When Should I Be "Over It"?

When someone dies, grief reaches beyond those we most often think of. Siblings, grandparents, and other family members may be carrying deep sorrow that goes unnoticed simply because their grief doesn't look the way we expect.In Part 2 of Every Journey Is Different, from their Jesus Heals Broken Hearts series, Charlie and Jill share personal reflections from their daughters about losing their brother, Beau, and the different ways their whole family experienced the same loss.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  –When Loss Comes Close to Home (LeBlanc): https://charlieandjill.com/when-loss-comes-close-to-homeTony Cooke Article: https://its-okay-to-cryWatch So Thankful nature video: https://youtu.be/so_thankfulWatch The God Of All Comfort nature video: https://youtu.be/god_of_all_comfort –  –  –  –  –  –  –  –Finding Hope After Loss Grief Course: https://charlieandjill.com/coursesBecome A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ #grief #griefjourney #loss #help #hope #christian #podcast

There's no single way to walk through loss. Even within the same family, the loss of someone we love can affect each person differently.In Part 1 of Every Journey is Different, Charlie and Jill revisit their series, Jesus Heals Broken Hearts, first shared on Healing Journeys Today. They explore why we can't compare our grief to someone else's, how our relationships shape the way we experience loss, and why understanding these differences matters as we navigate our own grief and support others through theirs.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  – When Loss Comes Close to Home (LeBlanc): https://charlieandjill.com/when-loss-comes-close-to-homeLiving When A Loved One Has Died (Grollman): https://www.amazon.com/Living-When-Loved-One-DiedA Bruised Reed (song by Charlie & Jill): https://www.youtube.com–  –  –  –  –  –  –  –Finding Hope After Loss Grief Course: https://charlieandjill.com/coursesBecome A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ #grief #griefjourney #loss #help #hope #christian #podcast

Grief that lingers. Pain that remains or resurfaces. The pressure to move on.                                                                                                                                                                                                          In this episode of Finding Hope, Charlie welcomes the Rev. Billy Cerveny for a conversation about the lasting impact of loss and the comfort of knowing that God doesn't expect us to be “over it” by a certain time. –  –  –  –  –  –  –  –The Rev. Billy Cerveny is an Episcopal priest, writer, and musician. He serves as associate rector at St. Mark's Episcopal Church in Jacksonville, Florida. Follow Billy on Instagram (@billy.cerveny) or X (@billycerveny), and listen to his music on Spotify or Apple Music. You can also hear Billy preach at The River every Sunday at 5 PM by tuning in at https://www.smjax.org. Learn more about Billy's path to St. Mark’s here: https://stmarksjacksonville.org/clergy-staff –  –  –  –  –  –  –  – Finding Hope After Loss Grief Course: https://charlieandjill.com/coursesBecome A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ #grief #griefjourney #loss #help #hope #christian #podcast

Sometimes the battle isn't what is happening around you. Sometimes the battle is what you're beginning to believe because of what is happening around you.In Part 2 of Guard Your Heart, Charlie and Jill talk about holding on to what you know about God, even when life hasn't turned out the way you expected. Don't let what happened to you determine what you believe about God. Your loss will always be part of your story, but it doesn't change who God is.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  –Finding Hope After Loss Grief Course: https://charlieandjill.com/coursesBecome A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ #grief #griefjourney #loss #help #hope #christian #podcast 

The enemy wants to use grief, pain, and disappointment to change what you believe about God.                                                                                                                                                                                                              In Part 1 of this two-part series, Charlie and Jill talk about what it means to guard your heart when life has left you hurting. They share the importance of paying attention to what is taking place within you and not allowing what happened to you to have the final word in your life.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  –Finding Hope After Loss Grief Course: https://charlieandjill.com/coursesBecome A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ #grief #griefjourney #loss #help #hope #christian #podcast

Grief can leave you feeling unseen and alone—especially when the deepest parts of your pain are hidden from everyone around you.Beginning with the story of Hagar, Charlie and Jill share the reminder that you don’t have to hide your grief from God. He sees every tear, hears every cry, and understands the sorrow you may not even have words to express.Even when no one else sees the depth of your pain, God does—and He doesn’t just see it from a distance. He meets you in it.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  –Download: 5 Points to Help You Through LossBecome A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ #grief #griefjourney #loss #help #hope #christian #podcast 

In this episode of Finding Hope, Charlie and Jill share five points to help you navigate grief and give yourself a little more grace along the journey. You don’t have to rush this. You don’t have to grieve like anyone else. Give yourself the time you need as you take small steps forward.And be sure to download your copy of Five Points to Help You Through Loss below.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  –Download: 5 Points to Help You Through LossBecome A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ #grief #griefjourney #loss #help #hope #christian #podcast 

You believed for healing, but the loss still came—and now you’re living with questions you can’t resolve.In this episode of Finding Hope, Charlie and Jill sit down with longtime friend and Bible teacher Tony Cooke to talk about the complicated grief that can follow when questions linger and how to begin moving forward by trusting God even when there are things you simply do not know or understand.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  –Tony's Website: https://tonycooke.org/Life After Death: https://tonycooke.org/product/life-after-death  (also on Amazon) Become A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ #grief #griefjourney #loss #help #hope #christian #podcast

For days, you’re carried by necessity. There are decisions to make, things to do, and the funeral itself. From the outside, it may even look like you’re doing remarkably well. And then life begins to return to normal for those around you. In this episode of Finding Hope, Charlie and Jill talk about what happens when all the activity surrounding a loss grows quiet—and why it’s important for us to keep showing up long after everyone else has gone home.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  –Become A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_ 

The person you lost occupied a real place in your life—and that relationship doesn’t suddenly become meaningless when they die.  Their absence matters because the relationship mattered.In this episode of Finding Hope, Charlie and Jill are joined by longtime friends Butch and Julieann Hartman. Butch, creator of The Fairly OddParents, shares about the sudden loss of his longtime friend and composer, Guy Moon, while Julieann shares candidly about losing her mother.Through their stories, they talk honestly about what it’s like to live with the empty space someone leaves behind. Although the person you love is no longer here, the love you shared, the memories you carry, and the impact of their life remain.–  –  –  –  –  –  –  – Donate to Healing Journeys Today: https://www.tinyurl.com/HJTdonateNYCHealing Journeys Today: https://www.healingjourneystoday.com/Become A Hope Partner: https://charlieandjill.com/hope-partnersShop our Store:  https://charlieandjill.com/shopDownload FREE Resources: https://charlieandjill.com/welcome/Find all our latest links and offers in one place: https://linktr.ee/charlieandjillleblancStay Connected with Charlie & Jill:Website: CharlieandJill.comYouTube: @CharlieJillLeBlancFacebook: /CharlieandJillLeBlancInstagram: /charlieandjillX (Formerly Twitter): /charlieandjill_