She Changed Her Mind

A new season, a new voice, and a new chapter. The Ex-Files Podcast returns for Season 2 with Àdè and ‘Bami, bringing fresh perspectives, honest conversations, and stories about relationships, experiences, and the lessons that shape us.

In this episode, Vanessa and Àdè' talk about that awkward middle ground between saying yes and saying I do. From cold feet to changing hearts, they unpack why some love stories don’t make it to the altar and what it really means to walk away before forever begins.

In this episode we have our second ever guest and Nigerian musician (anti-japa-after-previous-japa expert) @je——— as we explore the negative will to exchange value for pay in the country across all sectors, strengthening the constant need for movement and change in lifestyle in search of greener pasture. In short, people ex places because they don’t get the value expected.

well in all fairness the ultimate version of being an ex anything has to be death. The only form of permanence, where you end your relationship with the word as we know it (word to the ones who have gone and come back, we’d love to have you on an episode 😂) Dive into this random but real episode with Vans and Àdè through their unique perspective on birth into, living on and leaving this earth as we know it. Hope you stick to the end as the hosts have the most impossible question for you to answer 😂.

We made it to episode 4! You guys, we just might be on a roll. This time we explore the fluid dynamics of relationships - how they evolve, grow, and change across all the different types of relationships.

Vanessa brings along a friend to relieve the part most have painted as "the trauma brewery." Angel is a friend from high school, and she joins in as we open some not-so-deep wounds as these babes are soft pies. Meanwhile, Àdè calls up a now ex-con to share tales of how his ex-girlfriend landed him in jail.

Àdè spent the whole of this episode complaining about how easy it for his exes to change their mind once the love clears from their eyes. But let’s not act as if Vans didn’t just buttress his point by discarding Genesis & Nas and declaring our new official podcast name. Also, pray for us as we search for our first guest.

While the world celebrated the month of love, these two individuals were asking the real question that matters - “What happens after the love ends?” Follow Vans and Àdè as they explore the most ideologistical (or whatever he said) outcomes of ended relationships whether professional, romantic, familial or platonic on the Ex Files Podcast. P.S for context this pod centers a Yoruba man and Igbo babe talking about love in Lagos.Let’s say no more!