200th Episode Special with Meg Davis

Kate Moyle is a UK Leading Sex and Relationship Therapist, and today she is joining us to discuss all of the questions you guys have put to her. "Is there something wrong with me" "We never have sex any more" "I'm too tired from training to even think about sex" Thanks so much to kate for coming down and giving us her time on this episode, we know you guys will love it! You can find more of Kate here: https://www.katemoyle.co.uk https://www.instagram.com/katemoyletherapy/?igsh=NmF2MTN2MGVzY25h You can buy her new book: The Science of Sex, here: https://www.katemoyle.co.uk/book If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners!  https://mycoach-school.com/join  Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis:  Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon:  Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ Timestamps 00:00 Intro  02:20 - Kate: How much sex should we be having? 6:05 - Ways to bring up sex as a difficult conversation. 8:05 - Money and Sex are super awkward to chat about, miscommunications are easy. 9:20 - Male Vs Women Sex Drives 14:50 Women Want 2 Partners, Men want 64 24:20 Optimising the bedroom for sex31:50 Lighthearted sex is the way forward  33:05 Abstinence and the nofap movement  36:50 The Neurochemical side of sex. 39:50 Is there a negative side to pornography?43:05 Raising the conversation of pornography within a relationship 46:50 We are in a primary relationship with our phones 48:50 The opportunities to cheat during the modern age. 52:20 I’m too tired after working out and working all day to have sex: help  55:40 My boyfriend is more interested in p**n than in having sex with me.

To mark our 200th episode we are back today with the one and only Megan Davis to chat about their most recent marathon in Geneva! If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro 3:00 ben is pulling out of hyrox worlds 4:00 meg entrance at 5:45 running to the moon 11:00 cow caller add in photos from Cathrene 12:30 more eyes or legs in the world 14:20 geneva mara how was your training? 16:20 not having the right feeling on the start line is awful 18:45 lucy was an American motivator during the race 22:45 Meg went blind 26:00 Lucy and Meg’s parents 29:30 Doing a Hyrox after being marathon ready, how does it feel? 35:00 what’s harder hyrox or marathon? 37:30 Training for a half marathon is ideal 46:00 3 things that they have learnt from the marathon 1:04:30 The cross country race 1:08:00 Not everyday is a good day

In the final installment of this 2 parter we are diving into what supps we take, giving you the exact stacks we currently take, talking specifics on our gear and finally answering the question of paying money to see our feet... If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro  03:00 Lucy’s personal worth is dependant on doing hard things.  13:30 Supplements for hybrid training  15:00 Supplements are not a replacement for a proper diet.  17:00 Omega 3 Pills  22:00 Protein  33:00 Glucosamine 38:30 Electrolytes 40:30 Greens  41:30 You just shit them out  43:30 Shoes and Equipment for Hyrox  47:00 Ben hates sketchers  52:45 Weareables  1:01:00 headphones  1:06:00 Running Belts  1:07:00 Arm sleeves  1:10:00Sunglasses  1:11:00  fly while running  1:12:30 Licking a heart rate monitor 

In this 2 parter, we are diving straight into everything you could possibly need to set yourself up for hybrid training, equipment, nutrition, supps, you name it, we're covering it. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro  4:32 Training to be Hybrid  9:30 What is Hybrid  11:30 hybrid nutrition  17:50 Six pack Diets  21:30 is it possible to eat clean 24/7 27:30 Would Lucy ever do a  cooking class? 30:00 carbs  38:00 Fats  41:32 Meal timings  45:30 Intra workout nutrition  54:12 Gels during a marathon  55:30 Post Workout Nutrition 

Join Ben today to discuss the 5 most important takeaways he has gathered from his time battling a complicated ED and a long mental health battle. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/

Today we weigh in to the age old debate, are men as dangerous as grizzly bears? In other less ridiculous news, we are also going over how best to train for a HYROX, false assumptions about us, how to live together with your partner in harmony and advice on how you can start vloggin without feeling awkward. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 intro and movie reccs 05:30 meg’s first marathon 09:30 Ben’s Hyrox 14:00 False assumptions 16:00 This isn’t doable for everyday people. 22:00 How was the start of living together? Was it always easy? 29:00 Men Vs Bears 45:00 Holiday Food Guilt 49:00 Cringey Vlogging

How can we make Hyrox better for us personally? Learning to stop training and relax, how to use your whoop and so much more covered ion this weeks Q&A episode guys. Massive thanks to everyone who sent their questions in! If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/

Shane Parish is the New York Times Bestselling author behind the incredible Clear Thinking, and today we are lucky enough to sit down with him to chat about all of the ways that our minds hold us back, the key steps you can take towards personal growth, and discuss how to be the best version of yourself. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro 02:00 Emotional reactions and strategies for dealing with them 13:45 Blocking people who you cannot deal with 19:05 The behaviours your ideal self would want 22:40 Taking responsibility 31:15 Nice vs Kind People 36:50 Quitting 47:15 Dealing with the fear of failure 52:20 Surrounding yourself with success

After months of training, race day is here, but are you actually going to be able to perform? After a weekend of massive PB's all around here at The Not So Fit Couple Podcast, we think it's high time to discuss the mentality of a PB, how to prep the best way possible and best practices for race day. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro 02:30 Ben is a window shopper 04:00 Ben and Lucy's PB's this month 08:00 12 Weeks Til Summer 10:00 Building your battery 13:00 Shake out runs 17:00 Taper week prior to an event 23:15 Whoop before an event? 25:30 Electrolytes 28:00 Beetroot pees 31:30 Carbs, nutrition and peaking 41:00 Marathon gels 45:00 Nutrition the morning of a marathon 49:00 Olympian Mcdonalds nutrition 51:30 Bill and Ben at Hyrox 55:00 Tips for raceday

Lucy just returned from running 340 miles from LA to Las Vegas with an insane crew, how did it go and what went wrong? If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00:00 Intro 00:04:00 What is the Speed Project 00:9:30 Logistics of Running 340 Miles 00:11:50 This wasn't your normal ultra 00:20:00 The ups and down of an ultra 00:25:00 The hardest Part of Running as a Woman 00:33:30 Death Valley - Vegas 00:41:00 The Finish Line 00:48:00 Doing TSP Again?