RELATIONSHIPS, POLYAMORY AND NON-MONOGAMY WITH DR ELI SHEFF

Do you ever think that maybe you need to see a couples therapist? Even if your sex life is good, don’t you think you deserve more? Wouldn’t it be nice to have a better, stronger, more  loving relationship? Join us with Author, Couples Therapist and Researcher, Dr Sara Nasserzadeh, who wants to create world peace – one relationship at a time. She has a unique perspective on love, sexual chemistry, sexual harmony and jealousy. She is passionate about exploring how human connections lead to meaningful and fulfilling relationships. GUEST: Dr Sara Nasserzadeh BIO: Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh is an author, speaker and thinking partner with a PhD in Social Psychology and specialization in Sexuality, Relationships, and Intercultural Fluency. Her commitment to the growth of our human community manifests itself through her multi-dimensional efforts as a thinking partner, educator, consultant, author, keynote speaker and media commentator.  As a sought-after speaker and expert facilitator, Dr. Nasserzadeh has presented more than 500 keynote addresses and workshops on a variety of topics across the globe. She has been a senior cultural advisor and strategic consultant for governments, international NGOs, United Nation-affiliated agencies, Fortune 500 companies, academic institutions, and professional organizations across 40 countries. Dr. Nasserzadeh is the recipient of multiple awards and accolades. In 2007, she received the World Association for Sexual Health runner-up award for Excellence and Innovation for her international work in sexuality education. In 2011, she was the winner of Pfizer’s Innovation of the Year Award for chairing the company’s Customer Insights Council and for designing an integrative strategic plan to make customers a priority for the enterprise. In 2025, Dr. Sara’s book – Love by Design – received the Vincent Clark Award from the California Association for Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT), which recognizes literary works that significantly advance the field of relational science. Dr. Sara has been featured by the BBC, ABC News, Al Jazeera, Hürriyet, Salamat, CNN, NPR, goop, and Shaw TV. She was named as one of the Best Love Doctors by Harper’s Bazaar, and one of the Women in the Know by Daily Mirror. DatingAdvice.com named her one of the 10 Best Sex and Dating Experts in 2015. In March 2018, she was honored by the British Council as a UK Alumni Award finalist in the category of Social Impact. This award is the most prestigious in the category of Education offered by The British Council. In 2021, she was honored by AASECT’s Award for Professional excellence. Combining her experience as a former member of the International Federation of Journalists and her research expertise, Dr. Sara created and hosted a program on sexuality and relationship issues for BBC World Service called The Whispers, which received the BBC’s Innovation of the Year Award in 2007. The program was the first of its kind in the Middle East and is still being broadcast, continuing to reach millions of Farsi-speaking viewers across the globe. Dr. Nasserzadeh is also a prolific and award-winning author with three books, several book chapters, peer-reviewed articles and white papers to her credit. Her new book, Love By Design: 6 Ingredients for a lifetime of love, is based on research with hundreds of couples over a decade.  She has served on the board of various professional organizations including the International Society for the Scientific Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH), World Association for Sexual health (WAS), American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), and California Psychological Association Division VII (CPA). Dr. Nasserzadeh serves at the Religion and Sexual & Reproductive Health Rights Task Force of the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) . Her current base is in Los Angeles, California, with an active travel agenda for speaking engagements and cultural explorations and research. Disclaimer: The primary scope of Dr. Sara’s work as a thinking partner and relationship consultant falls within the scope of coaching, which is future-oriented with an emphasis on action, accountability and follow through. She does not offer psychotherapy or mental health counseling.  

Have you ever considered expanding your relationship to include another person – not just for raw sex but to include love, intimacy and true bonding? Maybe a polyamorous relationship is meant for you. Join us with Polyamory Expert, Dr Eli Sheff from The Bonding Project, as we discuss all the different types of relationship bonding as well as all the different combinations and permutations in various polyamorous and other non-monogamous relationships. GUEST: DR ELI SHEFF BIO: A pioneer in research on polyamory, Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamory in the US, and the worldwide expert on poly families with children, having conducted the only longitudinal analysis of poly families with children to date. After teaching Sociology for 15 years at three universities, Dr. Sheff established the Sheff Consulting Group (SCG), a think-tank of academicians and professionals who specialize in legal and educational services for unconventional populations, and those who need to know about them. As the Senior Legal Consultant at SCG, Dr. Sheff specializes in families of sexual minorities, providing expert witness services, home evaluations for unconventional families facing child custody issues or attempting to adopt kids, and continuing education to lawyers, educators, counselors, and therapists. Her book The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple Partner Relationships and Families is being published by Rowman and Littlefield in 2013. THE BONDING PROJECT https://www.bondingproject.com/    

Do you consider yourself to be sexually savvy when it comes to understanding and respecting all the aspects of the LGBTQ+ community? Or perhaps you need a little refresher course about some of the nuances? Join us with sex and wellness writer, Gabrielle Kassel, as she shares her knowledge and understanding of naughty sexual practices such as queer sex, anal sex, fisting and sex without orgasm. From mis-matched libidos to re-defining sex, we get down and dirty with all the details. GUEST: Gabrielle Kassel BIO:   Gabrielle Kassel is a New York–based sex and wellness writer and CrossFit Level 1 Trainer. She’s become a morning person, tested over 200 vibrators, and eaten, drunk, and brushed with charcoal — all in the name of journalism. In her free time, she can be found reading self-help books and romance novels, bench-pressing, or pole dancing. Follow her on Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/gabriellekassel/

Are you curious about squirting orgasms? Wondering if they are real, only pee or just for porn stars. This mythological fluid, often referred to as “amrita”, nectar of the Gods, is a popular topic of discussion for people in The Lifestyle, and anyone who is open to exploring their sexuality. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Cari Oneal, who is a Sex and Intimacy Coach, specializing in couples who are in the Lifestyle or who want to get into the Lifestyle. She is an expert on Squirting Orgasms, and she takes us through some of the common myths related to squirting, as she explains female arousal and how every vulva-owner can squirt if they want to learn how. GUEST: Dr Cari Oneal BIO: Dr. Cari Oneal earned a PhD in Human Sexuality, is an EFT Practitioner, is certified as a Clinical Sexologist and Sex Coach. She has a private practice in Salt Lake City as a Sex and Relationship Positive Sexual Wellness Coach and sex educator. She is Co-organizer of Sex Positive Utah and hosts classes and workshops related to sexual wellness, sexual skill sets, and relationship dynamics. The emphasis of her work is sexual health, awareness, education, and coaching on sex-positive topics and behaviors. Dr Oneal takes great pride in helping you find and master YOU OWN authentic voice and behaviors for sex so that you’ll feel confident about who you are and what you’re Creating. Let's talk about what's got you stuck, traumas never dealt with, stories never told, and beliefs that keep you from being who you want to be.  www.drcarioneal.com  

Join us in this special 500th episode where we have one of our favorite guests discussing her book which is so relevant to our mantra, ‘Great Sex Matters… and we all deserve it’. If you have ever wondered why great sex matters, then you are on the right track to understanding yourself, your body and the reasons why you need pleasure and intimacy. Join us with Sex Therapist, Dr Nan Wise Author of “Why Good Sex Matters” as we discuss many topics from her book, like: How pleasure is a necessity, What drives intimacy, When our health is affected by our sex life, How shame and sexual repression hurt us, Why stress is the ultimate desire killer and so much more. GUEST: Dr Nan Wise BIO: Dr. Nan Wise is a licensed psychotherapist, cognitive neuroscientist, certified sex therapist, board certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist with three decades of experience. Driven by an intense desire to understand how the brain operates to create moods and behaviors, she returned to academia in 2009 to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience at Rutgers-Newark where she completed her dissertation project, “Genital stimulation, imagery, and orgasm in women: an fMRI analysis” in August of 2014. Her research has attempted to address gaps in the scientific literature regarding the neural basis of human sexuality, and as a result, has garnered international attention. Dr. Nan’s interest in the biology of emotional well-being is both personal and professional. She was born into a family predisposed to anxiety and suffered her first panic attack at age 21 while working at a psychiatric hospital. Although she initially grappled with feelings of shame and embarrassment, she discovered that her willingness to be authentic about her own struggles proved to be a major breakthrough. By accepting her anxiety and embracing her personal quest to find ways to loosen and soften around it, she became a lifelong student and teacher of what she needed (and continues to need) to practice and learn. Check out her new book on Sex: Why Good Sex Matters

Are you looking to take “50 Shades” to the next level? Perhaps you are curious about kinky play and need additional information to get started.  Join us with Sex Educator and Kink Expert, Gigi Engle, author of the book, “Kink Curious” as she provides extensive information about the world of kink from kink identity to safe words, aftercare and everything else in between. How far do you want to go? GUEST: Gigi Engle BIO: Gigi Engle is a feminist author, certified sex coach, sexologist and sex educator. As a sexpert with Lifestyle Condoms, she promotes and teaches about pleasure-based sex education and safer sex practices. Gigi serves as a Pleasure Professional with O.School, where she teaches a number of classes centered around pleasure sexual health and confidence. Her work regularly appears in many publications including Brides, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Teen Vogue, Glamour and Women’s Health. Gigi formerly was the sex and dating writer for Thrillist Media Group and the senior sex and lifestyle writer for Elite Daily. Gigi’s articles have been shared over 50 million times. She also writes an advice column: Ask Gigi and is an original member of The Women of Sex Tech. BOOKS: All The Fucking Mistakes: a Guide to Sex, Love and Life Kink Curious: A Guide to Exploring Your Kinks, Dispelling Shame and Staying Safe  

Are you looking for new ways to explore and share your fantasies with your partner? Perhaps you find it hard because you feel shy or ashamed of how much you want to try new sexual adventures with your partner and with other people too? Do you have difficulty opening-up the conversation and talking about your wants and needs for better sex? Join us with a sexy-fun couple at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we talk about their experiences with opening-up and pushing their boundaries to discover new and exciting ways to incorporate her bisexuality and his desire to keep her satisfied and fulfilled. We get deep into orgasms, orgies and anal play and why they love going to Hedonism II Resort so much.   When you choose Topless Travel, you’re choosing days filled with sun-soaked fun and nights pulsating with raw, vibrant energy. You’re choosing to explore hidden gems in wonderful locations, to lose yourself in the excitement of life, and to indulge in delights that are as diverse as they are erotic.  Indulge in Exclusive Perks From the moment you embark on your journey with us, you’ll be treated to express check-in, welcoming you to the start of a fantastic adventure. Dive into our welcoming cocktail receptions, where you’ll get a taste of the thrill that’s in store. In your welcome bag, you’ll discover a treasure trove of goodies, from personalized name necklaces to unique keepsakes. Join Us for Fun and Games With Topless Travel, there’s never a dull moment. Expect special pool games that will get your heart racing, and happy hours that will have you raising your glasses and toasting to the good life. Want more? How about daily prizes, giveaways, and raffles that add an extra sprinkle of excitement to your vacation? Travel with Your Tribe Traveling with Topless Travel offers you more than a getaway; it’s a golden ticket to a vibrant community of like-minded pleasure-seekers. Revel in the joy of meeting new friends and dive into captivating conversations by the poolside, dance the night away with newfound companions, or share a sunset with fellow travelers who share your lust for adventure. With Topless Travel, every journey is a celebration of life, love, and the connections we make along the way. Explore Beyond the Ordinary Craving for more adventure? We’ve got you covered. With access to a wide range of excursions, you have the opportunity to experience the local culture, sights, and sounds of our incredible destinations. Experience Exceptional Service Throughout your journey, our on-site Topless Travel agents will be at your service, ensuring your experience is as seamless as it is exciting. We’re here to make your adventure as enjoyable and carefree as possible. So, are you ready to take the plunge into a world of adventure, fun, and sensual excitement? Start your Topless Travel journey today! toplesstravel.com

Are you looking for a wider understanding of the consequences of opening-up your relationship? What are the pros and cons of adding consensual non-monogamy into your couple? Join us with Intimacy Expert and Relationship Coach, Jim Fleckenstein, Author of ‘Love That Works: 38 Awesome Hacks for Amazing Relationships”, as we chat about how to decide if non-monogamy is right for you and if yes, how to approach your partner and deal with the reactions and opinions of friends and family about your choice. Guest: Jim Fleckenstein BIO: James R. Fleckenstein is a sexuality and relationships researcher, educator, author and coach with over twenty years of experience helping people improve their intimate relationships. Jim's expertise has been recognized by invitations to present at 13 major sexuality/relationship therapy and research professional conferences since 2002. He’s also reached hundreds at over 20 lay conferences. He specializes in non-monogamy. His relationship research has been published in peer-reviewed journals and included as academic book chapters. Jim’s most recent publication appeared in The Archives of Sexual Behavior. He’s been interviewed by the Chicago Tribune and the Guardian, been a featured guest on radio and podcasts, and quoted in web publications like Best Life and The Zoe Report. His book, Love That Works: 38 Awesome Hacks for Amazing Relationships, debuted in December, 2019. The companion workbook, Navigating the Heart: Daily Steps for Courageous Relationship Growth, came out in 2022. Promo code SLPodcast25 for free e-book "Shit You're Gonna Hear When You Propose Nonmonogamy"  Click this link https://unlockingmonogamy.com/sygh-free. Links: Main page https://www.affirmativeintimacy.com Book page: https://www.getltw.com Nonmonogamy resource page: https://www.affirmativeintimacy.com/nonmonogamy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/affirmativeintimacy Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jim-fleckenstein-6936681/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachjim20110/

Do you get annoyed when you talk to people who think they know everything, especially when it comes to the topic of sex? They figure they’ve been having sex for decades, and they’re pretty good at it by now… what else is there to know? Well, if you have an open mind and want to be more informed about sex and sexuality, then join us with Sue McGarvie, from Nookie College for Naughty Knowledge, as we talk about the top 10 things you didn’t know you didn’t know about sex. GUEST:  Sue McGarvie Bio: Sue McGarvie is a clinical sex therapist, media personality, and unapologetic champion of pleasure with over 30 years of experience helping people connect and thrive. She’s the host of the top-25 Turned On with Sue and John podcast, and she previously hosted the syndicated Sex with Sue radio show, heard in markets across North America. She’s also Head Mistress of Nookie College—“the community college of naughty knowledge”—and founder of The Ducklings, a lifestyle-light community now in its 15th year. Called “North America’s funniest therapist,” Sue has written four books on sex, with her latest, The Suburban Hedonist, out this fall. When she’s not talking about sex, Sue owns 25 red dresses, runs with scissors, and somehow still manages to keep her 80’s band hair perfectly frizzed in hot weather.    

Are you ready for a succulent description of female ejaculation, the elusive and mysterious squirting process, also known as amrita, the sweet nectar of the gods. Join us with Dr Saida Desilets as she delves into the wondrous details of squirting and omni orgasms. The discussion is hot and delicious and will leave wanting to come back for more, pun intended. GUEST: Saida Desilets BIO: Saida Désilets, PhD is a thought-leader, speaker, and ‘Succulence Revolutionary’ on the growing edge of researching how women can use their minds, bodies, and spirits to create richer lives through their sensual selves. She’s the world leading authority in the Jade Egg practice and founder of the Désilets Method, a system that creates more pleasure, sexual aliveness, and deep self-love. She is a co-contributor to the best-selling books of Dr. Christiane Northrup and Dr. Rachel Abrams and has led transformational workshops and seminars for women around the globe for the past 13 years. She is the author of the Emergence of the Sensual Woman: Awakening Our Erotic Innocence, and serves as a guide to women who believe in transformation as a lifelong path of learning, discovery, and walk to freedom. https://saidadesilets.com/