
Why Do We Hate Spoilers and Love Easter Eggs?
Spoilers, Easter Eggs and How We Pay Attention to the Future
In this solo episode, I follow a question I couldn't let go of: why do so many people hate spoilers but love Easter eggs? And what might that tell us about how we react to signals, trends and possible futures?
This podcast is where I follow my curiosity and look at things I think need more attention. This one starts somewhere unexpected: arguments on Threads about TV shows, movies and books.
I should say up front that this is a theory. There isn't much research behind it yet. It's an idea that needs fleshing out, so I'm asking for your patience while I work through it out loud.
I'm a spoiler person
I grew up on Choose Your Own Adventure books. I read each one once the way it was meant to be read, then went back and read every other path. I wanted to see how the story was built, what changed when you made different decisions, and how those choices made the story feel different.
That's still how I enjoy storytelling. I love spoilers. If I can't find them, I go looking. I check IMDb. I look for hidden cameos and what they might mean ahead of time so I can spot the craft while I watch.
Why do people get so angry?
On Threads, people either love spoilers or hate them, and the people who hate them can get angry. Some get abusive, insulting and completely unpleasant.
My first reaction was about accountability. You choose where you put your attention. If spoilers upset you, you can hide comments, mute the show's name, mute the actors. You have some control over your feed.
Then someone pointed out that if your work is on social media and you have to engage professionally, you don't always have the option to look away. Being able to disengage is a privilege. That was fair.
I could feel myself getting pulled into the divide too. But when I started having the same kind of interaction over and over, I got curious. That's usually my signal that something more than one person's instinctive reaction is going on.
So I started asking complete strangers online what the difference is.
What a spoiler does
From those conversations, a spoiler seems to be anything that changes your perception of what the story is and what the outcome could be, in a way the original artist didn't intend.
One woman told me she also appreciates the craft. For her, reading other people's interpretations online means experiencing the work through the filters of thousands of other people. They have biases. They misinterpret things. They're less talented than the artists who made it. Reading spoilers filters the work in a way she doesn't enjoy.
That made complete sense to me. I read the spoilers, but I always filter them through my own perceptions.
Spoilers and anxiety
My other thought was about anxiety. My older daughter has anxiety, and she's explained to me over the years that she likes rewatching stories because there are no surprises. She knows exactly how the episode goes and how the movie ends. There's comfort in that reliability.
So which way does it run? Do I like spoilers because I'm trying to find the one story that actually matters and set the rest aside, as a way of managing my own anxiety about how it ends? Or do people who hate spoilers love sitting with all the possibilities, and a spoiler narrows those down to one before they're ready?
Either way, it might be about managing anxiety around what it means to go from many possibilities to one story.
I don't know. I've been reading about the science of anticipation, and the research is limited.
Before, during and after the story
When we read or share stories, we're anticipating how they'll go, how they'll be revealed, how we'll feel along the way, what the outcome will be and what it will mean to us.
Then there's what happens after. I almost never rewatch TV or movies. I might reread a book five years later. I've been rewatching '90s rom-coms lately because they're available and sometimes there's nothing else on, and I've forgotten enough that it feels new. But generally, once I've gotten everything I can out of a show or movie, I'm done. I find new things in the written word that I don't find in visual mediums.
Is an Easter egg a spoiler?
My younger daughter, who's 19, had a good take on this. A spoiler narrows the story down to one. It reveals constraints on what the story could possibly be.
An Easter egg preserves the possibilities. Nothing is confirmed until you see the final product. The artist is directing your attention, but you're still free to wonder.
Taylor Swift is the obvious example. She uses Easter eggs in her marketing to keep people excited about her music and the decisions she's making in her career. She's also set no-go zones. She has said she doesn't plant Easter eggs about her personal life. Album details, number of songs, themes, colours, release dates: those are fair game.
Some of them we probably never notice. During the Eras Tour, the stage became a chessboard for "Mastermind," and most people didn't get it. She disclosed it in a book she published after the tour.
Easter eggs give you agency. You go looking for them. They spark your curiosity, make you feel empowered and connect you with a community of people looking for the same answers. Nobody has the true answer until it's confirmed or there's consensus.
That curiosity feels good. The possibilities give you hope. They keep you guessing and engaged. Spoilers do the opposite. They narrow things down, and you lose agency. Even if your job means you can't log off, you've lost the control to choose how you experience something you care about.
Nobody agrees on what counts
People do try. They post spoiler warnings. Threads has a blur function, which I've been told sometimes malfunctions. I've used it and still had people come after me for spoilers.
And what counts as a spoiler? Even the broadest comment can be read as one. There's no shared definition of when it's acceptable to talk about something, what's fair game or what counts as public knowledge.
My example is The Odyssey. That story is about 2,700 years old. When Christopher Nolan's film came out, people complained that the Trojan horse was a spoiler. At what point is something common knowledge?
Recency bias plays a big part. So does respect. Are people giving you the choice to engage, or acknowledging that you might not have had time to watch it yet? And why can't we say "please don't tell me, this one matters to me" in a way that keeps the relationship intact and still appreciates the craft?
That connects to reputation, which is a real problem on social media right now, especially on platforms where you can post under an anonymous username and behave in ways you wouldn't if people knew your real name.
Christmas, time zones and streaming
I expected this topic to set people off. Instead, many people engaged with nuance and genuinely advanced my understanding of how they experience art. Some were patronizing and tried to make me feel dumb because what a spoiler is should be "obvious."
One woman compared it to a kid at Christmas who accidentally tells you what your present is. They didn't mean to, but Christmas is ruined.
There's a lot of nuance in that example. Christmas has an agreed-upon date. There are rituals of hiding: you wrap presents and disguise them. There's a set time to open them, shaped by family tradition. My German family opens presents on Christmas Eve.
Streaming has none of that. Everyone watches whenever they want. There's no agreed date or time and no global rule. Add time zones: someone who got access 12 hours earlier might think it's fair game, without accounting for people whose release landed in the middle of the night.
So I think this touches how much we value storytelling. We anticipate something we believe will bring us joy, keep us curious and offer a different perspective on the world. When someone takes that from us, it feels like a loss. That's where people get nasty: "You're taking this from me."
What this might mean for the future
Here's the part that fascinates me. If people react this strongly to how a story ends, is that part of why some people resist imagining possible futures?
I don't know that it translates directly. I don't have a degree in neuroscience. Low-stakes pop culture is very different from questions like the future of work or how AI will affect our jobs, the big strategic questions that could reshape how we live and work.
But I wonder if it's a signal worth researching. Does it matter how we present change and reinvention?
- If we present the future like Easter eggs, does that help people trust it?
- If we present it like a spoiler, "this is the story and this is the only possibility," does that trigger defensiveness? It might.
To me, there isn't one single future. There are many, because there are endless permutations of how people experience life and work. Scenarios are useful. They give context and help people imagine. But they also narrow a set of possibilities into one specific story. And from what I'm seeing in pop culture, that experience of narrowing can trigger defensiveness and division.
That's why I want to lean into Easter eggs: the signals and trends that keep possibilities open. And it's what I want to research more.
Questions for you
- Do you like spoilers or avoid them?
- Why do you write about what you watch, read or consume on social media? What reaction do you expect, and how does it make you feel?
- How do hints and clues affect you? Do they pull you into a story or turn you off?
- If you don't pay attention to those details in stories, do you also tend to miss trends and signals?
- How do you make decisions about the future, and is it the same process?
I think we write because we're looking for connection, that collective effervescence you feel at a concert or a play, where only the people in that room share that particular version of the performance.
These questions are really an exercise in understanding your worldview: how you experience ambiguity and uncertainty, and how you make decisions when you don't know.
A small experiment
I'm running an experiment to see whether this podcast can appear on the Canadian charts. I'm not particularly drawn to charts. But I'm asking whether it's a civic duty to maximize discoverability so Canadian voices show up. If more of us appear on podcast charts around the world, does that make us more competitive and less dependent on the United States, in a way that advances our sovereignty?
It's low stakes. Subscribe on whatever podcast player you use, and we'll see what happens.
I'd love to hear your questions. Email me at [email protected], or leave a comment, rating or review wherever you listen.
resources:
Spoilers and enjoyment
- Spoiler alert: Stories are not spoiled by 'spoilers' (ScienceDaily): Leavitt & Christenfeld, 2011, Psychological Science. Summary only.
- Spoiler alert: spoilers make you enjoy stories more (University of California): the same research, with follow-up work. Summary only.
- Story spoilers can hurt entertainment (Phys.org): Johnson & Rosenbaum, 2015, Communication Research. Summary only.
- Not all spoilers reduce enjoyment of short stories (On Fiction): Levine, Betzner & Autry replication. Summary only.
- Do spoilers spoil stories for everyone? (On Fiction): Rosenbaum & Johnson on need for affect and need for cognition. Summary only.
- Who's afraid of spoilers? (VU Amsterdam record): Rosenbaum & Johnson, 2016, Psychology of Popular Media Culture, 5(3), 273-289. Record only.
- Spoiler alert: why some people want to know what happens next (TODAY): read. Source of the "emotion junkies" label, which is the journalist's, not a research term.
- Spoiler Preference Psychology (All About Psychology, republished from The Conversation): Anjum Naweed on control as the shared motive. Read. Original at The Conversation.
- A study using all three spoiler types (CORE): no significant effect on overall enjoyment, some reduction in suspense. Abstract only.
Rewatching and control
- Why We Watch the Same Shows Over and Over (Psychology Today): Robert Kraft, 2022. Read. A blog post.
- Russell, C.A. & Levy, S.J. (2012), Journal of Consumer Research, 39(2), 341-359, doi.org/10.1086/662996
Storytelling and the brain
- Brains of storytellers and listeners sync up (Discover): Stephens, Silbert & Hasson, PNAS. Small sample. Summary only.
- How a speaker herds the audience (Chang, Nastase, Zadbood & Hasson): 2024 follow-up. Abstract only.
- Neural Processing of Narratives (Jääskeläinen et al., 2020): review. Abstract only.
- Discovering event structure in continuous narrative perception and memory (Baldassano et al., 2017): the brain anticipates familiar narratives. Abstract only.
Memory, imagination and foresight
- The Future of Memory: Remembering, Imagining, and the Brain (Schacter et al., 2012, Neuron): read. Overlap between remembering and imagining, with the caveats noted above.
- The Neurocognitive Architecture of Human Anticipation (Megan Anderson, Affective Foresight): read.
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