune in next week for part two. You can find Dylan on all social media @dylansperformancehorsesSupport the show

Send us Fan MailThis episode of Wild Courage touches on the hosts' childhood memories, where they played in Oregon's vast natural landscapes, and their more recent experiences in Wyoming. They nostalgically recall simpler times when community harmony was celebrated. The discussion transitions into a critique of current societal divisions, especially regarding political and religious diversity. They advocate for a return to civil discussions, where sharing ideas and experiences is the norm, urging listeners to engage with others with an open mind and heart. Throughout, the hosts demonstrate that wild courage is not just about adventures, but also about bridging divides and fostering unity.Support the show

Send us Fan MailIn this episode , host Jeremy reconnects with Ben Balow, his second-ever guest. Their conversation delves into their long-standing friendship, the personal and professional challenges they've faced, and the impact of sharing authentic stories. The episode highlights the transformative power of storytelling in helping individuals feel less alone in their struggles, particularly emphasizing hope, redemption, and the journey through addiction recovery. Ben, celebrating 21 years of sobriety, shares insights on navigating life post-addiction, underscoring the importance of community and authentic relationships.Support the show

Send us Fan MailJordan shares his story of becoming a pastor and the toll it took on his life. The lessons he has learned through the hard times he's faced. He has overcome a lot and is still in the process of his healing journey. Jordan is the host of the Flatbed Podcast and is involved in the Hondo Rodeo production company.Support the show

Send us Fan MailThis episode centers around a deeply moving conversation, exploring themes of redemption, vulnerability, and healing. Dylan recounts her struggles with past trauma, emphasizing the role that a supportive community played in her recovery. A poignant reflection on how a mother's love and the presence of encouraging friends kept her from succumbing to darkness. This episode sheds light on the internal battles many face and the importance of sharing personal stories to inspire others in similar situations. It is a testament to the power of human connection and resilience.Support the show

Send us Fan MailThis episode delves into Dylan's captivating life story from her upbringing on a ranch in Alturas, California, under her mother's guidance. The podcast reveals Dylan's resilience and ingenuity as she navigates the challenges of operating a horse training business across Idaho and Arizona. Dylan shares her real estate decisions, shaped by her mother's legacy and hard work. As the conversation unfolds,  Jeremy and Dylan recount their shared love for branding and cowboy culture, while inspiring listeners with tales of adventure, perseverance, and living courageously. Dylan's story is full of hard times and what happens when you don't give up. Tune in next week for part two. You can find Dylan on all social media @dylansperformancehorsesSupport the show