How to Make Setbacks Bow Down To You

Becoming A Cheat Code Setbacks aren’t stop signs—they’re setups. In this episode, I’m showing you how to become your own cheat code by turning every “no,” delay, and disadvantage into an unfair advantage. If you’ve ever felt behind in life, like everyone else had a head start, or like your journey’s been nothing but setbacks—this one’s for you.We’re talking:How to break out of the victim mindsetWays to turn lack of resources into creative leverageWhy “late” doesn’t mean “less than”And how to build confidence while you’re still figuring it outThis is for the underdogs, the late bloomers, and the “start again” girls. It’s time to stop playing by rules that weren’t made for you and start building a strategy that actually gets you ahead.

They say balance is the key… but what if it’s actually holding you back? 🤔✨ In this episode of Boldly Becoming, we’re unpacking the real struggle between balance and consistency—and why trying to ‘do it all’ might be stopping you from doing what actually matters.I’m sharing my own battle with staying consistent while building my media career, relaunching this podcast (again 😅), and finally finding a system that works.If you’ve ever felt stuck between maintaining ‘balance’ and going all-in on your dreams, this one’s for you. 

The biggest excuse I gave was that "I don't have time", until I recognised that I was just complacently using that time to do OTHER things that didn't necessarily feed into my goals. Today we're going over 3 hard truths that I had to face before getting into action on an episode we're calling "Becoming Disciplined". While I may not be a professional at discipline, I definitely have made TONS of progress, and I really think you can too -- so tap in! Creator's I mentioned (let them know I love them too!): Foyin (workout inspo) - https://www.instagram.com/p/C4h3UYYN6mT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Grace (Productivity) - https://www.instagram.com/grace._mondlana/ Leila Hormozi (Mindset & Business) - https://youtu.be/2Uyl9wOFRBM?si=p1U34IheYUnebhXQ Connect with me [email protected] https://www.instagram.com/baxbara/

Have you ever felt those nerves creeping in before a big date or an important interview? Trust me, you're not alone. In this episode of "Becoming Unshakeable," we explore practical strategies for staying calm, collected, and utterly unshakeable in high-pressure situations. From harnessing the power of mindfulness to embracing your unique strengths, we're sharing insights and personal anecdotes to help you ace those nerve-wracking moments with ease. So grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and get ready to become unshakeable in the face of nerves. Whether you're prepping for a first date or gearing up for a job interview, this episode has got you covered. Don't let nerves hold you back – it's time to step into your confidence and own the moment!

Ever feel like a fraud, even when you're achieving amazing things? You're not alone! This episode of Boldly Becoming dives deep with South African media personality Lasizwe Dambuza as he shares his personal battles with imposter syndrome and the powerful lessons he's learned about embracing his accomplishments. Join us for an inspiring conversation that will equip you with the tools to silence your inner critic and stand tall in your success.

No one outside your head knows the exact battles you're fighting or how many early mornings you've dragged yourself out of bed, but that doesn't mean it goes unnoticed. You're trying your best and that should be good enough FOR YOU, because that dedication is adding up and your season of reward is creeping up! (Read Col 3:23 & Gal 6:12)If my little life has taught me anything it's that nothing lasts forever, not hardships, not high moments, not even relationships. So how do you continue to show up consistently in an inconsistent world/life? My 3 takeaways this past week:1. Take a break (and don't wait for permission)In an age where we can see the opinions of LITERALLY the whole world, it's so important to take a moment to recalibrate with your own, take time out to search yourself and ask (God) whether the direction you're speeding off into -- is indeed correct.If a surgeon cuts 1cm too deep or a pilot flies 1 degree off, the end result is dramatically different, and that's how I'm trying to steward my energy. In the right direction with the right amount of commitment.2. Practice GratitudeThis art of gratitude has helped keep me grounded in my most exciting seasons, because I understand the value of the opportunities I'm living in and in times of desperation or despondency it helps me lift my eyes off of what I don't have so I can maximise what I do have.Soon you'll come to realize what God has given you and the responsibility that comes with it. Then wake up everyday and ask yourself: How are you bringing heaven on earth with the gifts heaven sent you with?3. You'll have to tune into the @boldly.becoming podcast on Friday to get this point 🤣😉❤️.Thought Inspo 🌸Ecclesiastes 3 MSGRomans 12:1-2 MSG‬‬‭‭Colossians 3:22-25 MSG‬‬

Feeling stuck in a rut lately? Trust me, you're not alone. In this episode of "Becoming Courageous," we're tackling the all-too-common struggle of getting out of that funk and smashing your life goals like a boss.I get it. Sometimes it feels like you're spinning your wheels, going nowhere fast. But here's the thing: you have what it takes to break free and make those dreams a reality.Tune in as I share practical tips, real talk, and a whole lot of inspiration to help you shake off that rut and step into your boldness. Don't keep this wisdom to yourself—share this episode with someone who needs a little extra motivation to start crushing it! The Boldly Becoming Podcast with Barbara Moagi Subscriber Count: 10 421 Work with me: [email protected]

In today's episode, and the spirit of Valentines, we'll dive deep into topics ranging from self-love and personal growth to navigating the complexities of modern dating and building lasting connections. Through candid conversations, expert insights, and real-life stories, I hope to inspire and guide you towards discovering the love you deserve. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply seeking to deepen your understanding of love and intimacy, this podcast is your go-to resource for heartfelt discussions and actionable advice.

Today we delve into the powerful art of self-worth and standing firmly in our value. Let's unravel the layers of people-pleasing behaviour, offering insights and key takeaways to help you embrace your intrinsic worth and reshape the dynamics of your relationships and endeavours. Discover the courage to set standards for how you deserve to be treated, valuing your worth unapologetically. Understand that being unafraid to walk away from situations, relationships, or opportunities that don't serve your best interests is a testament to your strength and self-respect. The key takeaways are clear and transformative: be unafraid to set the standard of how people should treat you or pay you, be unafraid to walk away from anything that doesn't serve you, and never betray yourself. These mantras are your compass on this journey towards self-empowerment, reminding you to honor your worth and prioritize your well-being in all aspects of your life.

Ready to dive into a time machine and drop some wisdom? 🎙️✨ Tune in to "Becoming Wise," where I take a heartfelt journey back to my high school days – those days of being a people-pleasing perfectionist and an aspiring content queen. 📚🎥 Join me as I serve up the advice I wish I could've whispered in my own ear. From embracing imperfections to realizing that it's okay not to have it all figured out, we're unraveling the lessons that took me years to learn. 🌟