#59 - Not Meeting Your Expectations with Thomas Arnold

Stephen Maguire, also known as 'The Dublin Writer' is an actor, writer, poet, and co-founder. Stephen's links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedublinwriter/Restore: https://www.instagram.com/restore_dub/ My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw

Mia Döring is a writer and psychotherapist with a focus on sexual trauma, who resides and practices in Dublin. 'Any Girl' marks her debut as a book author. Mia's links: Read about 'Any Girl': https://www.irishtimes.com/culture/books/irish-men-are-raping-women-for-money-all-across-the-country-1.4797680 Purchase 'Any Girl': https://www.amazon.co.uk/Any-Girl-Surviving-Prostitution-Ireland/dp/152937183X My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4OTDP4WEnjNRPgE3nz9PbC?si=2837f2e7ecbb45b7&nd=1 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/take-2-with-deb-shaw/id1596182959

Alan Dignam is a counsellor and psychotherapist accredited with the Irish Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (IACP) and a member of Psychologists Protection Society (PPS). 00:00 - Pluralistic Therapy 11:13 - The intersection of transgender people & ASD 25:45 - The double empathy problem 31:40 - The fear of diagnosis 38:04 - Self-diagnosis vs real diagnosis & social media 40:35 - The improvement in society & acceptance 47:30 - Where psychotherapy misses the mark 50:30 - Fear of getting it wrong 57:10 - The importance of having conversations 01:03:32 - The LGBT scene in 90's Ireland Alan's links: Website: www.dignamcounselling.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/dignamcounselling/ My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbieShaw

Corey Hennessy is an Irish entrepreneur and the founder of Vantage Agency. 0:00 - Moving to Barcelona 03:54 - The glamorisation of entrepreneurship 09:38 - Irish influencers 16:00 - Creative pursuits without affirmation 15:05 - Posting on social media 21:58 - What's your parachute? 34:52 - Impatience and longevity 44:30 - Starting a business 50:43 - Taking matters into your own hands 01:00:55 - Social health and sobriety 01:10:40 - Returning to Ireland 01:15:35 - The truth about taking risks 01:30:38 - Choosing where to move to 01:37:04 - Focus on what you can control 01:39:21 - Creative ideas and thoughts Corey's links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/corey.ie/ Website: https://vantageagency.co/ My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbieShaw

Leon Diop is a podcast host and the founder of 'Black and Irish'. 0:00 - Dog's personalities 07:50 - Growing up as mixed-race 14:05 - Feeling like 'you don't belog' 18:45 - The court case against Luas 21:39 - Stereotyping and biases 31:00 - Understanding racism 36:52 - Different forms of racism 42:05 - Embracing black culture vs 'blackfishing' 47:30 - Launching Black and Irish 58:30 - Can racism be solved? 01:04:45 - How to talk about racism Leon's links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leon_diop_/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@leondiop Podcast: https://www.rte.ie/radio/podcasts/series/33229-black-irish/ My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbieShaw

Baz Black is an award-winning actor, writer, and director. He's also an author, has toured doing stand-up comedy, and jiu-jitsu black belt. 0:00 - Becoming a spokesperson for tattoos 2:56 - The Kate Hopkins debate 15:31 - Being multi-talented 22:50 Committing to yourself 34:03 - Going independent 44:50 - Following your gut 51:59 - Monetising your passion 01:01:01 - Life in Dublin 01:09:12 - Dublin Crust 01:18:40 - Sharing knowledge Baz's links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bazblackpiercer/ IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm6034253/ Dublin Crust Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XjthOOrW5xk My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbieShaw

Beryl Ohas is a Kenyan LGBTQ+ activist and public speaker, who fled to Ireland in 2019 due to persecution in her homeland and now uses her platform to fervently advocate for refugee and LGBTQ+ rights. Drawing from her personal experiences, she captivates audiences with compelling narratives that highlight the challenges faced by both refugees and the LGBTQ+ community, her story stands as a testament to resilience, empathy, and the potential for societal change. 0:00 - Disclaimers 01:31 - Getting a Visa 04:57 - Misconceptions of Africa 14:16 - Enduring conversion therapy 20:09 - Pressure on activists 29:24 - The start of everything (TW) 38:01 - Being LGBT+ in Kenya 41:47 - Problems with the asylum process as a queer person 47:15 - The arranged marriage 01:05:59 - Where the immigration system fails 01:15:23 - Adapting to a new culture 01:27:09 - The power of conversation 01:30:01 - Understanding white privilege 01:35:05 - The next generation Beryl's links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/berrylohas/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BOHAS12 My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbieShaw

Mahon McCann is a writer, martial arts coach, podcast host, and a rising talent in the world of theatre. Known for his compelling writing style, McCann has successfully bridged his passion for literature with his academic pursuits. Currently undertaking a PhD at Dublin City University, his research focuses on the ethical quandaries posed by social media companies monetising user attention. His debut stage play, "Waiting for the Offo", is scheduled to show at The New Theatre in Dublin from July 4th to 8th. McCann's unique perspective and thought-provoking work have positioned him as a voice to watch in both the literary and academic realms. Mahon's Links: Waiting for the Offo tickets (only 45% left): https://thenewtheatre.ticketsolve.com/ticketbooth/shows/873644249 Instagram: www.instagram.com/mahon_mccann/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9YQWcG1-o8 Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/1uo1BoLDtLdT9i2pQrnLkb?si=f895e6cdd92f496b My links: Instagram: www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DebbieShaw/

Lydia Des Dolles is Ireland's first female combat sports presenter, founder of Fight Connect TV and podcast host. Lydia's links: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lydiadesdolles/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/@FightConnectTV Podcast: open.spotify.com/show/1ene0emghPoXUTSKH4XY92?si=9b94fce1152a4672 My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw Youtube: www.youtube.com/@DebbieShaw

Thomas Arnold is the Owner of Fearless Media and former co-founder of The Go House, Ireland's first TikTok house. Tom's links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsthomasarnold/ LinkedIn: https://ie.linkedin.com/in/thomasarnold2 Fearless Media: https://fearlessmedia.ie/ My links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debshaw/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_debshaw